Cougar Diaries

Accepting Rejection

2012-02-17T20:05:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

No one likes to be rejected. Whether it be from a friend, a loved one, a random person, etcetera, rejections just aren’t the greatest feelings. Aside from just people, being rejected from a job or school doesn’t provide the greatest feeling of content either. But, it is what happens in life and you just have to learn how to take the good with the bad.

I always like to use myself as an example, or guinea pig, when talking about a lot of things. It is because I know myself very well and who is better at picking me apart than me. So, here it was… I had made it up in my mind that I was surely going to graduate school, right after I graduate. I found what I believed to be the perfect school for me. They had exactly what I was looking for, to the “t”, but they didn’t feel that I would be a good fit for them. Now, of course, I feel that is not the case, but based upon what I provided to them, this is what they surmised.

When I received the letter, I was really on edge about opening the envelope. I already knew within this envelope and printed on this piece of paper is my destiny, for now. My fate, my life, my dreams, aspirations, goals and person had been shattered for a few moments. I read “we are sorry…” Nothing else even mattered to me after that. You already know that when you read or hear those dreadful words that something bad is about to happen. Initially, and even at this moment, I felt a strong sense of anger, with them and with myself. I just about immediately fell into a bit of a self-pity mode. I started to think, “Am I not good enough for them?” and “What did I do wrong?” among other not so nice thoughts. Then, I bounced back into reality. I thought, “Wait a minute, what am I doing here? Why am I so upset and angry? There is no need to be. I am an exceptional individual, everyone just hasn’t had the opportunity to see or experience this. You have grown so much in such a short amount of time and there is more room for you to grow. Just consider this as another lesson learned and continue to move forward.” And that is what I am doing and intend to continue to do.

Even though this particular school was my number one and really only choice, I know that this just means that there is something better in store for me. Now maybe, just maybe, this isn’t the right time for me to pursue a graduate degree. Maybe I just need to take some time off and build up my resume and funds and expand on my knowledge. Maybe this is what is supposed to be happening. Which brings me to this; I am a firm believer that everything—EVERYTHING—happens for a reason. Why? Well, we may not always know why, but there is nothing that we can do about what happens. We can try to prepare for it, but there is not enough preparation for anything in life, because the craziest things are bound to happen when you least expect it. I’ve learned that it is just better to not expect anything, because then you leave yourself open for unnecessary pain and emotions that just get in the way.

I started to dissect myself mentally and then I attempted to let everything out through ink, but that didn’t go so well for me. I tried writing out my thoughts and a list of “What do you want to do with your life?” but I was so frustrated at that moment that I was not able to articulate my thoughts. I felt almost as if my world had come crashing down on me, as if I did not have a clue about myself or my life. But again, I brought myself back into perspective.

I am well aware of my worth, value and capabilities. I have found that I am one tough cookie and that there is nothing that will ever break me. I have faced so many trials and tribulations throughout my short 22 years of living to the point that I know I can get through any and everything that comes my way. I thought that I had my plans altogether, but things change in an instant. Just because I was rejected from this particular place at this moment, doesn’t mean that there isn’t an opportunity to give it a try again. It just may be a matter of waiting until the next year or few years. Who knows? The biggest challenge faced when applying for a job, school, or just about anything, is being able to capture your life, personality, and knowledge in two to three pages. I mean, it is utterly impossible. You have to be careful of the language used and the proper grammar, etc. I am very much so capable of doing this, but it’s really hard. Plus, if your grades aren’t the most “ideal”, you’re overlooked. You might be seen and considered as an underachiever, which is an unfortunate assumption, but again, they go by what the paper says and not the individual’s personality or anything along those lines.

I wish that I would have made a better decision in how I wanted my message to be given. I wish that I were able to just talk as if I were having a conversation with someone. If it were possible, I would have started my essay like this…

“Why am I the perfect fit for you? I have passion burning in me greater than the Great Chicago Fire of 1871. I pride myself on being the best in all that I do. I am a great asset to whomever I encounter, personally and professionally and present a wonderful element of humility and humbleness, but very confident, as well as happiness. My work ethic and positive spirit alone provides a greater quality of life and enhances the quality of life of those that I work with, academically and professionally, in music and general business. It is my desire to be a world-renowned musician and be an entrepreneur where I will be able to run my own business centered on those who are less fortunate or may not have the financial means to be as successful in life as they would like. Being a person of African-American descent and subjected to a tainted societal view, I understand the necessity of something like this. However, I was fortunate enough to experience life in a way that not many others are able to. I have traveled to and performed in various places that opened my eyes to new horizons so to say. I am an ambitious, tenacious, steadfast, and strong-willed individual and there is nothing that will stop me from reaching my dreams and achieving my goals. As a student within your program, it will provide me with even more resources and opportunities for growth, the expansion and expounding on much of the knowledge I have acquired thus far. I am the embodiment of change and success with purpose. My acceptance would certainly not be in vain, it just might be one of the greatest things to take place for myself and your institution.”

This is just a snippet of what I would like to write, but I can’t. Things like this aren’t always going to be accepted. The world works a certain way and it will never change. Being rejected has not and will not deter me from doing what I need to do in life. I just consider this as a stepping stone to help me progress forward to the next new thing. I know that God has something wrapped in the palm of his hand that he’s itching for me to get to. I know my purpose in life, and though I had invested much of my mind and heart into this, I know that something better is waiting for me. I just need to be patient and wait for it. I’m going to take things one day at a time, and sometimes that is all that you can do. Graduation is just around the corner. So, breathe, regroup, recollect yourself. Get back on your square and keep it moving. This is not the end; it has just opened the door for a new and better beginning.

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

Out on the Town

2012-02-17T06:01:00.000-08:00

By Genevieve Buthod

This past Friday, I took advantage of the last winter free admission day at the Art Institute. I am so glad I did! This museum is one of Chicago’s treasures and I feel I don’t get to experience it often enough. I spent a dreamy hour in the Impressionist wing, and another in the Modern Art gallery. I absolutely love the history of it all, and seeing representations of different artists’ perspectives on the world. Below is a picture I took of Henri Toulouse Lautrec’s famous painting of a night at the infamous Moulin Rouge, the old Parisian burlesque dance club. I love getting lost in these paintings and feeling as though I am kicking back, discussing art and literature with the great artists of the time.

My intense Francophilia being stirred, I decided to continue on down Randolph across the river to have dinner at the Chicago French Market. If you have never visited this adorable little market, it is worth it simply for the cultural experience. The first counter that greeted me as I walked in the door was a colorful display of macarons, in perfect flavors like Earl Grey, Lavender, and Nutella. Keep walking, and you can find any kinds of things you could want to eat, be they fresh crêpes, delicious Belgian fries, or pickled beets (my favorite!). If you think you want to check it out for yourself, the link to the website is right here: http://www.frenchmarketchicago.com/index.php . I highly recommend it!

Finally, I decided to celebrate Valentine’s Day in a slightly unique way. Because we had a professional development day and therefore no classes, I took a few friends out to the Shedd Aquarium, which was having yet another free day! I have never even been to an aquarium before, and I think the Shedd was the perfect place to start. We saw many different creatures, including everything from a giant Anaconda to tiny seahorses. Below is a picture of the eel in the Caribbean tank in the center of the aquarium. But my favorite creature all day was definitely the older gentlemen in a scuba suit casually cleaning the tank filled with sharks and stingrays!

I guess I should get back to focusing on assignments, but it’s nice to occasionally be reminded that the world is bigger than the campus I live in. I hope you get a chance to do the same before the semester is finished!

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a major in Computer Science with a minor in Philosophy. She is a happy and healthy vegan. She is also the TIAA-CREF Campaign Manager for Students for Justice in Palestine. Genevieve is the Senior Viewpoints Editor for the Xavierite.

Field Trip!

2012-02-16T14:42:00.000-08:00

By Sydney Bennett

For most subjects, the fun experience of field trips stops in college. However, there are a few exceptions. Take art classes for example, by living in Chicago, the opportunity to visit our grand art museums or architecture downtown is one that professors are prone to take advantage of. Last year for an art class, I visited the Art Institute with my class and professor. It was interesting and enlightening. It was also good to get away from campus for a while. When I think about opportunities like this and chances to go to the Shed Aquarium or The Auto Show (funded by the school and transportation given), I’m grateful for the school I chose.

Going to a college in Chicago offers location benefits that colleges away just wouldn’t and Chicago is too beautiful to miss!

So, back to the field trip, or trip to the Contemporary Arts Museum in Chicago that I visited last week! It was funny because I had just read an article in The Xavierite that fellow blogger Genevieve wrote about Chicago’s infamous Red Line and how students and school officials seem to prefer it over the Orange Line. Her article was given from the perspective of her own personal experiences riding both of the train lines. She expressed not having bad experiences on the Red Line and preferred because of its proximity and convenience.

On the day of the visit I was accompanied by three other girls, one of them was from out of the state and trains were an experience in themselves for her! Another thing, I like about SXU is that bus passes are sold at the book store! So, we each got a one day pass to use for the bus and train. Our experience on The Red Line was interesting to say the least. I was happy that we were in a group and that would probably be my only suggestion for either line. If you are taking public transportation to and from the school and you know that you’ll be going or coming back when it’s dark, I would suggest not going alone just to be safe.

Anyway, we had a fun time touring some of the new exhibits at the MCA. One other thing I like about Chicago is that there are student discounts and free days for residents at certain museums. We got to view the MCA for free due to their resident free Tuesdays.

Our professor met us at the museum and we viewed minimal and extravagant pieces of art. We each had to pick what we thought was the masterpiece of what we saw. I ended up picking a stairwell that technically wasn’t a piece of art that we viewed. The stairwell was just a piece of the architecture, but a special piece of art to me. The structure and cohesiveness of the stairwell, along with the ceiling, and the fish tank at the bottom captivated me!

Before we left the downtown area, we stopped at the Hershey store nearby and a soup restaurant. Overall, it was a good experience and one of the many reasons I like being a Chicago college student! If your classes don’t offer opportunities to take trips you can still go!

Sydney Bennett is a junior from Chicago, Illinois. She is a Mass Communications major with minors in both Sociology and Art & Design. She is President of Ambassador's for Christ(AFC) and a member of their Gospel choir at Saint Xavier.

Sunshine, Studying, and Spring Break

2012-02-15T17:39:00.000-08:00

By Luci Farrell

February is a month of snow, slush, and chocolate sales. Those with a sweet tooth make out like bandits on the 15th when all candy goes on clearance. Another beautiful part of February is staring at the calendar. February is the transfer month. While March is still thought of as winter, it holds the promise of spring breaks and sunshine. Here at SXU our spring break is the last week of February so that transfer into March is a beautiful one. The question is, what to do during Spring Break?

Many use this opportunity as a chance to sleep, see friends, or just slack off as much as possible. Then there are those of us that see spring break as a time to work. Of course, one must remember that all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. The same goes for Jane, she gets pretty irritable. Asking around with some of my friends that are also seniors, it’s fun to see where spring break leads. Some are going on service trips, some are seeing significant others, some are staying home, and a few of us are going on a real vacation.One of my friends is going to Jamaica
with the school for a class credit. I have to say, sometimes I’m jealous of business majors. I will be in sunny Florida and hopefully avoiding bursting into flames when the sun touches my skin. What my Jamaica vacationing friend and I both agreed on is we will be busy…working.

Many of us face the horror of homework before Spring Break and hope to avoid it until the end. Then there are those of us with Senior Project. It’s a bit hard to avoid that. Deadlines are
quickly approaching and Spring Break is the excuse to throw yourself into work without worrying about other homework. The real question is how to stay focused when the allure of slacking off is right in front of you?

1. Don’t Be A Hermit. Allow yourself time for fun. If you view this as a time to lock yourself in the Batcave (the nickname for my room) and don’t interact with others, you’ll be miserable and unmotivated. See friends, see family, talk on the phone, and get out for fresh air. Don’t constantly keep people out, but when you’re on a roll stick with it.

2. Get An Early Start. I’m not saying you need to wake up at 6 am and get a move on. Please, that would be a horrible thing to say. We all need a day or two to recuperate from the hectic life of school and need to catch up on sleep. One should remember, however, how we feel when we wake up around noon or after. Personally I can’t sleep that late because I feel like I’ve wasted my
day and stay unmotivated. Plus my body is evil and I’m lucky on the days I can sleep until 9:30. Getting an early start gives you more time to work with. Get up early, have a good breakfast, and knock out some homework first thing. Type up notes, create and outline for a paper, or just do some reading. Make a list of everything you need to accomplish over break and watch to see how quickly the list shortens when you start off early in the morning. Plus knocking out some reading or part of a paper frees up your day for some much needed slacking off.

3. Map It Out. Okay, this is something I reiterate to the point I’m sure many of you want to reach through the computer screen and shake me, but my point stands. Lists are awesome. My whiteboard is in a constant state of lists, charts, and creepy little doodles. Last year in my blog I even talked about how in a zombie sleep mode I somehow created cartoons explaining philosophy points. Still unsure how that actually came about. The day before spring break begins
when you’re still packing, sit down and make a list. Write down everything you need to get done and things you know you’ll end up doing (movie night with friends and family obligations). Seeing these things written down puts everything in perspective. It helps you map out time and seeing what projects need more time and which ones you can knock out earlier in the day so you can soak up some rays or go snowboarding.

Florida will be fantastic, or at least that’s what I’m telling myself. Nothing like being in the most magical place on earth and having a hard drive filled with research and a website half constructed. Spring Break is a beautiful time to master the deadlines that frighten us all. So give me a sundress, balcony, and ten pounds of research. I’ve got my vacation plans down.

Keep Calm and Sunscreen On

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

Reflecting and Reassessing

2012-02-13T19:42:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Reflecting and Reassessing

I think we’ve had enough of the Valentine’s Day talk. Everywhere you look, you see red or pink, hearts and cupids, etcetera, etcetera. Besides, you shouldn’t celebrate the love you have for anyone on just one day. It should be expressed, acknowledged and celebrated every moment that you have with that person. It’s the same with Sweetest Day…don’t feed into the hype. Show your love everyday!

So, I titled this “Reflecting and Reassessing.” Well, I am slowly but at the same time quickly approaching my final steps of being an undergraduate student. I said before that it is rather bittersweet, but it is more sweet than bitter for me. This is the time and opportunity where I can show the world what I have and what I am made of. It is now when I have to give the greatest representation of myself. I have been reflecting over my life for some time now and I guess it is mostly because I am preparing for graduation.

Much of my reflection has been placed upon many of the decisions I have made during the time I have spent pursuing a Bachelor’s degree. I dig all the way back to the very beginning of my journey here as a student and explore everything to this very moment. It hasn’t been a tumultuous journey, but very challenging. Most of the challenge could have been avoided, but these are things you tend to learn along the way. There are a couple of semi-regrets that I have. I say semi because I don’t really regret following through with certain decisions I made, I just wish I had have done things differently.

The one main thing that I wish I had done differently was stayed at home and commuted instead of staying on campus. My freshman year was by far the worse living experience I had. Once I entered my sophomore and junior years, things went a bit better with the roommates that I had. But, I almost feel like for me, I had the roommate from the abyss. Now, I’m not knocking staying on campus because it is definitely different for everyone, and for me, it just didn’t work out too well. Because of that, I decided to commute my senior years.
One other thing that I wish I had done differently was read the fine print. You’re always told this in just about every situation, especially when signing a contract in business. Here it was, I was endeavoring into college and I thought that I knew all I needed to know where this was concerned, but fast-forward a few years and I’m looking back almost in a craze. I ask myself, “How did I let this happen?” “How did I get myself into this situation?” I was very angry about it at first, but then I just took it as a lesson to be learned. Now, with this situation, I just began to feel uncomfortable with what I was dealing with. When I graduated from high school, I was firmly set on studying Vocal Performance, but once I reached my junior year, I started to feel like I should have been doing something else. It was suggested to me that I change my major, but I felt at that time that I would be able to make it through.

Here it is, I am in the last semester, merely weeks away from the finish line, when it was once years. There’s no turning back now. As much as I would like to change some of the things I did, I can’t. It’s happened and the only thing I can do is make sure that this doesn’t happen in the future. Because of the discomfort I felt in my craft, I wanted to get as far away from the academia of singing as possible because it was causing my passion for music and singing to be fairly stifled. This definitely was not a good thing, but I learned from it and that is what matters the most.

The next question I’ve been pondering about within is “What are you going to do with this degree?” Well, honestly, I don’t know. I am taking things day by day and trying to make plans the best way that I can, but things will change rapidly. There are things that I intend to do in life, but what benefit the degree will provide, I do not yet know.

When I shared this idea of studying music for college, many people gave me positive and negative reaction. The negative reaction tends to be the same with a lot of people. They will say, “Musicians don’t make a lot of money” or the very question I asked myself, “What are you going to do with a music degree?” Sometimes hearing things like this can be somewhat discouraging, but I have become accustomed to it. Being a musician, and even at an early age, I learned how brutal this music business is and how cutthroat things are. You have to have a very tough layer of skin to survive in the world.

I am very excited to be graduating. My experiences have surely helped shape me into the individual I have become and as I continue to grow, I will always reflect upon those things that made me who I am. I live, breathe, and embody “Success with purpose”. Being an adult has shown that it has plenty of perks and I can’t wait to reap the rewards. Enjoy your youth and lesser responsibilities now, because it will be heavier before you know it.

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

Discovering Who You Are

2012-02-10T11:35:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Discovering Who You Are

As stated before, when you’re in college, this is a time where you begin to strengthen an understanding of yourself and your own personal strengths. It is also during this time that you experience a high level of change in your life. There may be people that you had in your circle when you began this life journey who may either remain an important part of your life or not.

I will use myself as a prime example. When you begin to make certain decisions for your life, there will be people who don’t necessarily agree or support what you’re trying to do. There were many people that I considered to be my “friend” but as I grew older, I began to notice that many of those people I considered to be my “friend” were going in a different direction than I was. Now, granted, everyone will live life following whatever path they so choose, however, when you find that you each are going in completely opposite directions, it’s best that you part ways.

Having multiple friends is way overrated. Everyone has his or her own definition of just about everything. So, here’s Merriam-Webster’s definition: “one attached to another by affection or esteem” or “a favored companion”. My definition of a friend is one who is trustworthy, a confidant, and will keep it real with you. Keep it real is considered to be a colloquialism and it just simply means being completely honest, like brutally honest. In my life (other than my mother), there is only one person that I consider to be a true friend. This person is what would be commonly known as a boyfriend. But, he is actually more than just a boyfriend and a friend. We have built a relationship over the past seven years.

I am very grateful for having such a strong relationship. It is through the development of our friendship and the strengthening of our relationship as companions, that I gained a greater understanding of what I was and am capable of doing and achieving. It has tremendously contributed to my character. Being in a relationship is like working on a two-person team. We have each other’s back and we look out for each other. It is because of my relationship with my companion of seven years that I have been such a strong individual in every other area of my life.

Sometimes in learning who you really are and stepping away from the childish, adolescent and immature ways of thinking and into a more mature, adult and responsible mindset, you realize what you need and what you don’t need. Like I said, having a lot of friends is overrated. Some people are legitimately in your life to help you and there are others who act as leeches and are only in your life to try to profit from your achievements. It’s unfortunate that people are like that, but that is the way of the world.

Keep a tight circle of friends. It’s alright to have acquaintances and such, but don’t divulge too much information to just anyone because then you are putting yourself at risk. You don’t need people to define who you are as a person. The only definition that matters is your own. People will definitely always have an opinion, but that’s all it is…opinion. Stay true to yourself, your values and your beliefs and never allow anyone to change who you are. You control your destiny and all that happens in your life. From the very moment when you awake, you are making decisions. Whether it be simply sitting up, getting out of bed, washing your face, brushing your teeth, showering, the choice of clothing for the day, etc. It’s all in your control. So, know who you are and if you don’t know who you are yet, try figuring it out. Life is a scary thing, I know, but it’s all that we have. So live it up and be the best you.

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

Chivalry

2012-02-09T16:52:00.000-08:00

By Sydney Bennett

In “acknowledgement” of Valentine’s Day which is coming up and coincidently is a free day for students, I’ve decided to write a blog that’s a little related. The theme of this blog has been on my mind for a few months now and my mind and fingers are amped to release it. Can’t you tell by the way I’m leading up to it? No, it’s not how V-Day is overrated and how unfortunate it is for singles, or even how commercialized the holiday is. No, my blog topic is a little different. This blog will about life. In my eyes chivalry has life. Thus, it is definitely not dead, like the common quote says.

I’ve been so inspired at how my college years are teaching me this. Last week sometime I tweeted about how a guy holding a door for me on a college campus gives me hope in humanity. Okay, so I was being a bit dramatic. But, for a guy or even another person to do such a kind act really touches my heart. This happens to me all the time on campus. Guys hold doors in the main buildings and residence halls for girls and I think that’s a perfect example on how chivalry is still breathing.

I have to mention though, for girls that think that gentlemen don’t exist these days, that we certainly have some responsibility. I always say that women hold the standard and set the bar for guys to work up to in dating and relationships. One example of this is recently I was in the diner on the main campus and I was just walking, minding my own business. A group of guys that I presume were freshman yelled what they considered greetings at me to get my attention. I didn’t respond to them because I mean honestly I didn’t think that the “Ay girl” or other remarks deserved my attention. As I continued to walk I heard one of the guys tell the other, “You have to try something different with her.” It made me laugh, but it’s so true. If we want to see the kindness and gentlemen qualities men and young men are capable of we as women have to make them a requirement.

I hear young women my age and those older who say that all men are the same and no gentlemen really exist in our generation, but I beg to argue. The summer after my first year of college I went on my first date with my now boyfriend. I didn’t really know what to expect and it was all pretty much a surprise, I was just told to dress up. Just to share a few tidbits of the night, the date included dinner at one of Chicago’s nicest, The Signature Room, followed by a horse and carriage ride. Yes, this was the first date. As I look back I can totally appreciate that date and the fact that I am with a gentleman that values me. But more importantly, I realize that good guys do exist. Chivalry is still alive and can exist for guys and relationships in our generation.

Super Bowl Sunday

2012-02-08T19:25:00.000-08:00

By Luci Farrell

Super Bowl Sunday, a day of togetherness, wings, pizza, and beautiful chaos. I believe football is more of a national sport than baseball will ever be. After all, let’s think about the sport we watch and play on Thanksgiving. Yes, I think we can all see my point. If we don’t, let’s just go with it.

While my team was not playing this year, I was rather invested in the game. Firstly, it’s the Super Bowl. I’ll watch it regardless of who’s playing. Secondly, being from the North East nothing is more amusing than seeing two ‘hometown’ teams go at it. Thirdly, I hate the Patriots.

Now let me explain something. I grew up in a mixed family for sports. My mother became a Bears fan at a young age because my grandfather followed them. My father happens to be a Giants fan. I also use this term a bit loosely because I have not seen him turn on a football game on his own terms in quite a long time. I think it also has to do with the fact my mother is a rabid football fan. I say rabid in the best possible way. Stories have been told about my mother pacing and muttering at the same rate of Mike Ditka when he was still coaching the Bears. She was also known to storm off out of the house and go walking to Lighthouse Point Park, over a mile from our house. This is the woman who had baby pictures of me in full Bears attire and I’m pretty sure sung the Super Bowl Shuffle to me as a lullaby.

Fans come in hundreds of types. The rabid, the martyrs, the bandwagoners, and the obnoxious. This is where my third point comes in. Patriot fans. Chills run down my spine when I think of these individuals. Having grown up around them, my head hurts. Every sport has the one team with the fans people just have a hard time with. People make fun of Yankees fans because they’re loud, obnoxious, and many just jumped on the bandwagon. Well, in my eyes the same can be said for Patriot fans. Patriot Fans: the loud, the proud, and the cult of Tom Brady. Don’t worry. I’m not even going to touch that subject. You probably wouldn’t want to know.

Aside from my points about my love for football, there’s another reason to love the Super Bowl: Commercials. The Super Bowl marks that magical time of the year when writers for the biggest companies can finally slump forward and relax. Let me give you a little bit of insight on Super Bowl commercials. In 1967, a 30 second commercial cost $37,500. Commercials for Super Bowl XLVI, sold out a good deal ahead of schedule. The 30-second spots for this Super Bowl? $3.5 million. In other words, writers have a lot to live up to.

I now give you my Best and Worst of the commercials.

The Best: Clint Eastwood and Chrysler

Say what you will, but Clint Eastwood is one of the most intimidating men in the world. Also, this was one of my favorite commercials. Inspirations, gritty, and let’s face it, it has Clint Eastwood. Forgot any words you have about it being a political and controversial commercial. You watch this and all you can think is, “YES! I am the common American. We will get back up. Thank you Mr. Eastwood.”

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=_PE5V4Uzobc

The Best: NFL Evolution

Say what you will, I’m a sucker for commercials that show the evolution of a company or franchise. Plus, come on, we’re ending on seeing Hester looking epic. Once again, You cannot go wrong.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CPr4-P19NtE&context=C3689747ADOEgsToPDskJ-Kd-6HZx7FBTo893H8hFI

My Worst: TaxAct.com

Honestly. It’s not well thought out, not funny, and seems like a waste of $3 million.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xiZXFSIpu2g

The Worst: GoDaddy

I will also mention that once again, GoDaddy commercials are tasteless and, once again, a waste of $3. This is also aside from feelings already held about the company. I won’t even bother linking to those commercials. Honestly.

The beauty of advertising is that the money is spent because you’ll be talking about the commercials all week. The good, the bad, and the ones you still don’t understand. Oh Super Bowl. Never change.

Keep Calm and Get Ready For Some Football

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

Feeling At Home, At Last

2012-02-07T16:30:00.000-08:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Feeling At Home, At Last

I learned this past weekend that Chicago is a smaller city than I thought it is. I took a friend into the Loop to spend the day and I couldn’t get over the feeling that I truly belonged there. Walking under the El bridge running over Jackson, feeling everything on the street below (including ourselves!) shaking as the train passed, I had a strong sense of being at home in a strange place. I’ve had homey, cozy experiences in this big city before, but I had never associated being comfortable with being accepted and welcomed. I had always assumed that because I was easing into the lifestyle up here, it was simply because I was easing into the idea of failing to make eye contact with strangers.

Something inside me has changed, however. It probably happened a while ago, since I’ve been living here, but I hadn’t noticed until just recently. After visiting the Museum of Contemporary Photography, a gallery inside of one of the buildings at Columbia University, I realized that it is in fact possible for a student to be involved in the arts scene in Chicago. Before that point, I had such a closed view of what could be considered valid art and thought that I could never make it here. But after seeing the work on display at this museum, and seeing the emotion and dedication clear in all of the artist’s collections, I believed that it was possible to make it. I just need to learn that a person can gain gratification from their work in many different ways; that there is not one isolated way to feel satisfied.

My world kept getting smaller when my friend and I had an amazing vegan dinner at Native Foods Café in Wicker Park, my new favorite spot to get a cruelty-free meal in the area. It may not sound very exciting to someone who grew up in Chicago, but for someone who is from St. Louis, it is pretty amazing to run into someone you recognize as one of your own. The hostess who greeted us at the Café had attended the very same small Catholic grade school from the neighborhood we both grew up in on the south side of St. Louis! We were both amazed to run into one another, and my dinner companion couldn’t seem to understand my joy and surprise.

After learning that she moved up here to follow her heart in the theatre, I knew that my earlier feelings from today could not have been wrong. It is possible to be a part of a community in a new city; you just have to find a small one to mold yourself into. I keep thinking of everything on such an enormous, overwhelming scale, when I should see it as a collection of small, accessible communities, one for each of Chicago’s little pocket neighborhoods. I had never seen any challenges to thriving here as insurmountable, but now I can finally attach a bit of meaning to overcoming them and calling this new place home.

Is Cupid Your Friend?

2012-02-06T18:09:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Is Cupid Your Friend?

Valentine’s Day is just a week away. I’m pretty sure if you’re like me, you’re tired of hearing anything that has to do with Valentine’s Day. Now, this could either be coming from the perspective of the lonely, bitter one, or the one who has a significant other to share the day with. My perspective lies in the latter. I have a significant other, one whom I have been with for almost seven years. That’s right, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7! It is definitely a long time to be with one person, and most certainly challenging, but when you have love and other ingredients, it’s not hard to do.

Though I am in a relationship, I have never really been a big fan of any holiday, whether it is centered around love or not. Things have just become a bit too commercialized if you ask me. There is no sacredness or unique quality to what happens in the world. What is portrayed on television as an “ideal” relationship is very far from that. But, I digress. I tend to want to go on rants about things that don’t make sense to me, however, let’s just talk about love. :) You don’t necessarily have to be in a relationship or have a significant other to enjoy the Valentine’s Day holiday. You can definitely spend it with friends or family or just consider it as another ordinary day just like I do.

Now, I know I said I’ve never really been a big fan of holidays, and it still remains true. But, since we have the holiday to celebrate, why not do something nice? I figured I would do things a little differently this year for Valentine’s Day. Normally my love and I do not celebrate it, but it just so happens to be the only day we have off at the same time. We’ve been experiencing much of what adults experience where working and time is concerned. We always are sure to make time for one another even with all of our other responsibilities. But, I just thought for Valentine’s Day this year, I’d prepare a nice romantic dinner for the two of us. That way we could catch up on what we’ve been missing and just enjoy each other’s company.

If that doesn’t happen then we may just go out for a nice evening on the town. But that depends on the weather. Even though I am a full-blooded Chicagoan, I still am not a fan of the cold, wintry weather. If you didn’t want to do a romantic dinner like I’m thinking, you can always go the simple route. Just have an evening of fun and games. There’s nothing like a gathering a friends having fun, laughing and joking with one another and playing games. You could do board games, video games, charades… The possibilities are endless. These days you can have a dance contest through the video game. Either way it goes, just make sure that you enjoy the day. Don’t go sulking around because of what other people are doing. You have to make the most of the situation for yourself.

So, I ask, “is Cupid your friend?” Even though we all know that Cupid is a fictional character created to go along with the Valentine holiday, I’ll still indulge. Whether Cupid’s your friend or not doesn’t really matter. If you want to be happy on V-Day, then be happy. Don’t base it upon what is happening in someone else’s life. Being a college kid sometimes makes it difficult for a relationship to work and it also depends on the type of person you are. Maybe this isn’t the right time for you to be in a relationship and you need to just focus on school. There are different variables where that is concerned but don’t let the day get you down.

If you’re looking for some Valentine’s Day festivities, I’m sure there is plenty to do, both on and off campus. There are several fundraisers and activities taking place through various organizations, such as the Student Ambassadors, Student Activities Board, and many other student organizations. There will be parties and card and candy sales. So, if you’re looking for something to get for someone else or even for yourself, you’ll definitely be able to find everything you need.

Enjoy this Valentine’s Day. Don’t get so caught up in the idea that you have to be with someone to enjoy the day, because you really don’t. A lot of people actually have more fun when they’re by themselves. It’s different for everyone. So even if Cupid doesn’t knock on your door, you can still live it up with love.

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

Know Your Value. Know Your Worth.

2012-02-03T14:26:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Know Your Value. Know Your Worth.

In life, there are a lot of things that we have to deal with. As a child, you basically have to do whatever it is that you’re told to do. This could be dictated by a parent, guardian or teacher. It didn’t matter what you thought of the situation at that early age, you just had to do as you were told. As you grow older and develop a stronger sense of yourself, you begin to realize that you don’t necessarily have to do as you’re told. Even as a child, you may have picked up on it, but once you become a teenager, you begin to challenge certain things that are thrown at you. Some may rebel against their parents or any other authoritative figure and others may just simply comply with the rules that have been set forth for them. Either way it goes, it can be a tough situation.

As an adult, you still face situations where you may be given directions or orders to follow. This can still be dictated by a parent, guardian or teacher and more relatively a boss. Now, by this point, your sense of self and understanding of life as a whole has changed tremendously compared to how it was at a younger age. You have to learn how to decipher certain situations and know when and when not to do certain things. When you’re in a job setting, there is a hierarchy present, as is the case in just about every instance. You report to work and you are provided with specific duties that you must complete either for that day, week, month, etc. Here, and in general, you have a choice. You can either do the work, or you don’t have to. It’s your choice. In everyday dealings, you again have a choice. You can either do something or not.

When you are presented with things that seem questionable and it seems as though it may have an effect on your personal character, then you have to make the necessary decision for yourself. It is one thing to make sacrifices for various things, but when it comes to compromises, if it won’t be greatly beneficial to your well-being then it is probably best to avoid that situation altogether. There should never be a situation that you are in that will cause any detrimental problems that will bring about more stress. You want to make sure that you are as comfortable and content with everything that you do.

Outside of a job, you also want to make sure that you make the best decisions for your personal life as well. If you have relationships that you want to maintain, it is necessary to make compromises and sacrifice certain things to make the relationship work. Whether it means changing the way you speak in public and private or how you carry yourself. All of these things are strong factors that will either make or break you in life. If you truly want to be successful in life, you have to understand and know your value and your worth. There may actually be some things that are beneath you and that doesn’t mean that you’re better than anyone or anything so to say, it is just something that will not aid in your progression in life. You must be careful to watch out for these things because you could end up dealing with some unnecessary stress and who wants that? I mean, there is enough going on as it is when you have to juggle going to school, working and maintain life at home. Relationships are definitely challenging, from parent to child, man to woman, friend, sibling—they’re all tough. But, if you are aware of yourself and those around you, it makes things just a bit easier to get through.

Don’t ever accept anything that will not improve your life or your situation. We have to suffer through enough stress as it is. Everyday always presents a new challenge on top of the challenges that were already present. It is very easy to avoid a lot of bad things if you just stay focused on one thing at a time, keep things in perspective and if you have the knowledge it takes to keep everything together. As I progress forward in my journey of adulthood, I have been realizing that much of what I have experienced has contributed to my way of life. I have learned from those things that I may have faltered in and discovered ways of adjusting to new things. It may be difficult to deal with at first, but you will always in one way or another, figure out how to get things done effectively and efficiently.

If you have high standards, it hurts to say this sometimes, but you might have to lower them. You may hold yourself at too high of a level which may bring about more problems that could have been avoided. So, keep it in a realistic and logical perspective. Stay calm, cool and collected and all will be well.

Let’s Occupy the World, Starting with Ourselves!

2012-02-03T06:46:00.000-08:00

By Sydney Bennett

Reflection: Black History Month Opening Ceremony with Brittney Cault of “Occupy the Hood”

Yesterday, being the first day of February, Saint Xavier kicked off their month long schedule of Black History Month events. This particular event hosted by Saint Xavier’s BSU, featured Brittney Gault, a leader of Occupy the Hood-Chicago.

The event started with a video clip and a reading of one of Gault’s poems. Gault, a graduate of University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, with a degree in Media Studies, started with a summary of her background. She talked about the many opportunities she had to hold leadership and service positions, before and after working a corporate job right after graduating. She talked about the rollercoaster of life after graduation, but gave hope about various opportunities that are available to graduates.

Gault passionately talked to the room of about 20 staff and students, about the purpose of Occupy the Hood, which was birthed from Occupy Wall Street and the various revolutions before that across the world. Gault describes wanting to re-define “Black Excellence”, quoted from one of rapper Jay Z’s songs. The four pillars of Occupy the Hood are teaching and enacting change within the community pertaining to education, housing, sustainability with fresh food options, and financial stewardship. She described the movement as trying to get back to the self-governing way of life that Booker T Washington wrote about.

Gault gave plenty of tips to the students in the audience and I made sure to take notes! So, I’ll share a few of quotes I saved from her speaking. “Education is the next civil rights movement.” She talked about the importance and power of education for all people and various types of learning that people can gain. Gault also advised the students to, “Start learning more about what is trending around you and tailor your skills to fit it.” She gave an example of a communication student learning that sustainable ways to use energy is trending. In response they obtain a job using their communication skills to promote and enhance that industry. She also said something that really stuck with me. “Leaders now are appointed and are not as connected to the current generation.” I had never thought about that, but most leaders of past movements were young and very much so apart of the movement. Today in many arenas we still have some of those same leaders and there are not enough young faces that can actually connect and understand our era.

We ended the event in a fun and interactive way. Gault had everyone in the room hold a mock community session where we had to “Occupy Saint Xavier”. Three problems were brought up from students and staff as well as proposed action. The problems brought up were the lack of student involvement to enact change, participation at events, and minority leadership. The solutions were specific ways for students work together more and encourage each other. There seemed to be progress made even from the students present at the event!

Last night reminded me of what college is all about. It’s a place where students come to learn, unite with others, network, and be encouraged to live up to their potential to create change. Let’s occupy the world, starting with ourselves!

Remembering Roommates

2012-02-01T08:39:00.000-08:00

By Luci Farrell

There are pros and cons to living by yourself. Pros range from the perfect silence to not worrying about being woken up at odd hours. The giant con is usually loneliness. Sometimes you have cases like mine where you accidentally throw your back out. You find yourself on the floor staring at the ceiling and unable to move. Of course, you cannot help but laugh because this is naturally your life. Well, it’s my life. The sad part is things like this do happen. Times like these I miss having roommates.

I have to say this, I have been blessed by the housing gods with my roommates. My freshman year I wasn’t as terrified as most people. I had met my roommate at an Honors conference and again at orientation. We hit it off and decided it would be best to live together. Melissa was super outgoing and a nursing major. Two things that I loved about her. Do you know how awesome it is living with a nursing major? When something goes wrong they love using you as their guinea pig. Melissa actually rescued me from myself my freshman year. I had fallen ill as such a speed I didn’t even know it. I remember waking up during the night, walking down the hall to the bathroom, and passing out. A neighbor woke me up in a panic because she thought I was dead. Zombie makeup looks tan compared to my complexion when I’m sick. I managed to get back into my room and crawled on my bed. Melissa jumped to the rescue. I explained I had a tendency of going hypoglycemic and passing out. Melissa went to our fridge, grabbed a yogurt, and forced me to eat. Mind you she tried spoon feeding me until I smacked her hand away. Regardless, after the yogurt I was starting to feel better and was back to my usual self in no time. Melissa was watching me like a hawk the next day until she was sure I was alive. I have to say, I wouldn’t trade freshman living conditions for anything.

Sophomore year I lived with three of my closest friends and we had acquired a perfect room. It was at the end of the hall, right next to the laundry room, and had the perfect view of the quad. It was great living with three other people. We had movie nights and indulged in the strangest girl nights known to man. Imagine four twenty year olds, clutching mugs of hot chocolate, pajamas on, snow outside, and singing (LOUDLY) along with White Christmas. We decorated for every holiday and after a while streamers were mandatory in the living room. More than anything I miss our game nights. Our other friends would come over and we would have nights of never ending games. Well, maybe not the games of Cranium. Those ended in temper tantrums and screaming. Honestly, there is nothing greater than watching a screaming match over a game of charades. Once again, I wouldn’t trade that time for anything.

Junior year was similar to sophomore year, with one plus. Some of our male friends lived across the hall. Doors would stay open and conversations or screaming matches would ensue. Also there was nothing better than weekend breakfasts made between the two rooms. The one thing I miss is coming home to find a friend sleeping on my couch. Honestly, 80% of the time when I came back from class there was someone sleeping on the couch.

I look around my room now and I’m pleased with my setup, but I would not trade a single roommate for a room by myself. I admit, I miss coming home to someone to aggravate or just hang out with. Still, living alone makes me appreciate the memories even more.

As for throwing out my back, while I may not have Melissa, help is just a phone call away. Well, as long as my phone is within reach.

Keep Calm and Love Your Roommate

Tough Decisions

2012-01-31T20:27:00.000-08:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Well, folks, we’re a month into school and (hopefully) already back in the routine of working hard for grades and paychecks. While I appreciate hard work just as much as anyone, I also learned recently that a little balance in life can do wonders for my sanity. I dropped what for me was a very difficult class this past week, and I have never felt lighter or happier. I was afraid that I was not living up to my own expectations, or my professors’, but I realized that I needed to make a choice to save my semester.

I thought that if I wasn’t doing absolutely everything and working myself down to a pulp, I wasn’t trying hard enough. I thought I needed to prove to everyone around me that I am superwoman, but I now know that I’m only human, and it’s ok to show it sometimes. Accepting my own personal weaknesses has strangely helped me feel stronger than ever. I learned that I can overcome them and accept myself as a real person, not just a highly-efficient machine. Much as I try to be that, I will never live up to it, and the sooner I internalize that knowledge, the better for my health and everyone around me.

I have already felt the wonderful effects of this new sense of balance in my life. My work for other classes has been easier to concentrate on because I’m not under so much stress from the difficult class I decided to drop. I have been much more efficient at work because I can actually focus on what I’m writing and turn out something worth reading, rather than constantly being distracted by my intense fear of failure.

My incredibly supportive teachers have helped me see this decision as a celebration rather than a defeat. It took some convincing to get out of the class, but now that I have, I feel better than ever. I’ve been high on life for the past week, and I don’t think any of the challenges I will face for the rest of the semester can possibly bring me down from this place. I forgot how fun it is to be genuinely excited for school, rather than dreading it. I can’t wait to go to my classes now because I know I can face them with my whole mind, and actually achieve what I know I am capable of on my best days.

It can be tempting to offer unsolicited advice after this experience, but I can only describe how it feels in my situation. I don’t know what is right for anyone else, because I only know my own limits and my own ways of dealing with stress (not the healthiest, admittedly). It took a while to accept myself as someone who would even consider quitting something because it’s too difficult, but now that I have, I realized just because I’m human doesn’t mean I am mediocre.

Do What You Need to Do for You

2012-01-30T18:00:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Do What You Need to Do for You

In life, there are many different situations that we must deal with and face. As we grow older into our adult lives, many of these situations present challenges that must be overcome in order to advance to the next level. Sometimes that may mean doing things that you don’t necessarily want to do and it’s something that we all go through. In order to be rewarded with “diamonds and pearls”, you have to go through the mud and grime. It sucks; it really does, because not everyone is born with privilege. Some of us have to work incredibly hard to even feel some sense of happiness or content. But, I digress. I actually do appreciate the benefits of hard work, because then you are able to enjoy life a lot more and reap more benefits because it was you who put in the effort to make sure you had what you wanted and needed.

Now it may be considered slightly selfish if you focus on yourself for long periods of time, however, I figure if you don’t look after yourself or do for yourself, then who will? There comes a time in a person’s life where, yes, they will have to be responsible for the well-being of others. What I mean by this is something we experience all the time, whether it is completing chores around the house, running errands for family or anything else along those lines. But on the other hand of things, there also comes a time when you have to take responsibility for what takes place in your life and how you want your life to be. I guess you can say while you’re in college, that is the time where you begin to take this responsibility for yourself and accomplish those things that will help you to be successful in life.

At this point of my life, I have been feeling multiple emotions where many things are concerned. I sometimes find myself having difficulty understanding why I had to experience certain things that I had already experienced. A prime example would be my graduation requirements. As of the fall semester, there were only about 11 credits that I needed to fulfill my graduation requirements. At that point, I had only wanted to take what I needed for graduation, along with an extra class that would actually be beneficial to my musicianship. There was one particular class that I felt I didn’t need to be in because I had fulfilled the requirements set forth but as part of the policy of the department, it was still a requirement to take this class. I absolutely hated that I had to deal with this. I did not want to be in the class. I figured I could use this class time for something a lot better and useful. But, here was a situation where I had to go through a murky experience in order to come out smooth and clean.

I still have to be in this particular class again for the spring semester. I still hate it too, but you have to do what you have to do. I have come to a place in life, though, where I do not fall short of being brutally honest. Sometimes this can work against you, but it is much better to be brutally honest than to tell a lie just to appease someone else. As I have learned in life, feelings mean nothing. The world and business world is cut-throat and you have to be able to deal with any and everything that comes your way. I certainly expressed my frustration and disgust with the situations I had to deal with, but it is something that comes with this particular territory. I guess this was one of those cases where the rebel in me started to kick in. Too many thoughts began running through my head. I got to a point where I realized that I don’t have to be here, but at the same time I do. It may seem like a contradiction but here is where the truth comes through.

Now, no, I don’t have to be in school because it is a choice. However, considering the way life is as a whole, with the economy, the country and just being able to do anything in life, it is rather necessary to be in school. Much of the reason why I have had such strong negative feelings towards many of my experiences came from the thought that “I should not still be in undergrad”. Technically, if I had finished as I had expected in May of 2011, I would be in the process of finishing my first year of grad school, but things didn’t go that way. I’m not particularly experiencing the effects of senioritis, I just got to a point where I was and am tired of being in school. I began to lack the motivation to get through everything. Then, I had an epiphany. Everything happens for a reason. Again, another cliché, but it is true.

We all have these life encounters for a reason. They either happen to make us or break us. So instead of allowing something that happens in your life to break you, use it as a lesson. You are not going to get everything you want or that you think you deserve. I’m still kind of upset that I had to spend five years instead of four completing my undergrad, but these are the breaks. I have to be grateful though because I have been able to utilize this extra time to make sure I have what I need in place for grad school and life as a whole. I would have much rather preferred to be in a different place than I am now, but maybe, just maybe there is more work for me to do. Or maybe there is someone or something that I have yet to encounter that will catapult my thinking into a totally different direction. I really don’t know. Sometimes I sit back kind of dazed and confused at all that takes place around me. But, hey, it’s called life. You can either choose to live it or just live a dead life and there’s no fun in that.

Take the time out for yourself because no one else is going to do it for you. Do all the things that help you to be fulfilled, happy and content with life. Don’t be a stick in the mud. We all have to do things that we don’t really want to do whether it is in your personal or academic life. It just is what it is. So, stop fighting it and just accept it. This is what adulthood is all about.

Campus Fashion

2012-01-26T16:51:00.000-08:00

By Sydney Bennett

Five tips on dressing in a way that makes you feel both confident and comfortable in the classroom!

1. Know Your Comfort Level
When wearing clothes, it is always important to keep your comfort as a top priority. In a classroom setting especially, wearing clothes that will cause any type of discomfort can be a personal distraction. Everyone does not have the same level of comfort. Some people might be comfortable in tight skinny jeans, while others might find the pants style to be quite irritating. Know what works best for you, and you will feel and look your best!

2. Color Your World
Certain people tend to shy away from bright colors for different reasons, but colors are your friends! Not only do colors brighten up the atmosphere, they could easily help you stand out in a classroom setting. The same grey hoodies and black shorts can look as tired as you do after pulling an all-nighter. Try on different colors and patterns to see which ones you prefer.
Also, be aware that different seasons attract different color groups. However,do not let this limit you. Brighten up your day with colors!

3. Accessorize
People familiar with fashion realize the difference a few accessories can make. Accessories to clothes are what condiments are to food. They can bring out potentials of an outfit and take the look up a notch or two. Whether it is jewelry, headwear or the bag used to carry books in. Utilize them all as a way to uniquely express your style. Currently, one popular accessory trend is the “nerd glasses.” They are worn with and without prescription. So, not only would you be wearing a fashion trend, you would also fit the image of a studious college student.

4. Dresses and Skirts
Fortunately for women and girls, wearing dresses and skirts is socially accepted. Not only are the clothing styles sophisticated, but they are also often quick and easy to put on. Having something like that to wear could help save time before a morning class. When it is warmer outside, dresses
like the thin and colorful maxi style or sundresses can be worn. In the current winter season, thick or thin dresses can be worn with leggings and a jacket to create a stylish look that also feels snug.

5. Show School Spirit
A common trend students follow here at SXU is wearing the SXU gear. While the prices are not the most affordable for most college students, the sweatpants and hoodies are one of the most comfortable looks. Though I encourage representation of SXU with the clothing sold at the
bookstore, I also always encourage creativity. Make sure to take notice of the clothing items sold in colors different from the usual grey. Also, make the SXU gear your own by adding accessorizes or incorporating clothes that you already have! With hoodless sweatshirts you can create the fun 80’s off the shoulder look by cutting the top of your sweatshirt.

Always remember that fashion is about you and what styles you like the best. With the perspective that creating an outfit is a fun activity, rather than a chore, an appearance can be created that you can take pride in. After all, fashion does not stop here; it follows you into your work force and allows an entirely new chance to show who you are.

Tools of the Trade

2012-01-25T17:04:00.000-08:00

By Luci Farrell

Dear Bloggers,

Welcome back to another week. Three weeks into classes and I am so very proud of myself for setting up my classes so I have downtime. Maybe because it’s my last year, but the fact I can curl up in bed for an hour and just relax helps. Oh the joys of scheduling. It’s a trick of the trade.

Speaking of taking time, my blog last week spoke about taking time and reading up on the SOPA and PIPA bills. On January 20^th, Congress shelved the bills. Even during the presidential debate in South Carolina, the nominees talked about reasons for not liking the bill. For more information, check out: http://sopastrike.com/

One thing I love about the internet is that it has turned into a source of news that we directly care about. We can be hundreds of miles away and give our support to those who stand for a cause we believe in. I know in my own life Twitter has been one of my tools to get quick updates. While perhaps not the best source, I follow individuals who tend to write about things I care about. I was reading updates as they happened about SOPA and even the Occupy Wall Street Movement. Between the ‘underground’ news sites, webcomic artists, and the worshipers of Reddit, there will always be a source of news for internet masses.

That is something I love about the internet. It’s more than just a search engine, it’s a tool of the trade. Think about every individual that uses the internet. Politians and political bloggers go to sites like CNN.com to keep up with what’s going on. Aspiring artists and photographers use the internet for inspiration, blogging, and utilizing sites like deviantART to showcase their work. Reddit is…well, Reddit is Reddit. It’s for the meme addict and anyone who needs a laugh. Writers have blogs. Let us not forget the powerhouse that is YouTube for everyone; politicians, singers, filmmakers, and the powerhouse Vloggers.

We have freedom, literally, at our fingertips. The freedom to write, to read, and to create what we want. I use the tools everyday. I have several blogs, an account on deviantArt, Twitter accounts, YouTube accounts, I belong to a few forums, and I read some of the greatest comics on the web. The internet even helps bring you closer to people you look up to. I’ve been privilege to be able to have some short conversations with some of the artists and writers from my favorite web comics. Let me tell you, after having a bad day and getting a YouTube link of baby raccoons from the creator of a favorite webcomic, life just seems better. Baby animal videos make everything better, bless you YouTube.

So in some, use your tools. Network with others and tell your story. Send an e-mail, video, or tweet to someone to tell them you miss them. Don’t lose sight of the fact that 800 miles doesn’t seem so far when you’re just a Skype call away.

Keep Calm and Utilize On

Exploration

2012-01-24T19:48:00.000-08:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Exploration

Just when I thought I wouldn’t be able to handle the stress of another week of heavy assignments and tests, just when I was beginning to be overcome by the terror of the mountains I’d created for myself to climb, a close friend from back home in St. Louis paid me a surprise visit and put everything into perspective. I was so happy to see him, I almost forgot that I wasn’t finished working my shift for the night.

I couldn’t believe he had driven all the way up to Chicago to see me, so I decided to make it worth his while by taking him all over this wonderful city. I took him to a great dim sum place in Chinatown, where we met a friendly old man named Catfish who told us, let’s say, colorful stories from his life. We made our way up to the Loop and spent a while walking around Printer’s Row, seeing the beautiful Dearborn Station and diving into the wares at Sandmeyer’s Bookstore. I thought he would love seeing this Chicago institution, and I was right! It reminded me of how nice it can be to pay a visit to a fantastic local bookstore every now and then, rather than going to Walmart-esque stores like Barnes & Noble whenever I need something to read.

We headed over to Michigan Ave. and I took him on a lovely tour of the Fine Arts Building, one of my absolute favorite places downtown. According to the Chicago Architecture Foundation, it’s the last building in Chicago that still has an elevator operator! The elevator man closed the metal grates behind us, asked us which floor we desired, turned the crank and took us straight on up to Performer’s Music. I stand by my belief that this shop is one of the best places in Chicago to find sheet music for your next recital or audition. It has such a variety of pieces for everyone from saxophonists to classical guitarists to singers.

After getting back on the El, we went straight north to Belmont, one of my favorite pocket neighborhoods, and enjoyed a refreshing anarchist vegan dinner at one of my favorite spots, the Chicago Diner. Fittingly, when we got back to campus, I called up some of my friends (who also happen to be old SXU students) and we held a killer jam session in one of the practice rooms in the music wing. So much fun! It was amazing to be able to gain some perspective and have a little bit of home with me all weekend. My spirits are so lifted, and I feel completely ready to take on the next few months of hard work.

Where Do You Want to Go?

2012-01-24T07:28:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Where Do You Want to Go?

What are you doing with your life? What do you want to do with your life? Where do you want to go in life? These are questions that we often face as we progress to an older age and higher level of education. To be honest, being in school somewhat gives you a cushion to fall back on and you don’t have to think too hard on answering these questions. But on the other hand, it’s best that you at least begin to focus on some ideas of what your life goals are and what your self-expectations may be.

It is mostly our parents or guardians that pose questions like these. Sometimes it’s just because they want to know how much longer you’ll be living with them and if you will be able to put forth any major contributions. And other times, they just may be checking on you to see where you head is and make sure that you’re on the right track. There are various reasons as to why certain people want to know certain things, but these are also things that you should be able to ask yourself as well.

As a kid we’re asked early on, most particularly in grade school, “what do you want to be when you grow up?” A lot of us said the usual things, a doctor, lawyer, teacher, etc. But we didn’t have the wherewithal to fully understand what it took to get to those places. Of course we were always told to make sure you get good grades in school and do your best, but no one ever really broke down the necessary steps involved in being successful. Things like this are acquired over time and must be personally developed based upon each individual’s own understanding. It’s definitely different for everyone in the fact that everyone is diverse. Not all of us will have the same experiences. They might be similar but never exactly the same.

When you get to a certain point you begin to realize that you can’t just rely on these cushions to fall back on. You have to take responsibility for yourself and the actions you put forth because in the end, the only person in control of what happens in your life is essentially you. You have the power to make sure that your life turns out the way that you want it to. No one should be forcing you to do anything that you don’t want to do. To make a compromise is one thing, but to completely change and re-vamp yourself for the purposes of someone else’s happiness, is not the way to go.

So you have to really take the time to sit down, reflect and analyze who you are as a person, what you have been able to accomplish thus far in your life and what it is that you would like to accomplish down the line. Ask yourself, “Where do I want to go?” “Where do I want to be 6 months from now, 1 year from now, 2 years, etc.?” They are some very important questions that need to be answered if you anticipate having a fulfilling life. While you’re in the process of completing your undergraduate or even your graduate degree, you have to figure out how you will be able to progress in life. Will it consist of relying on others to get things done for you, or will it consist of you being a diligent and steadfast individual providing yourself with assurance that all will work out for you.

While we all are in different places in life, we do have this commonality in trying to figure out what the answers to these questions are and how we will get to where we need to be. I know for me personally, I didn’t fully come to the realization that I needed to get the ball rolling for myself until some short time ago. I guess it is just something that comes with the territory of being an adult. I have so many goals set for myself, many of which I shared before, and it is going to take a great deal of hard work and dedication to get to the plateau that I see for myself. I have such a broad imagination and it has always been told to me that I can do anything that I set my mind to. But to actually understand it and not wonder about it is an amazing feeling. To really be able to say with unbreakable confidence that there is not a thing in this world that I would not be able to accomplish or do speaks volumes.

If ever you feel as though you are unsure of what to do with your life, there are some wonderful resources available through SXU. They’re specifically here to help you figure out what you want to do with your life. These people can be found within Career Services. They are an excellent source of information and aid when it comes to trying to hash everything out. You may have a lot of plans set for yourself, but may not necessarily know how to go about taking the first step, because you should always want your first step to be your best step. First impressions are one of the biggest factors when it comes to doing just about anything. You have to be confident and secure in achieving what you have set forth for yourself. Nothing is ever easy, unless you were born with a silver spoon, and even those who were born with a silver spoon face their share of adversity in life.

Even if you have yet to figure out exactly what it is that you want to do, as long as you have an idea of it I think you should be alright. It definitely takes time to figure this out, although there are some who just know without any deep thought or consideration, they just know without a shadow of a doubt that this is what and how I want it to be and it will be that way. So, take your time. Weigh out all of your options and try to cover every base possible so that you have as much knowledge as you are able to gain and your level of understanding is sufficient enough to be successful. Don’t be shy about visiting Career Services. They’re here to help, so let them help.

Pushing Through

2012-01-23T19:07:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Pushing Through

By this time, things should be going fairly smoothly in school. The first week is always a little difficult to deal with. You’re just getting back into the swing of things. You have to become re-adjusted to getting up early (if you didn’t have to over break), going to class and work. It is a different kind of adjustment for everyone. As a freshman or sophomore and even for some junior level students, it’s almost a thing of just a routine. Class, work, eat, study, sleep and repeat. As a junior or senior, you begin to focus on the next step after undergrad, especially as a senior. Being a senior, I can completely understand. I sometimes suffer from what is known as senioritis, but I am still being responsible.

Once you get to a certain place in your life and experience various things, you begin to view things through a different perspective. Simply put it is called growing up. There are a lot of people that have been in a mature place for a great deal of their lives and there are others who may have had a little bit of a cushion to fall on with their family. It varies, but either way it goes we all (or at least should) become mature adults. We have responsibilities to focus on. For instance, you have school, work, home, and your person, or persons (kids), to focus on. Then there are the finances that come along with each of those things. You go to work to make money and for some of us, much of that money has to go toward bills. And, this is barely scratching the surface of the responsibilities one may have.

Being in school and dealing with everything else can definitely present some stress. However, you always have to push through regardless of the load you are carrying. Life gives you all kinds of things to deal with but you have to learn how to keep things balanced. Being in the final stages of my undergraduate career, there is a lot that has to be focused on. Not only do I have to focus on graduation, but there is also what follows... Adulthood. I’ve already made my transition into being an adult, but I don’t have as much to deal with right now. After I graduate, I have intentions of going to grad school (which I’m greatly anticipated to hear about). There is also a strong desire to hopefully land a job at the institution that has provided me with such wonderful opportunities. Because of my experiences as a student at SXU, I want to be able to try to provide the same kinds of experiences and opportunities to others.

While I am keeping graduation, grad school and a job in mind, there are other things that are key factors as well. There is adding the responsibility of a car, possibly an apartment and marriage. It is my hope that everything will work out rather smoothly and that I will be able to do everything I need and want to do to ensure a lucrative career and fulfilling life. It is definitely a challenge but these things always provide great experiences to learn from and help to build and strengthen your character.

Be a Part of Something Bigger

2012-01-19T19:12:00.000-08:00

By Sydney Bennett

Be a Part of Something Bigger

Being a part of something bigger than myself has been a common theme in my mind lately. At church last Sunday, my pastor talked about many greats of the Bible and how their decisions impacted generations. He also talked a lot about having vision vs. being a part of a cause. A few quotes he mentioned really struck me.

"Vision is personal; cause is bigger than one person".

"Vision exists for you, but you exist for a cause."

He also mentioned how people will die for a cause, as many people have. This made me think of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., whose life lived a cause we just celebrated. So, with all of this on my mind, I am happy to introduce one new way I am becoming a part of something bigger than myself.

I just became a campus rep for 31 Bits. 31 Bits describes themselves as a socially minded business that uses fashion and design to empower women in Uganda to rise above poverty. The women in Uganda make beautiful jewelry made out of recycled paper that other reps and I get to sell. The profits are used to pay the women and provide holistic services for the women's education, health, and all around productivity.

I am so excited, but a little nervous to have to be a seller. I always say I would prefer not to go into sales, but as a communication major it comes with the deal. Besides, I'll always sell myself as a person/brand. I am already making efforts to partner with a few organizations on campus, like BSU to promote service, using 31 Bits as one way.

If you'd like to know more about how to purchase a bracelet email me at http://us.mc1622.mail.yahoo.com/mc/compose?to=bennett.s01@mymail.sxu.edu OR you can go to 31bits.com and with my rep code: Sydney2012 receive $5 off of a $20 or more purchase.

In other news it is the second week of school and I am still getting settled into my classes which I am liking for the most part. I look forward to sharing more about my classes and assignments soon!

As a closer, I'll leave you with a thought. I was talking with someone who said they weren't really passionate about anything or a lot of things. I can definitely relate to feeling like that. However, we all have different things that we naturally like and are interested in. For me, I really like fashion and learning about cultures as well as women's empowerment. I may not be able to make clothes or study fashion right now, but selling jewelry for a greater cause is something I can do. Everyone may not like what I like and that's great. We only need to be really passionate about a few things and run with them, even if we have to make a few baby steps at first.

Sydney Bennett is a junior from Chicago, Illinois. She is a Mass Communications major with minors in both Sociology and Art & Design. She is President of Ambassador's for Christ(AFC) and a member of their Gospel choir at Saint Xavier.

The Keyboard is Mightier than the Bill

2012-01-18T19:44:00.000-08:00

By Luci Farrell

Hello Dear Bloggers,
As you know I usually sit staring at my ceiling trying to figure out another fun topic to talk to you about. Last week’s was a bit more somber than usual so I wanted to cheer everyone up. Well, in recent events I have realized I want to educate you on something that may shock you. Wikipedia and several other websites will be staging a 24 hour blackout on Wednesday, January 18th.

Why are these websites going in a blackout? There are two bills currently sitting before Congress known as the Protect IP Act (PIPA) in the Senate, and the Stop Online Piracy Act (SOPA) in the House. Now these titles may make many people think ‘Oh, this is a good thing,’ but as a blogger I urge you to read up on these bills.

The passing of this bill could mean that your favorite websites could be blocked without any notice. Think of being locked out from your favorite blogs, comics, or forums. These sites could be blocked indefinably without any kind of notice or trial. Methods similar to those being currently used in China would block sites from users and force search engines to delete entire websites from their search results, including foreign sites. These bills also state that internet companies would need to monitor everything users link or upload or face lawsuits. Every link? Every photo? Well, Twitter and Facebook would be in trouble. Imagine someone being forced to scan through that 400 photo album of Jane’s new puppy or every one of Joe’s tweets that link YouTube videos of trust falls. AOL, EBay, Facebook, Google, LinkedIn, Mozilla, Twitter, Yahoo, and Zynga (yes, the Words With Friends, Hanging with Friends, and Farmville Zynga) joined together to write a letter staging their concerns about the harm that could cause their companies and the economic growth of thousands of others.

Best of all, look closer into the bills. Many in the online community are pointing out that SOPA and PIPA would not even work out the way they want to. Those censorship regulations they outline would not actually shut down pirate sites.

Now. How does this impact you? Oh, silly reader. There is ALWAYS an impact on you. Ever covered a song and uploaded it to YouTube? Congratulations, that could earn you a criminal record. Those awesome blogs (both clean and NSFW) you love? They could be blocked as I mentioned before. This bill will restrict online free speech. I cannot even imagine what this could mean for poor little fanfiction writers. Oh. Wait. This author could face a few convictions thinking about this now…Well, I expect you to send me letters.

Another important thing for you to do is to check out those who are against the bills. Help support them! Google has a nice bit of information as well as links to show those who are protesting this bill, check it out here: https://www.google.com/landing/takeaction/community/
I think Google stated it best:
“Fighting online piracy is important. The most effective way to shut down pirate websites is through targeted legislation that cuts off their funding. There’s no need to make American social networks, blogs and search engines censor the Internet or undermine the existing laws that have enabled the Web to thrive, creating millions of U.S. jobs.”

I think I will cut this blog a little short as I know I can ramble on a bit. I do urge you to educate yourself about this situation. Do not just take my word for it. This blog is on the internet along with millions of others who are just trying to have a voice. We could be censored and our voices lost. Educate yourself on this matter and everything you can. Never let an opportunity pass you by because you never know what you face to lose. Help yourself and fight for your rights to have a voice. Be part of the revolution.

Keep Calm and Boycott On

Diving in Headfirst

2012-01-17T12:53:00.000-08:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Diving in Headfirst

Well, I think we all survived the first week! Congratulations. It’s crazy, but I already feel like it’s been about a month. It’s safe to say the stress is building quickly. The local high school honor band came to visit SXU this past weekend, and I think we showed them the best our school has to offer, at least in the music department. We had a concert for them on Saturday night in McGuire Hall, showcasing all of the different aspects of instrumental music they could partake in. The jazz combo performed a piece from last semester’s concert, which went well, and Dr. Miller and Professor Carney played a duet on “Tenor Madness” by Sonny Rollins.

It was a wonderful evening, and the high school students I spoke with seemed excited for the rest of the program. On Sunday, we played a few classical pieces for them, heard what they had been practicing together, and then we all played Variations on a Korean Folk Song for their parents and band directors. Everyone seemed to have a nice time, and I appreciated hearing the students share what they had learned with us. Dr. Malecki, our band orchestra director, said something that stuck with me, and most likely everyone who came that day. He said that while there are many things wrong with education in America right now, this is what’s right. He stressed the importance of fine arts in education, and quoted John Adams, “I must study politics and war, that my sons may have the liberty to study mathematics and philosophy … in order to give their children a right to study painting, poetry, music, [and] architecture…”

I think the families that came appreciated his point, but I believe the students did to an even greater extent. Sometimes it’s nice to hear a validation of studying what you love, especially when most people tend to not take it seriously. I love the advice I’ve heard, that you should just do what you love, and find a way to get paid for it. I feel that this is the only way to really be happy in school, a career, and in life.

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a double major in computer science and philosophy. She is a women’s studies minor, and thinking about a music minor as well. Genevieve is an officer in the Alliance (the GSA) and is a happy, healthy vegan. She is also involved with the Students for Justice in Palestine.

Making it Reality

2012-01-17T06:02:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Making it Reality

Some time ago, it was decided that America would commemorate the day that an individual was born. This individual took it upon himself to do everything he could to make things better for everyone, but more specifically those who were known as African-Americans. Being one who is of this descent, I have developed an understanding of why certain things are the way they are and how they came to be. The man who has been so highly honored is Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Throughout our years of education, we are often introduced or re-introduced to Dr. King and the things that he was able to accomplish before being assassinated in April 1968. It was during this time that the Civil Rights Movement was taking place. It was also during this time that the most adversity and controversy had come about causing many to wonder how this could be. One of the biggest issues faced was racism/segregation. It is something that is still dealt with and experienced some 44 years later from 1968 to 2012. Can you believe that?? Almost four and half decades later and this is still a problem.

Dr. King was considered to be a revolutionary along with his contemporary Malcolm X. There were so many others who made sacrifices, much of whom will continue to remain unknown. It was only because Dr. King made the life-changing decision to become a martyr for justice, but his life was unjustly taken (which is debatable).

Being an African-American, I have had to deal with many unfortunate situations, but I am grateful to still be alive, because some people are killed just because of the color of their skin, which is utterly ridiculous to me. The argument can always be presented that we did not choose to be what or who we are. This was predestined and there’s nothing that we can do about it, unless of course you want to take drastic measures and bleach your skin to perpetrate something that you are not. I have come to the realization that I am here to serve some kind of purpose. It may not be to the extent of Dr. King’s but we each are born with a specific purpose to fulfill.

Saint Xavier exemplifies eight core values, one of which is Diversity. Being an institution that is predominately Caucasian, they do a great job of implementing things from other cultures. One is the celebration of Dr. King’s life through what has been titled “Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Week 2012”, which is sponsored by the Department of Campus, Division of Student Affairs, Black Student Union, Education Club, and Mercy Students for Peace and Justice. Many of these are student organizations on our campus that represent strong values in educating the ignorant so that they may be aware of the truths of what took place and not fallacies.
Everyone possesses a different perspective on what has taken place through history. The things that we learn through our education at school are merely opinions or words that have been provided through various perspectives. Because of this, it is difficult to get an accurate account of how life was. We are only able to go by what we are told and what we see that has been recorded for documentation. It is up to the individual to decipher and decide what makes sense.

Who knows? Maybe, just maybe we will enter a time when people will look beyond race and stereotypes and really consider a person based upon the content of their character. I hope that I am able to witness it in my lifetime, but then again, it might just be wasted wishful thinking. I am definitely not a pessimist, very far from it. I just know that it is better for you to keep things in perspective and remain in the reality of things. It’s less of a headache.

The dream is still yet to be fulfilled. I hope that you, or your descendents, will be part of making it a reality. Peace and blessings!

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

We're at it Again

2012-01-13T14:54:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

We’re at it Again

Alright so here we are, back in the swing of things. Everyone I’m sure enjoyed their break but felt that it was a little too short. I kind of felt that way too, but I’m in a different place. Here it is... the final countdown. It’s all a little surreal for me honestly. It’s like I have always imagined being in this position, but it feels much different when you have actually experienced it. I’m really excited though. I only legitimately have one class. Now according to my schedule I have about 10 credits, which is also awesome. But, technically I have one class, two lessons for voice and piano and two rehearsals. How much better can it be? Especially when you’re doing something you love, which in my case is singing.

Aside from focusing on finishing my studies here at SXU, I have had to apply to grad school. It can be a very daunting task in dealing with all that is required for the application itself. You always want to make sure that you make the best impression possible especially through writing. I must have gone through several drafts to make it as close to perfect because it is so difficult to show who you really are through paper. But, I think I did a pretty good job.

For me, it is just one of those things that keep me in the right perspective. Time is definitely flying and May will be here before you know it. From this point forward, I am just taking things a day at a time. After graduation comes the real world and SXU has prepared me enough to feel confident that I will be successful in life.

Back at school there are plenty of things to do to keep me busy. Between classes, being the Training Coordinator for the Student Ambassador Program, preparing for my senior recital (which is April 16 at 7:30 p.m., McGuire Hall), several opera performances of “The Magic Flute”, and being a private voice and piano instructor, I have much to do. But I’ve been able to find a good balance between it all. Plus, I am a choir director at a church. Though it seems like a lot, it really isn’t. Again, I reiterate, it is a lot easier when you’re doing something that you love and I absolutely love to sing.

It is my hope that by the end of the semester I will have made a catastrophic change, in a good way though. I have been grateful for the experiences and relationships I have gained over the past few years of being a student at SXU. It has been a very enriching and rewarding one. As I have stated before, learning for life is one of the core values that I honor the most out of all eight. However, the other seven are just as important but are culminated within learning for life.

Each day is an opportunity to learn and do better than before. I am so excited about this spring 2012 semester and the year as a whole. I hope that it is a fulfilling for you as I know it will be for me. Take advantage of what is offered to you. I have and it has had a tremendous affect on the way I have operated as a student and a person a whole. If things didn’t go too well for you last semester, make it a goal to do better. Always bring your A-game and do the best you possibly can at all times.

Peace and blessings!

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

Last Semester: Favorite Flashback / This Semester: New Opportunities

2012-01-13T07:36:00.000-08:00

By Sydney Bennett

Last Semester: Favorite Flashback / This Semester: New Opportunities

One event that I really wanted to blog about but, did not get the chance to was, our gospel concert! It was such a success and many students came out. We held it on a Friday night before Thanksgiving Break, in the Chapel. The gospel choir which included current and previous SXU students sang seven songs and wore shirts that displayed qualities of our faith and values. We also invited other dancers, singers, and poets to perform. At the end we prayed as a group. It was so powerful to experience the love and acceptance was felt across the room. That was for sure one of my favorite memories of last semester.

This new year and semester has me thinking about being open to a fresh semester and new memories. While preparing to have a new roommate because mine is leaving for an internship in Washington, D.C. (GO Mona!), I really noticed something. Do we really embrace changes and new opportunities, especially with people? Having to transition away from old high school friends into college and each semester being surrounded by new classmates and professors, forces students to rotate. I noticed that sometimes it is good to be separated from people we are close to because it allows us to be open and receptive to new people who we can give to and gain from.

I was talking to a friend who lives out of state and she said that when she came back to campus, she noticed friends were acting different towards her. You never really know what to expect in a new semester, but there’s always hope. We have new chances to meet other people and fresh opportunities to join clubs and participate in activities. For example, yesterday I went to an event the school offered to go bowling at Brunswick. I ended up bowling with one of my suitemates and two other students I just met. It was refreshing to bond with new people and I even made a few strikes!

Throughout all of the newness, I am happy that one experience has transferred, my opportunity to blog. It has been so much fun to write and share pieces of my life publically. It honestly makes me look at my life as one that is kind of cool J and lived, not just existed. So, I plan on embarking on a few new and different opportunities and I am excited to share them with my readers. Today is our first real day of winter snow, that’s new too. Let’s just embrace it all, change what we can for the better, and accept the rest.

Sydney Bennett is a junior from Chicago, Illinois. She is a Mass Communications major with minors in both Sociology and Art & Design. She is President of Ambassador's for Christ(AFC) and a member of their Gospel choir at Saint Xavier.

Back to the Old Grind!

2012-01-12T17:30:00.000-08:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Back to the Old Grind!

Here’s to another semester of greatness! Hope everyone had a chance to let their brains take a breather over winter break. The ability to relax is one of the things that mark the difference between being successful and clear-headed and being tense, frantic, and useless. I feel I have come to school as a blank slate, ready to absorb new information as it heads my way. If I didn’t have a chance to see my family and loved ones for a few weeks, I think I would probably already be buckling under the stress of this semester.

It made me so happy to get a chance to go down to Oklahoma to see my entire family all at once. I may have a hundred cousins, but I truly do miss each and every one of them. My grandfather, in response to an editorial I wrote for the Xavierite, told me he thinks I write intelligently. This meant the world to me, because I take writing seriously, and because my family patriarch is one of the wisest men I know. One of my cousins joked, “Yeah, you’re lucky, he just calls me dumb all the time…”

Equally refreshing to my soul was the time I spent with my second family, my best friends. I went to an awesome Bluth family reunion New Year’s Eve party (for those of you who are Arrested Development fans) and dressed up as Lucille, the horrible mother/grandmother. I also went to a wonderful elementary school reunion party, which was very bizarre and enlightening at the same time (as reunion parties often are, I assume).

I’m trying to find a way to take all of this joy with me back into my little dorm room. Pictures are nice reminders, but I think it’s more important to try to retain the peace of mind I gained by just being purely happy for 3-4 weeks in a row. There’s no way that can do anything but perk up my GPA, right? Remaining centered is really the only way to be a more effective student/worker whatever you are in life.

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a double major in computer science and philosophy. She is a women’s studies minor, and thinking about a music minor as well. Genevieve is an officer in the Alliance (the GSA) and is a happy, healthy vegan. She is also involved with the Students for Justice in Palestine.

Finding and Embracing Flaws

2012-01-11T19:00:00.000-08:00

By Luci Farrell

Hello dear bloggers. We’ve come to that time again. A new semester has begun. With that new semester, we also enter the New Year. Fireworks, tears, and countless New Year’s resolutions made after reflecting on ourselves. This is one of those times where we start looking at our flaws and head out to correct them.

We no longer ask, “What are my strengths?” Instead we look at a question that many times can be much more interesting.
“What are my flaws?”

We can learn so much about ourselves when we finally own up to our flaws. We all have flaws; it’s part of being human. Flaws make us who we are and, for some reason or another, sometimes you fall in love with a flaw.

I am no different. I happen to be as flawed as they come. I can write a list of flaws and then find out several other things that people either find irritating or endearing about me. It’s always funny how often those two qualities go hand in hand. Here is a list, for the sake of my little explanation on why flaws are important, however, I will keep the list short.

Luci’s Flaws 101
1. Stubborn. I will be the first to admit that I can be as stubborn as they come. I am hardheaded, take a stand, and won’t budge from a belief I hold close. My mother lovingly refers to it as being bullheaded. On the flip side, I know when to admit that I am wrong. I also know when to tell you when you’re wrong. So a flaw in a way, but a strong personality trait that others like on the flip side.
2. Procrastination. I know I procrastinate. There are times that I need that pressure to crank out the best papers. There are other times, however, that the procrastination hurts my productivity a lot. Once again, a flaw, yet for me it’s a productive flaw.
3. Asking For Help. This may qualify as stubborn, but I count it separately. I’m not good at asking for help. I fully admit to this because I do not like relying on other people. My fear is that the second I admit I need help and ask for it, suddenly that person I need the most will leave. This one is a flaw through and through. Unfortunately, it has cost me people who truly meant a lot.

Luci’s Flaws According to Friends.
1. Passive Aggressive. This I will not fully own up to. Some people I just get too tired to argue with. After all if they don’t get the hint the first time, why would I bother? Oh wait…does that qualify as being stubborn? Well, crud.
2. Awkward Smile. I have always loved this one because it’s so very true. I have the most awkward smile in the world, but apparently it’s endearing. Similar to how we can’t help but smile at the puppy who keeps running headfirst into walls…Actually, I’m pretty sure that sums up how most people feel about me pretty well.
3. Accent. There are keywords I pronounce in a way that drives the people around me insane. Yes, I say ‘expresso’ and not ‘espresso’. Habit. I saw ‘draw’ not ‘drawer’. I’m from New England, if we can shorten a word, we do.

Now flaws can be entertaining and aggravating. That is after all why we always look to change ourselves for the better. Unfortunately, many times people go too far in change. They don’t see some of their harmless flaws as endearing. Let’s face it. My accent is a flaw, but it’s a part of me. I can control it at times, but it always slips out. That’s pat of me. It’s part of my identity and my upbringing. It’s a flaw I like and maybe the incredibly stupid way I pronounce ‘order’ and ‘water’ is endearing to someone out there.

The trick is recognizing our flaws and sorting through them. Like I said some flaws are just who we are and we cannot, and in some cases, should not change them. The problem comes when people point out certain flaws as if they are a type of leprosy. I have the perfect, and completely infuriating, example.

Last year I was at the dermatologist, someone I hated seeing as a kid. Sensitive skin and a child’s need to scratch, left a few scars decorating my shoulders. Over the years I went through the phases all kids did where the scars doubled in number. Well, let’s say she wasn’t thrilled. She actually became angry and told me that no one would ever fall in love with me with all of my scars. They just weren’t attractive.
My first reaction was sickness. Who says that? After I calmed down and left, I just shook my head. My scars, like freckles and birthmarks, are a part of us. I like my flaws. I may not love all my scars, but they are a part of me and every one has a story. That scar on my hand? It’s from when I accidentally caught on fire (a long story for another day). The one on my arm? A battle scar from a nasty mosh-pit incident. The small one on my forehead? That one was from a sewing machine breaking and a needle bouncing off my head. Every story is different and I can laugh at them. You know what? If someone can’t accept me or love me for my scars, why would I want them to?

My point dear readers, is this. We are more than our flaws. We overcome them and sometimes we need to embrace them. I embrace my scars. They remind me of chances taken, memories made, and people who cared enough to patch me up. They don’t hold me back. They are a part of me and serve as a reminder to live my life. Make positive changes and never forget to have fun.
As I started, we all make resolutions, though sometimes we need to be realistic. So here you go:
1. Change the flaws that hinder you.
2. Resolve to take care of yourself (be health, be happy, and always laugh).
3. Resolve to hold your head high and embrace your little flaws that make you the person your friends and family love.

Keep Calm and Laugh On

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

From the End to the Beginning

2011-12-09T14:47:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

From the End to the Beginning

As I reach the end of yet another semester, I realize that this is really just the beginning.

I feel such an odd mixture of emotions. It is slightly bittersweet because as I reflect on it, I am leaving a part of my life behind. But the bright side is that I am embarking on a new journey in life that will take me to much higher plateaus than I could have ever imagined.

While I reflect, I also recognize that I am a student and have been one for quite some time. Quite frankly the role of student goes beyond the realms of school. But, within the aspect of school, there are some things that are beginning to take on a different meaning in a tremendous way.

I’m sure most can relate to this… As a teenager/adolescent, there were words uttered to your parents that you began to regret at the early points of adulthood.

“I can’t wait until I turn 18 so I can…” or “I can’t wait until I’m grown so I don’t have to listen to you!”

At a certain point I did feel like I was in way over my head, but as time progressed things were a bit easier to deal with and I began to embrace my growth into adulthood. I am close to ending one chapter in this journey of my life and on the brink of beginning a new chapter.

Each day as I get closer to the end of my undergrad career I remember where I started as a freshman, what I have accomplished to this point, and how much more I will add to my accomplishments.

I ponder about the next steps in life. We go through various stages or levels in life both academically and just generally. Our growth is attributed to what we have experienced in life and what we desire to achieve, whether they are long or short-term goals.

We may not always reach the mark that we set for ourselves, but when you do it is one amazing feeling.

Winter break is just a blink away. Take as much time during this break to enjoy the things that mean the most to you—family, friends—soak it all up. If you’re into the holidays, enjoy the festivities. Since the NBA is back in effect, enjoy a few basketball games with the girls and guys and of course the football games, too. Eat, drink (if you’re legal), and be merry! After all it is probably one of the best times of the year. I don’t know about you but there is just something about the winter, not necessarily the holidays, though they do set the atmosphere but, this is the time when you can play in the snow like a kid and build snow men, make snow angels, have snow ball fights. You can enjoy a hot cup of hot chocolate, with marshmallows if you like. You can cuddle up with your loved ones, watch movies, or just enjoy one another.

I don’t particularly like the cold, and if you’re like me then you’ll probably spend a majority of your time resting at home over break. So, reboot yourself and come back prepared, stronger, and better than ever for the spring semester. For those graduating this winter, a new journey awaits.
For those of us graduating this coming spring, we have just one more semester until we set foot into a new reality. For everyone continuing on for the following years enjoy your time as you grow. Enjoy every moment of your life.

Happy Holidays!

What Do You Do With It?

2011-12-08T10:47:00.000-08:00

By Sydney Bennett

What Do You Do With It?

The last couple of weeks have presented a few situations that left me a little down and disappointed. However, as I reflected and looked at the situations from an empowering viewpoint I was reminded that it doesn’t matter what happens to us and around us, only what we do with it.

On my last blog, I shared a little about my health and what I was diagnosed with. Before Thanksgiving break I hadn’t been feeling well and hoped I would get better during the break. I didn’t. That Sunday I had to go to the hospital and ended up staying for 3 days. I am so thankful for my family and the doctors that were patient with me and helped me through my discomfort. Having been in the hospital during the school year previous times, I tried not to freak out about my school work. I knew that we only had two weeks left and I had a majority of my work done in my classes. There was still so much to do in certain classes. I contacted my professors and continued to try to stay calm. I was in a situation where the only thing that I had real control over was my mind and attitude. So, I returned to campus feeling much better but with a lot of work to get done and I was able to thankfully finish it all.

It did not matter what had happened to me. I admit to feeling discouraged about finishing school and missing out on other opportunities, but I had to stand firm on a faith that believes that all things work for my good. This semester, academically, I will end on a positive and solid note. More importantly, I have learned to continue to value the people in my life, the simple things, and my life itself.

When I returned on campus I learned of the news of Saint Xavier student Darius Parish, who had been killed over Thanksgiving break. Although, I did not personally know him, some of my friends and professors describe him as intelligent with so much potential. As I began to share articles from news sources on my Facebook page, other students shared their sadness over what had happened. When my mom called me to tell me she had heard about Darius on the radio, she described feelings of sadness and anger, I felt the same. Then, I wondered what do we do with this? What do we do about what happened? Do we choose to just complain and let anger build up momentarily? Or maybe we all have an opportunity to be kinder people, more dedicated students, lovers, and sharers of faith and positivity. Hearing about Darius encourages me to do the latter. I pray that his family be comforted and for the safety of every student on our campus. More information about what happened to Darius can be found here: http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/ct-met-cop-stepson-murder-20111206,0,2237496.story.

Now that you have read my blog, what will you do with it? Will you be encouraged to be a more compassionate you? I hope so. It only matters what we do with it all.

The College Discovery Channel

2011-12-07T08:52:00.000-08:00

By Luci Farrell

The end of a semester marks panic, joy, delirium, and exhaustion. Time either crawls or flies by before you realize what day it is. Personally, I love it when first semester is done. For some reason the Fall semester is always the semester where I find myself wistfully looking at my schedule for Spring semester. The long weekends, the open Wednesdays, and the time I need to work and sleep. As a senior, those words are the most beautiful thing in the world after “I’m graduating…with a job waiting.”

When I mentioned delirium I should elaborate. The mind, when coming to a point of burnout, tries to find humor in everything. In my mind, I have transformed SXU into a Discovery Channel special. Like a college version of the discovery channel one can sit by the window of a local Starbucks and observe the local residents. Students coming back from finals are usually walking at a pace no faster than a zombie shuffle. Then, BAM! Three students sprint like gazelles toward the ward building. You look at your watch. No, they couldn’t possibly be late for a final; they must be on their way to fight for room in the library. Think of it as the watering hole. All the students fight for a place in the library, staring others down and even flitting through the bookshelves just waiting. The normal watering hole, the diner, seems rather vacant. Unless you count the scavengers. These are the students left with no money on their cougar cards that prowl around looking for anyone to feed off of (figuratively of course).

This carefully observer braved the dark for her caffeine fix and holds witness to the owls. Now there are two different sets of owls. The first set can be seen perched in the link between Rubloff Hall and McCarthy Hall. This walkthrough is furnished with chairs and students pressed against the windows weary of studying. The other set are those who have taken full advantage of the extended library hours during finals. These are the students you see (many times with nursing books) coming back from the library just after 2 a.m. Their eyes are wide and little melodies escape their lips. Only the close observer notices that these magical sounds are actually the names of diseases and medications.

Yet, once Friday hits one can almost imagine the tumbleweed blissfully rolling through the quad. Between the students that have already left and those who tore off campus after their last final, only a few are left making sure everything is left behind in good condition. For a short month there is quiet and piece. Then, a short month later this all begins again.

Until then dear readers, stay safe, study to the best of your abilities, and have a happy and safe holiday break.

Keep Calm and Study On

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

The Final Countdown!

2011-12-06T13:25:00.000-08:00

By Genevieve Buthod

The Final Countdown!

First of all, sorry for getting that stuck in everyone’s heads. I can’t believe we’ve survived another semester! For me, I honestly believe that this is the most difficult semester I have ever lived through, and probably will ever face. I had to take on so much new information so quickly simultaneously over the past three months. Has it really only been that long? I know it’s cliché, but college really does fly past you.

Hope the stress isn’t killing everyone. I know my biggest challenge isn’t the tests themselves, but simply convincing myself that I’m actually capable of doing well on them. I think the psychological barriers between you and your goals are far greater hurdles than any tangible obstacles could ever be. Our imaginations are so powerful, and as we get older, it seems we only use them to think of all of the ways things could go wrong.

It’s good to realize that no matter what things may seem like in your head, there is no way they could end up fulfilling your expectations in reality. We come up with all of these crazy scenarios, and draw so many conclusions off of our own assumptions that we forget how unlikely any of it is. It’s comforting to know that stress really is all in your head. You are in control of yourself at all times, whether or not you realize it. A few breathing exercises can put you in a mindset to ace a situation, even if you feel a little unsteady going into it.

Have fun over break, everyone! Enjoy quality time with your loved ones, and maybe even a break to spend time on yourself for once. See you all in 2012!

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a double major in computer science and philosophy. She is a women’s studies minor, and thinking about a music minor as well. Genevieve is an officer in the Alliance (the GSA) and is a happy, healthy vegan. She is also involved with the Students for Justice in Palestine.

Giving Credit Where It's Due

2011-12-05T16:08:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Giving Credit Where It’s Due

You always have to learn how to decipher when to compliment someone or when to give constructive criticism as well as how to receive it. You also have to be aware of how you say what you say, because not everyone has thick skin. Some people may be a little sensitive where certain things come into play. Here are a couple of examples.

Just a few weeks ago, I had my first solo vocal recital performance. Here it was… I thought that I had put in enough preparation to have a superior performance. I had practiced and practiced, rehearsed and rehearsed, but once the day had come, I felt like most of it had gone out the window. I have been battling with this issue of comfort between home and school where my singing is concerned, and I’m sure that you may be able to relate in some respects, too. When I am at home, I am able to be free and silly, when I am at school, I feel like I have to remain professional and suffer through some restrictions in a sense.

In all honesty and reality, there really are no restrictions there is just the difficulty of separating the academic part away from singing as it is my strongest passion. I end up going through this mental battle, almost like having mini-me’s on my two shoulders going back and forth with each other…

The good one: You know you need to do this and do that…
The bad one: Girl, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do…
The good one: It’s not about what you want to do. It’s about what needs to be done…
The bad one: Blah, blah, blah don’t listen to her, listen to me. You know I’m right…

Okay, what in the world is going on here?? It’s really not that difficult of a decision to make, you just have to do what you have to do. I must say, following my performance, I was not necessarily pleased with what I had produced, but because I know what I am capable of and the knowledge that I possess, it was sufficient enough to get the job done. At this point in my life, I am just trying to make a better habit of applying all the knowledge I have to a particular situation, especially where music is concerned.

Fast forward a week and I am attending a choir concert. As a musician, there are a lot of things that I look and listen for in music, whether it be instrumental or vocal. As a vocalist, I tend to key in to very specific things, such as the quality of sound produced and whether or not it is good. I will admit, though I am nobody (in essence), I am very hard to please. I have set a very high standard for myself as a professional musician and I only associate myself with a certain caliber of musicians. A colleague of mine asked me of my opinion on how the choir sounded and I am one for always giving credit where it is due, especially if I am fully aware and knowledgeable of the subject-matter at hand. My response was “for what it was worth they were good.” Now, what is wrong with that? Absolutely nothing. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and it is just merely an opinion. I have found that people can’t take everything that you say, which is why I often choose to remain silent in many situations because they’re a little too sensitive. I feel that as an adult, you should be capable of having a conversation without responding like a teenager. The statement of my opinion was not well received and that is fine. Not everyone will like or agree with what you do or have to say. For the situation that we were dealing with, I felt that I had given them enough credit saying that they were good. It wasn’t superb or excellent, just good and that only goes for my taste. Had it been a situation where I was not knowledgeable about the in-depth aspects of singing then I could understand why one would disagree or be offended by what I have said, but because I am knowledgeable, I just shared my expertise. And the same goes for my own performance. I personally feel that it was good and as my teacher says “passable”.

Know when to speak and when not to. Know when people deserve the credit and when they don’t. A lot of people walk around in life with a chip on their shoulder like someone owes them. That is not true in the least bit. Be fair and always honest, regardless of what the consequences and repercussions may be. Too many people live in fairy tale lives and tip-toe around reality as if it doesn’t exist. If more of us would just be honest in all that we did, the world would probably be a lot better than it is. So, next time you feel the need to be honest, SAY SOMETHING! It will get you a lot farther than you anticipated.

Use your voice. You have the right to.

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

Travel and the College Student

2011-11-30T08:55:00.000-08:00

By Luci Farrell

The following is an example of how an out of state student prepares to leave before a break:
Tuesday November 22nd

0600 = Wake up. Look at phone. Swear. Realize it’s Tuesday, class doesn’t begin until 11, and I don’t have anything due. Go back to sleep.

0800 = Hear the 1812 Overture playing. Marena’s calling me. Accept defeat and answer phone with blanket over head. Truthfully, if the best friend calls, you always answer.

0900 = Marena sees a sale at Old Navy and promises to call me back. During this time I’ve gotten dressed and rearranged my bag to go home with. Stare around room and refresh my memory on what the quiz today is about.

0930 = Play on Twitter. Suddenly realize I didn’t print my boarding passes. Thankfully remember I’ve already checked in so my boarding number isn’t too shabby. B 20. Yeah, it’s going to end up being a full flight.

1013 = Wrestle with printer. Worry something happened when the bed fell on it (long story). Power it down and back on. Works perfectly. Roll eyes.

1030 = Craving caffeine. Horridly throw on shoes and make a quick note on my white board wishing everyone a happy Turkey day and to be safe on Black Friday.

1031 = Halfway down the stairs realize I left my messenger bag (book and laptop for class) in my room. Mutter darkly and go back to get it.

1032 = Put up posters in the dorms before going to class so I won’t forget (memory is shot the days leading up to break).

1040 = Carefully sip the glory that is Starbucks and have an internal debate about whether I should bring my laptop home or just my iPad and external hard drive to make life easier. Realize I’ve had this debate at least six times in the past 24 hours and remember the I will have a laptop to use at home and traveling without the laptop is easier…and less distracting. Suddenly stop and take another sip of my Venti Americano. The barista wasn’t joking when he said it made it extra strong for me today. My faith in humanity is restored.

1100-1220 = Class. Of course also writing myself a note making sure I remember everything, including the audio recorder I just realized I am going to need during break.

1230-1310 = Run around like crazy making sure I have everything packed, unplugged, and locked up before running off to the shuttle.

1400-1855 = The joys of the airport. There is no sarcasm in this, I actually love airports. I get to knit, read, listen to music, and just unwind for the first time in weeks. Although you know you’re at the airport too early when your flight isn’t even shown on the screens. The true joy is getting to board the plane, get a window seat, and know in just a short while I’ll be home.

The above is what it is like to be a college student who is more than a short bus or train ride from home. I have my 2-hour plane ride home which is used to read and power down my brain for a bit. The truth about being an out of state student means you start off on an odd foot. Nine out of ten times you know nothing about the area you’re moving to and you need to map out transportation to go home as soon as you can. Or if you’re like me, you try to figure out what plane routs give you the best layovers. For those wondering Baltimore and Nashville are my most frequent layovers. Both are awesome airports with lots of space and fun little shops/restaurants/salons to check out.

Traveling is what I do. I have always loved it. Throw me in a car, on a train, on a plane, or in a kayak and I am the happiest girl in the world. That is the beauty of college. You always have an opportunity to try something new. You live on your own in a new area and develop all of these new experiences. Even better you have the opportunity to travel abroad. Ask any student at SXU who has studied abroad and they’ll be happy to tell you about their experience. From Peru to Germany and everywhere in between there are opportunities for everyone. If you don’t think a semester is a good idea for you, look around at summer sessions. Better yet, ask about Spring Break Service trips! This gives you a great opportunity to travel and help others at the same time. From rebuilding in Joplin, Missouri to helping out in community centers in Maryland, there are always opportunities to get involved on campus.

College is about learning. Learning isn’t limited to just books. It’s about learning about yourself, your passion, your social interactions, and learning to make the most of the opportunities you are given.

Keep Calm and Travel On!

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

Coming Home

2011-11-29T15:25:00.000-08:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Coming Home

The more I travel back and forth for school breaks, the more I come to realize that I’m starting to see Chicago as a second home. I was sad to get back on the bus leaving St. Louis this past Sunday, but I noticed that as soon as I crossed the Mississippi River back into Illinois, I was excited to be going back to school. There are so many opportunities for me here that I may not have had a chance to pursue if I had stayed in my hometown for college (or the rest of my life, for that matter). One of the things that made me feel at home when I returned to this city was that the shuttle service extended its hours that night to accommodate traveling students. I was so worried about getting back to school because my bus pulled into Union Station at around 10 p.m., and the L would only take me so far. Thankfully, there was a Saint Xavier shuttle bus waiting at Midway to pick me up when I got there! I felt so taken care of by the school, in a way that may be difficult to understand for students who come from around the area.

My experience gave me just another example of the ways SXU extends that extra welcome to out of town students. I feel like I actually matter to this university, as an individual, and I don’t know that I would feel that way if I was just a number at a huge school. Another way I felt the warmth extended by Saint Xavier was in the way I was treated my first day back at the newspaper office. We all jumped back into work the first day back from break in order to pull together this year’s final issue. Even amidst all the hectic work being done, my boss went out of his way to encourage me, tell me to keep up the good work, and let me know about the higher-level positions available for next semester that I should consider applying for. This school makes me feel like I have a name, not just a set of qualifications. It doesn’t just look at what I have accomplished; it takes the time to see what I could achieve in the future and pushes me towards those goals. Just another thing to be thankful for this year.

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a double major in computer science and philosophy. She is a women’s studies minor, and thinking about a music minor as well. Genevieve is an officer in the Alliance (the GSA) and is a happy, healthy vegan. She is also involved with the Students for Justice in Palestine.

Making the Right Decision

2011-11-18T15:16:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Making the Right Decision

Decisions, decisions, decisions… Life offers the opportunity to make decisions for every moment that takes place. Whether it is for school, a job, or your family, a decision always has to made for something. Lately, I have found myself having some difficulty in making certain decisions. Most of it really stems from the fact that I am being rather stubborn about being an adult, to be brutally honest. But, in spite of that, I still conduct myself accordingly because no one is going to respect someone who acts like a child. I figure, I can go have my moments to scream it out at home and not worry about someone else’s reaction, other than my mom trying to figure out what’s wrong me. But, I digress…

Considering the fact that I am in what I believe to be my final year of undergraduate studies, as a “super senior”, there are a lot of things that I am preparing for. Number one is graduation. I have already achieved so much thus far and I am just one semester away from being finished and earning a piece of paper with my name on it saying I have a Bachelor of Music Performance degree from Saint Xavier University. It’s so close I can taste it. But, then there are those things that come after graduation that I am trying to prepare myself for:
· grad school
· having a job
· paying back student loans
· buying a car
· moving into my own place
· getting married
· having kids
· being an entrepreneur
· becoming a famous musician, just to name a few…

Grad school… It’s that time of year where many graduate programs have their application deadlines. Talk about pressure! Many of the same deciding factors that stood for determining what brought you to the place where you gained your undergraduate degree tend to remain the same, to an extent, for the place where you gain you graduate degree. Of course, you have to keep in mind the cost of the education you want to receive, the location and most importantly, the quality of education you would be gaining from the institution you choose.

At this point, I am strongly set on going to Columbia College Chicago, located in the lovely downtown Chicago area. Now, just going off of what I have learned in life thus far, nothing is ever promised, and though you may have a particular plan set out for some things, don’t be surprised if and/or when your circumstances change, whether it be for good or bad reasons.

In addition to determining what to do for grad school, there is the whole idea of whether or not I will have a job following graduation. Well, I have decided that I can’t really worry about it. I will have to take things one day at a time and just see what happens along the way. However, I am a person with very, very strong faith in my life and my abilities, so I’m almost certain that there will be something waiting for me somewhere, but I won’t know for sure until I reach that road.

Then, there are these other things that have such a strong financial stipulation attached to it. Since, I decided to further my education beyond high school and undergrad that means I have more money to pay back. In hindsight, I really, really wish I had have applied myself in earlier years of education so that I could knock off some of this money, but hey, not everyone gets straight A’s and full rides. Nevertheless, I just take it as a lesson learned which will enable me to make even better decisions in the future. So, on top of the thought of having a job, there is the heavy thought of how to pay back student loans. Well, I must reiterate, I have very strong faith, and I am not even going to worry about it, because I know that everything will be taken care of for me, one way or another.

The next financial obligation is buying a car. I‘ve found during this time of me being a commuter student that public transportation is not for me. Right now, I’m in not in the position to buy a car. It’s unfortunate having to use public trans and here are a few reasons why… When using public trans, it usually takes me about an hour to an hour and a half to get home on two buses and a train versus 20-30 minutes driving. Plus, it is absolutely stressful mentally and physically. With a car, I would be able to travel with ease, for the most part. I wouldn’t have to worry about a passenger causing a delay for any reason, or have to worry about whether or not I will arrive to my destination safely and in a timely fashion. I’d be in control of the situation and not anyone else. It’s really tough sometimes, but you gotta do what you gotta do, ya know? But, I know that when I do eventually buy a car, it is going to be, if not exactly what I want (which is a Honda CR-V 2007 or younger), then it will be quite close to it. What can I say, I have high expectations and I want what I want.

The last few things also have their various levels of financial responsibility. I have given much thought to having a place of my own and moving out of my mom’s house, but then there was another thought that came along with it. On one end, it would be totally awesome to have my own place just so that I wouldn’t have to deal with certain things, and have a little more freedom. On another end, I would be away from my family more and I would probably have to pay for rent or a lease, furniture, utilities, amenities…and why do that, when you can live at home for next to nothing? It’s a big decision to be on your own and responsible for many things. I’ve made the decision that I’ll probably be living with my mom until I’m married. Why you ask? Well, it is tremendously cheap, I can still contribute to the household needs at a much lower rate than I would living on my own, I can save more money that way, and plus, I will still be close to my mom. I’m her only girl, so it’s just one of those bonds that I don’t want to get away from.

Finally, there’s getting married, having kids, becoming an entrepreneur and a famous musician. Who knows when all of this is going to happen, but I know that it will be either sooner or later. Marriage and kids are financial obligations that I have no problems with, as well as the entrepreneurship and fame. I made the decision long ago that these things would happen for me. It just takes a lot of blood, sweat, tears, assertiveness, stick-to-itiveness, and as someone once told me, money.

You decide to take the first step and whether or not to continue along that path or to make a u-turn. However it goes, the decision is yours. No one can force you to do something that you don’t want to do. You are the author of your own book, so make every decision count and make it worth the risk, if there is any. Life is full of surprises and how you handle them is completely up to you. You can either be graceful or erratic, whatever works best for you. Be bold and don’t sell yourself short by choosing not to do something.

Your life… Your decision… Decide to live for yourself and all else will fall into place.

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

Maintaining Inner Peace

2011-11-17T08:58:00.000-08:00

By Sydney Bennett

Maintaining Inner Peace

So, we are nearing the end of the semester and I am actually really looking forward to a break. Looking back on all the assignments I have done and grades achieved, I’m realizing that each semester really does carry its own load. But, what about the loads outside of the classroom? I’ve learned that life does not stop for anyone. It often seems like everything happens at once. Blessings, tragedies, rough times, grace, strength, weaknesses are blended and poured into the cup we call life. For most of my older childhood, I have had to deal with auto-immune illnesses. I was diagnosed with Chron’s disease around the age of 12 and Psoriasis a few years later. However, this blog isn’t just about me or what I go through. It’s about how we all maintain peace, as college students, who have to deal with everything else. I want to offer a few tips in hopes of inspiring myself and others to finish strong and keep going despite it all.

Here is what keeps me going:

1. Faith/Inspiration
I don’t know what I would do without what I consider a beautiful growing relationship with my Savior, Jesus Christ. My faith gives me a higher purpose and strength to deal with everything that life throws my way. I stay inspired by principles and ideas that support my faith beliefs in many ways. I read my Bible, subscribe to blogs, attend services, pray, and listen to music that is all in alignment with what I believe. It’s important to be surrounded by what we truly believe, so that we don’t forget what we stand for in life’s ups and downs.

2. Support
Support is something I am slowly becoming more accepting of. It was normal for me, during rough times, to just deal with them alone and not really talk to anyone. However, relationships started to form where people in my life really wanted to be there for me and I had to learn to accept support. Support can come in the form of family, friends, groups, or counselors. Whatever way it comes for you accept opportunities that lend support, you’ll feel better.

3. Rest/Relaxation
Most college students are always on the go. Classes, meetings, practices, and jobs keep us quite busy. Dealing with illnesses has taught me how important it is to have still time. These are moments throughout the day where I take to time to sit down and do things that are relaxing to me. How much time I take depends on how I feel. It is usually good to have quiet time in the morning when waking up and right before bed.

4. Goal Setting
I find that constantly creating to-do lists or having a list of goals, keeps me focused. I use planners, computer apps, and whatever is around me. One key with goal setting is that my goals shift depending on what is going on in my life. Personal priorities should be held with high regard. While one minute my goal may be to get A’s on all assignments, the next minute my goals shift to just being stress free and maintaining peace.

I hope this has helped you!

Keep Calm and Sing On

2011-11-16T07:38:00.000-08:00

By Luci Farrell

“Please explain to me why you, of all people, have yet to write a blog about the importance of music in staying sane.”

That is an actual quote from a good friend of mine. She makes a fair point. Many would agree music is a large part of their lives and I would have to agree. I started playing flute at a young age, but sang along to the radio long before that. Of course, I can’t say my musical upbringing was normal.

At my (paternal) grandparent’s you would hear opera and soundtracks to my grandmother’s favorite musicals.

I'm gonna wash that man right outa my hair.

And send him on his way.

Then there happened to be my grandfather humming the Marine’s Hymm. (Also a happy belated birthday to any Marine’s out there. Semper Fi.)

We are proud to claim the title of United States Marine.

Then you had my parents. My mother, bless the woman, has been the beautiful influence on my upbringing with country:

You know I might have been born just plain white trash

But Fancy was my name

Then she gave me a love for the oldies, the Rat Pack, and Elvis. Coming from the woman who took me to the Grand Ole Opry and Graceland this summer you have to understand my connection to music is a strong one.

Then you have my father. The one thing he and I can agree with is music. Everyone has that problem in their youth that they just cannot agree with their parents. My father and I found our agreement in music (and arguments over literature). To this day his ringtone for me is Baba O’Riley by The Who.

Teenage wasteland.

It’s only teenage wasteland

…yeah he’s funny.

In my neighborhood all you ever heard was Spanish rap, the kind that always makes you want to dance. I warned you my music roots were questionable.

Music shapes us and helps us grow. My iTunes has a horrible personality disorder from my years growing up. It’s only gotten better (or worse depending on how you view it) as the years went on. Like most angsty teens I went through my phase of screamo and metal. No not Korn or Disturbed. Please, do not mention that in my presence. I also swear by all I hold dear if anyone ever mentions Rammstein to me I will scream. That is a long story for another day…

I have my rock in every degree, indie, pop, ska, reggee, soul, R&B, swing, French music, really if you name it I have it. Well, minus jazz. Jazz makes me sleepy, fun fact right there.

We hold music close. It rocks us to sleep, keeps us awakes, brings tears, creates laughter, and it makes memories. Some memories are great and some hurt after a while. There is always a song that reminds us of someone. There are songs in my library that will always make me think of certain friends, even if I they are no longer a part of my life.

To this day every time I hear I Will Follow You Into The Dark by Death Cab for Cutie I will think of freshman year. We would sit around in the small dorms listening to my friend play guitar. Soft singing would follow the familiar cords and it just tugs at my heart.

If there's no one beside you

When your soul embarks

Then I'll follow you into the dark

I remember mosh pits and the energy of a crowd at a Dropkick Murphys show. The bruises, scars, and lost or torn articles of clothing will always make the night more memorable. The music dying down as strangers hug each other and sway to the final bars of Forever.

Forever I'll find you, forever we'll be

Forever your power and strength stays with me

Forever…

The music gets to us. I admit it keeps the romantic in us alive even when we want to be bitter and jaded. I would be a liar if I said I haven’t always wished someone would sing Iris by the Goo Goo Dolls to me. Music makes us sappy, but in all the right ways.

Music keeps me sane in the insanity that is school. I have a playlist for every occasion and when the silence is too much, music will always be there.
Make a playlist, invest in a good set of headphones, swap music, and let the songs make memories. Everything you need in life is a melody away. Sing in the shower, in the car, through the tears, through the laugher, and through the goodbyes.

Keep Calm and Sing On

A Time for Action

2011-11-15T20:28:00.000-08:00

By Genevieve Buthod

A Time for Action

This past weekend, I had an incredible opportunity through Saint Xavier’s very own Students for Justice in Palestine (SJP) group. I was able to attend a series of “We Divest” campaign training workshops with the American Friends Service Committee of Chicago. The event took place at DePaul University downtown, and after traveling up there for the evening, I was a little worried about how I was going to get home later that evening. Thankfully, the organizers invited me to stay for dinner, and I ended up staying at the hostel across from the HW Library with the other participants. I met so many student activists from all over the country, from Seattle to Baltimore. I learned so much from the event and have many new ideas about how to educate the student body (as well as the faculty) here at SXU.

As I mentioned to everyone there, I love going to a smaller school because it is not nearly as intimidating to approach the administration with your concerns. For instance, divestment from corporations that are profiting from the Israeli(-U.S.) occupation of Palestine is a pretty big task to ask of your school. At Saint Xavier, however, I feel we will be able to make some real headway because of the open environment and level of student-faculty engagement. On top of the program itself, I learned so much from the other student activists who attended to represent their universities. We were all able to share tips about student organizing and creative bold ideas for campus events. I was also able to re-connect with the AFSC’s Middle East Program Director whom I met at an event at Columbus Park earlier this year. It feels good to be making more Chicago-wide connections in my activism! If you want to get involved, you can start by checking out this website: http://wedivest.org/ and signing the petition.

To go along with that idea, one thing you can do as a student right here is to attend “My Name is Rachel Corrie,” a play based on the life of an American student who traveled to Palestine to help fight the occupation, and was killed by Israeli construction equipment because she was standing between them and a Palestinian home. It is an incredibly inspirational story that will spur anyone to direct action, so please give it a chance! It’s at 6:30 in the Fourth Floor Boardroom this Thursday evening.

On a lighter note, the SXU Jazz Combo concert went pretty well this past Friday (I hope some of you were able to make it!). Everyone played well, and just as importantly, I think we all felt good about the performance. This coming Friday at 7:30 in McGuire again is the Jazz Big Band concert, which will be a lot of fun if you can make it! Free to all students, as always. Hope to see you then!

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a double major in computer science and philosophy. She is a women’s studies minor, and thinking about a music minor as well. Genevieve is an officer in the Alliance (the GSA) and is a happy, healthy vegan. She is also involved with the Students for Justice in Palestine.

Keep it Moving

2011-11-11T14:39:00.000-08:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Keep it Moving

Keep it moving… yet another cliché statement to say the least, but pretty self-explanatory. In other words, don’t stop no matter what. You have to continue to push forward or fall backward; those are really the only options in life. You either live or you die. Another thing to keep in mind in the non-stop motion is to never get too comfortable. It is definitely alright to find comfort in something and be comfortable with something, but don’t get so caught in your comfort with one thing that you neglect the reality of life and that there are others things happening around you.

I am one who loves to live by example and be the guinea pig and picked apart, well sometimes. So here’s my example… For the duration of this current semester, I have been preparing for one of the biggest nights of my life, my first formal vocal recital. I have been feeling a great deal of mixed emotions like happiness, sadness, anger, frustration, excitement, eagerness, nervousness and a bunch of others. I know it’s kind of crazy to have all of things going at once, but it is what I’m feeling. I have been singing for 20 years of my life and have been classically training for the past 8 years. I always imagined what the moment would be like when I got up to sing in front of a large crowd and in less than a day it will be happening.

Now, just so you know, I have been performing for some time now. It really began during my high school years when I got into heavily performing. I sang in a few Gospel groups, such as the well-known Chicago-based community choir and recording group, Joshua’s Troop. In addition, I sang in a group with a few friends from high school, Worship Experience, where we had the opportunity to open for the famous Gospel duo, MaryMary. Plus, I have given numerous solo performances in the church venue singing primarily gospel. Also, while in high school, I had the opportunity to sing with the internationally-known Kenwood Academy Concert Choir, where I had the opportunity to sing for such people as, then Senator Barack Obama, Rev. Marvin Winans, Andrae Crouch, Judge Greg Mathis, Tiny “Deebo” Lister (from the comedy “Friday”), Rev. Jesse Jackson and the Rainbow PUSH Coalition, and many, many more.

This itself is a relatively long list, and there are others, but too many to name. I guess you can say I really found my calling while in the Concert Choir. There were so many things that were instilled in me as a person and a performer. I learned during that time that I had to keep it moving and don’t get too comfortable. I learned that I was not the best singer around as I had thought for so long. It at first did sting a little bit, but, hey, that is how the business works.

Here we are present day and I’m in the week leading up to my recital. Like I mentioned before, there is this excitement and happiness brewing inside of me, among the other emotions. I’m both excited and happy for a few reasons: I have the opportunity to share my gift of song with others. A majority of those that I share it with have been on this journey with me for a while and it warms my heart to know that I make a difference in someone’s life with my music and my gift, which is my voice. Aside from me using my voice for singing, I am a rather outspoken, assertive and sometimes aggressive person, so I make sure to lend my voice to things of greater magnitude, such as taking a stand for something that I don’t agree with. God gave me the strength to do what I have to do and be who I have to be, which is why, I know to keep it moving.

As I ponder about the people I have invited and want to be present at the recital, I have to remember to not put so much focus into that because, there will be some people who are and are not able to make it. On this past Tuesday, November 9, 2011, I stopped by the “Pizza with the President” in the SXU Diner, hosted by SAB/SGA, and as I was preparing to get some food, I was given some really awesome news… The president of SXU, Christine Wiseman, told me “I’ll be there!” I was so shocked and excited at the same time, but, here it is again… Don’t get comfortable and keep it moving. I can’t get so caught up in the excitement of things and lose sight of what needs to be done. There is still work that must take place and whether she does show up or not, I can’t let that phase me in any way. I have to continue to go for the goal and not worry about those things that I cannot be 100% sure of. As much as I may want to have certain people there to share my gift with, I know that things happen and nothing is promised. So, again, I say, keep it moving.

I find much inspiration and motivation in the opportunities I’m presented with. I can’t express how grateful I am to be in the position I’m currently in. It’s so amazing, which brings me back to another quote “Go for Yours” which I have seen quite often now from a young woman who is has become an inspiration to many, Erika McCall. She has recently published a book entitled “Go for Yours”, which in essence to me means, go for your goals and don’t allow anything to deter you from reaching them. Continue to keep it moving regardless of what obstacles come your way. In life we face many battles that may cause us to slightly falter, but you gotta keep it moving.

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

Sunday Brunch with True Beauties

2011-11-10T12:59:00.000-08:00

By Sydney Bennett

Sunday Brunch with True Beauties

Last Sunday I had the opportunity to attend an event hosted by The Media Girl’s Foundation. The Foundation is newly formed by Chundria and Nekia Nichelle, two women in Chicago Media with a passion for motivating girls. Their mission is to educate and inspire girls and women through media arts including Television, Film, Journalism and Radio. “Media” in the foundation’s name is an acronym for motivated, educated, dedicated, and individually amazing. That’s exactly how I felt after attending the Beauties Brunch.

The event was free and open to girls of all ages. When I arrived, I was happy to see faces from a few friends. The turnout was great. The number of young girls that had come out was definitely a success. Before I arrived girls received free manicures and were in line waiting to receive tasty treats, all provided freely. Shortly after arriving, the hosts began with presenting themselves and the speakers of the day. There was something I was able to take from every speaker.

Nikeya Young, a plus size model, talked about the importance of a confident walk. She picked volunteers from the audience and had the girls represent different types of walks. Audience members commented on what each walk revealed about the girl. A key phrase that became popular after the event from Nikeya was, “A queen never looks down.” She was referring to their stature in walking and encouraged girls to stand tall and confident.

Natalie King, another model shared fashion tips. She gave the basic essentials that every girl needs and demonstrated how to transform a basic outfit to a night look. She allowed audience volunteers an opportunity to do a quick personal makeover with the tips they had gained. The girls did great! I stopped and wondered if I had a sense of style at such a young age, many of the girls there were pre-teens. Perhaps the most important bit of advice Natalie shared, was to have the total package. Although, she is a model, she is also a college student working on a PhD. She gave the girls beauty tips, standing as a powerful example of the potential of their minds.

There were other inspiring women panelists including Sukmeke Rainey Watkins (Producer, WCIU), Cassandra Gaddo(Today’s Chicago Woman Magazine, Editor), CeCe Gonzales & Melinda Joseph (Dynamic Event Planners), Anita Rechell Vaughn (WVON, Executive Producer), Tisha Lewis (FOX Chicago News) Maisha Wynn (Word Wynn- CEO & Uptown Media Group- Regional Advertising Director), and Tammie Souza (FOX Chicago News Meteorologist).

The special guest appearance was from actress/singer/dancer, Naturi Naughton. She is well known as member of girl group 3LW. She gave the girls a very motivational and personal testimony on how to deal with rejection without letting it steer them away from goals. She even sang a song from, Fame, a movie she was in.

Overall, The Media Girl’s Foundation True Beauties Brunch was a great event that motivated me to continue the journey that I am on in college and see the potential of my future.

Save the Light!

2011-11-10T06:55:00.000-08:00

By Luci Farrell

Save the Light

For those that aren’t aware we have now entered the realm of Daylight Savings Time. This means two things. One, the first few days we all love feeling as if we have an extra hour of sleep. Two, by 4 p.m. it’s dark and everyone is ready to pass out. Many are also chalking that up to the dark weather that usually accompanies fall. Truth be told, I like the fall atmosphere. It puts you in the mood to curl up in an oversized chair, read, and watch the rain and wind outside of a window. Replace overstuffed chair with my designated stool and that’s what I do. You can usually find me in the first stool by the counter of the second window at the new Starbucks on campus. If I’m not there I’m usually in class or asleep on my couch. Exciting life right?

Now is the time it is really hitting me that I’m in my last year. Last night I was sitting in Starbucks with my friends and I was doodling my class schedule for next semester. My friend caught me staring at it asking if something was wrong. Wrong? Not exactly. I was staring at my last semester of classes. I was sitting by the few people that I have been friends with since my freshman year (actually to be honest since FOCUS) and a few we’ve picked up along the way. It’s a scary thought. We look at the years we’ve spent in schooling. I was with mostly the same people from Kindergarten to 8th grade. I spent four years in high school and made a lasting bond with one person who will be a part of my life forever. Then I look at college. Another four years and yet these people have lived with me for that time. It’s not like grade school where you have classes and go home. In college you need to learn to live together. Seeing each other daily, interacting, and learning how to cope when friendships fail. Then I think again on Daylight Savings.

Time. What do we do with our time? We look at our clocks and just laugh. Clocks are abused beyond belief. They face being changed constantly and those of us that have alarm clocks have probably at some point thrown something at that clock we truly shouldn’t have. What are we using our hours for? Are we studying? Are we spending time with our loved ones? Are we truly appreciating the time we have together?

I own up to the fact I have not always used my time fairly. I am trying so hard to use it the best way I can in my last year. I do not want to leave Chicago only having favorite memories from my first three years. I do not want to think back on my last year and remember everything bad that happened. I am using my time the best way I can. I have coffee. I do homework. I sit in a coffee shop and see the people I miss the most. I try not to be a stranger to the people who will tell you about that crazy road trip we went on our freshman year. Or about our Christmas party sophomore year. Or about the nights spent with three of us asleep on the couch last year (study session gone wrong).

Appreciate your time. Just because it gets darker early doesn’t mean the day is defeated. There is always time.

Keep Calm and Live On

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

Strike Out on a New Path

2011-11-09T06:27:00.000-08:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Strike Out on a New Path

It seems as though each year at school is like a train, slowly but surely picking up speed as the weeks go by, until it is going so fast you can barely see it passing. (It’s a pretty fast train). We only have two more weeks until Thanksgiving break, and after we return to school, only two more (finals-filled) weeks until Winter break! It’s very exciting, but also very stressful if you stop to think about everything that must be accomplished in such a short amount of time.

Mixed in with all of the stress, however, are some opportunities for fun, both on- and off-campus. For instance, just this past weekend I dragged a couple of my carnivore friends to the annual Chicago Vegan Mania fest at Pulaski Park, just off Division at Ashland. It was surprising to see what a packed house it was, everyone from parents with their kids, to old-school hippies, to pretty girls with shaved heads and septum gauges. The food was amazing, the cooking demonstrations were very useful, and there was even live music on a big stage. It was a nice break in between studying and working all week.

I think it’s important to take a breather every now and then and realize how lucky we are to be living in Chicago! Why waste any minute not appreciating this big city? College is about embracing new experiences, and I believe that goes far beyond seeing what clubs are on campus, or what movie is showing in the lounge that night. Other than that, it’s a very cheap alternative to studying abroad. If you have an open-minded perspective, you can learn so much just from exploring the city you live in. With so many different global neighborhoods in Chicago, it’s not too difficult to feel some one else’s culture and hear their language all around you, simply by walking down a new block or two.

I know it’s hard to get away from all of our responsibilities with school and work, so if you really can’t break away from everything, maybe try something new on campus. The guitar ensemble and jazz combo will be playing a show in McGuire Hall at 7:30 this Friday evening, and it’s free to all students. If you feel like testing out a few new kinds of music you may not have considered trying before, this is a great way to start. Hope to see you there!

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a double major in computer science and philosophy. She is a women’s studies minor, and thinking about a music minor as well. Genevieve is an officer in the Alliance (the GSA) and is a happy, healthy vegan. She is also involved with the Students for Justice in Palestine.

Where Do We Go From Here?

2011-11-04T12:59:00.000-07:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Where Do We Go From Here?

Where do we go from here is such a broad question. Here can be and is a different place for everyone.

All of us are given a chance in life. You can either do something or not do something. I know that’s pretty general, so allow me to elaborate a little. If you set a goal for yourself to reach and you believe that it is for you to attain, then go for it! Or not.

There may be a lot going on in your life presently. Many of us are working toward reaching multiple goals, some that have been with us since childhood and others that have developed over time. I have goals that have been set for some time and I have achieved them and then some. Much of the “and then some” comes from those things that I didn’t necessarily expect. It was just more so a miraculous occurrence or experience. With all that has taken place in my life, I don’t think I would have been able to even fathom the thought of where I am now.

I’ll try to keep this straight to the point… My main goal, as may be the same for others, is to be successful in all that I do. No one is perfect, but I’m a perfectionist, to an extent, and a bit of a control freak. I strive for greatness and excellence and it pours over into everything I’m involved in. For me it is music, academics and the Ambassador Program. However, I like to be honest, so in this case, though I do strive for excellence, I often fall victim to procrastination and laziness. Some things don’t necessarily receive as much attention as is required, which in turn forces me to work harder in some instances, but I figure it’s all a part of life and what some of us may be experiencing as “growing pains”.

During the four years I have worked within the SXU Office of Admission, I have been provided with several opportunities for growth and it has become a pretty essential part of my life. In spite of it being essential to me, I have learned to never get too attached to anything because your circumstances can change at the blink of an eye. I have faced some of my greatest challenges during my undergrad career and I am grateful for it because it is an introduction to how the real world operates as well as how to conduct myself in a business setting.

In addition to my work in Admissions, my academic and musical career path has also presented many challenges for me. Some of these challenges were heightened by my own infractions but as I gained more knowledge and wisdom, I discovered that I need not make things harder for myself than they already are. It somewhat goes back to the whole self-sabotage thing. Despite those challenges, I have overcome quite a bit. I have developed some wonderful relationships with many of my professors and other music professionals, some of whom have been with me from the very beginning of my undergrad career. They have really watched me shape into the adult that I am working to solidify.

As I am in this last year, I find myself reflecting on a lot of things that have taken place since I began this journey into adulthood. I have recently begun asking myself, and others, “where do we go from here?” Well, it really depends on the situation, but more generally and straightforward, you can either go up or down, which again is a choice. I chose long ago that I am going to go up and have been since I made that decision. Of course you are going to stumble and maybe even fall during the quest to climb to the top, but you bounce back up and keep it moving, or at least that is what I do. I have set a goal of attending Columbia College Chicago where I would like to attain my Master’s degree and then further down the road, I have the high aspiration of attending The Juilliard School of Music for my Doctor’s. But, there are a few of humps that I have to get over first, like my recitals and graduation. You know, those “little” things.

I am forever grateful though, for all that I have experienced within these five years of undergrad. It has often been said to me that this is the time where you really find yourself and get to know who you are and I have definitely accomplished much of that thus far.

This all reminds me of someone I met a while ago. I never really had the opportunity to get to know her in depth, but she is doing something that is rather profound, personally. A young aspiring author/motivational speaker, Erica McCall, recently finished a book entitled “Go for Yours”. Now what exactly does that mean? Well, just about everything that I have mentioned above is a culmination of these three words. It is pretty simple… go for what you want and need out of life. I’m going for mine and have been reaping the rewards everyday that I am able to wake and live another day. So, long story short, go for yours and don’t stop even if you reach the top because there is always room for more.

By the way, check out Erica’s website: http://www.goforyours.com/. I think you will be inspired.

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

My Favorite Classes

2011-11-03T17:26:00.000-07:00

By Sydney Bennett

My Favorite Classes & Assignments So Far!

Now that we have about a month left of classes for this semester, I am beginning to reflect on my favorites. Although, I still have a substantial amount of assignments due before the end of the semester, I have a pretty good idea on which classes I have enjoyed the most. They would have to be my Video Production class and my Digital Photo class. Just because those classes have been the most enjoyable out of five, does not mean they have been the easiest!

In Television Production, I came in not really knowing what to expect. Our school is not exactly known as a media school and I wondered what type of skills I would gain. I have been able to learn many technical skills that will help me if I choose to go into video production. A lot of what I learned was trial and error. In this class we learn video recording techniques and various other roles and positions. However, it is one thing to read about something in a book and another to actually put those techniques into physical practice! I found that sometimes I would get frustrated because I wanted to know exactly what I was doing while recording and editing, but some knowledge comes with practice and experience.

This class taught me the beauty of “learning as I go”. I also like the creativity the class has given me with being able to personally edit work and pick topics that are interesting to me. For one of my assignments, we had to film a How-To video. I used a friend as a model and showed my viewers how to achieve different looks with one scarf. It was so much fun being in the role of director, fashion designer, and editor! I probably would have not known what I was capable of if I didn’t have to rise to the challenge. I can thank this class for showing me this.

Digital Photo has also been a creative release for me and I always like having an art class in my schedule for that very reason. We have had various assignments of capturing pictures from different angles, designs, and perspectives. One of my favorite moments in that class, was right after class ended one rainy day and I was completely inspired. Our class just turned in an assignment that involved focusing on light and colors. It was raining outside and I looked down and saw a water rainbow formation on the ground. I was immediately inspired and whipped out my camera to take a picture. I was later able to turn in the picture for a grade. Digital Photo has taught me the beauty of the creativity everyone is capable of and to always be prepared for inspiration!

I think it’s a good idea to reflect on some of your classes and assignments. You may not be in love with all of your classes, but you have probably had an enjoyable moment in at least one. Feel free to share!

Sydney Bennett is a junior from Chicago, Illinois. She is a Mass Communications major with minors in both Sociology and Art & Design. She is President of Ambassador's for Christ(AFC) and a member of their Gospel choir at Saint Xavier.

Things to Remember Come November!

2011-11-02T09:38:00.000-07:00

By Luci Farrell

Hello Dear Bloggers,

Happy All Souls Day! As Midterms are over and professors are handing back grades, many scramble for ways to bring up their grades. This can be because of slacking or for others who are on the fence over a grade and just need to bump it up to get that A. Coming from someone who sits on the fence rather often, the last stretch of the semester is very important. There are a few things that can help you focus on classes and might help you gain those few extra points you need.

Point #1: DO NOT MISS ANYMORE CLASSES.
Seriously. Most professors allow you to miss two or three classes before it affects your grade. These days are used (as far as I am concerned) for three reasons. Reason One: You are actually too sick to come to class. Reason Two: Mental health day. Reason Three: You are cramming for another test or paper. Once you hit November, you should do all in your power not to miss any more classes. Your professors will look around to see who is still in class for one (believe it or not, most do notice) and your attendance, even if you’re just in class to review an exam already taken, it is important. I know some professors, especially when the attendance for that day is low, will give a pop quiz to help those in class. This pop quiz might be anything from a question he answered two minutes before to the title of the class. Not only do things like that help, but paying extra attention and asking questions is a way to boost your participation grade and help you in the long run. This may not be enough to make up for the rest of your semester, but in these last few weeks the extra effort will help.

Point #2: The Pen is Mightier than the Keyboard
I know this kills everyone to read, but sometimes the pen does indeed beat the keyboard. This is also coming from a blogger, so I realize the irony. This can, however, be true when it comes to studying. There is some difference between handwriting notes and typing them. When I am in class I type my notes due to time limitation (I’m a quick typist, but slow with my handwriting), but when I make notes before an exam I handwrite them out, especially during finals. Seeing important information in your own handwriting does help with comprehension. It has also been said that the more you write something the better you remember it. So take your notes and write out the key points. Write out the summary points at the end of each chapter on your exam and notice the change in how you remember information. In addition to writing things out, there are a few color tricks. One thing that I used to do was color coordinate my binders with my class. Use colored note cards. Blue is a color many advertisers use because of the idea of serenity it portrays. Many things we read on a blue background stay with us. The other main advertising color is red. It’s bright, it’s bold, and it captures attention easily. I bet right now you’re thinking of red and you may be thinking about a major company. Target? Coca Cola? Netflix? Marvel (for all my geeky friends)?

Point #3: Map it Out
Okay, this is the simplest point I can make. Map out your exams, papers, meetings, and everything else. One of my greatest investments have been whiteboards. Aside from my giant whiteboard I bought to help map out my train of thought for senior project (it also doubles as a board of quotes and cute messages left behind by friends), I also have a whiteboard calendar. Classes, meetings, birthdays, and paydays each have their own color when I write them on this calendar. The calendar hangs by my door so when I leave and come home I get another reminder of what the week ahead looks like. I also see how everything fits for the rest of the month so I never forget. This helps you manage your days. Maybe you have three papers due Monday, but you forgot about that service project that you want to do. Work around it. Figure out the hours you’ll be gone and see if any of your other days are free. Some professors cancel a class or two before the end as workdays so you can really dive into a project. Use those days to your advantage. Sleep in an extra hour (no more) and get down to business. Write that paper, make those notes, and get it done!

Keep in mind, when I write these blogs I want to help you, but in a way I’m helping myself. So enjoy dear readers as we help each other.

As always if you have a question or comment shoot me an e-mail or leave a comment on the blog!
Until next time. Same Cougar time, same Cougar place!

Keep Calm and Notecard On

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

Venturing into New Territory

2011-11-01T12:57:00.000-07:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Venturing into New Territory

This past week, I had an idea to expand my writing skills, while still contributing to Saint Xavier. I decided it might be fun to write for the Xavierite, the school newspaper, and so I talked to my friend who happens to be the senior features editor. She introduced me to the editor-in-chief, who gave me the contact info for their boss, and *bam*. I am now a writer for the Xavierite! I’m pretty excited because it is just another instance of wanting to achieve a goal at SXU, following through, and actually getting it. I was greeted very warmly by the rest of the staff, and was quickly taught new skills I needed to be a good part of the team. I love having so many opportunities to go after what I love, even though I’m still in college.

Later that week, the Alliance headed a trip to the Chicago History Museum to see the “Out in Chicago” exhibit. It was an extensive look at GLBT history in our city that many may never have learned about growing up here. It served as a reminder that hidden histories do in fact exist, they have just been subject to such an effort to muffle them that we never really get a chance to hear them. Having one’s history be told and therefore somewhat validated is an incredible tool of power that not many have the privilege of truly possessing. It made me happy to see a small change in this pattern and to read the stories of some of Chicago’s first gay rights activists. It was nice to remember that this history extends far back beyond Stonewall.

Another adventure of the past week was up to Logan Square for a friend’s Halloween get-together, full of artsy Columbia students. We also stopped in the Hot Diggity Dog vintage sale, complete with a vegan food truck, dogs running around, and all the proceeds going to a stray rescue group in Chicago. All in all, a fairly successful Halloween weekend.

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a double major in computer science and philosophy. She is a women’s studies minor, and thinking about a music minor as well. Genevieve is an officer in the Alliance (the GSA) and is a happy, healthy vegan. She is also involved with the Students for Justice in Palestine.

How Strong is Your Foundation?

2011-10-28T14:54:00.000-07:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

How Strong is Your Foundation?

What do you believe in? What are some things that you firmly stand on? This can range from a few to many. Being one who tries to live life as more of a wholly identified person, I have to keep in mind at all times that everyone will not agree with you or see you as you see yourself. You may even have a few people who actually do see the whole and real you.

Considering many of us are pursuing a degree, we essentially have a lot on our plates. Some of us may be struggling to keep things in order and others may have things down to a science. Though there may be some who have things down to a science, you almost always have at least one area where you may fall short in. This is because you are just one person, either trying to figure out the hang of life as an adult or saturated in adulthood and have some fluidity.

Life is a lot to handle and you have to understand that there is a time for certain things to happen in your life. Many of these things really help you to grow in the end, believe it or not. Some us of have people we can “fall back” on while others may just have themselves to rely on. It really depends on a few different factors. For instance, maybe you’re an introvert or an extrovert. Some may enjoy attention and others may just live without trying to gain any unnecessary attention.

Some other things to consider are how you were brought up. Not everyone grows up in the “traditional” sense of a two-parent household. If you were like me, you may have grown up in a single-parent home, with just a mom, or dad or you may have grown up under the care of a grandparent, aunt or uncle. Then, there are others who may have been adopted in some other way. There are various things that have contributed to the decisions you make in life. This also has an effect on how strong or weak your foundation is.

In life, there are many challenges that we experience. These challenges will come through various avenues and you have to learn how to deal with what happens. Some of the challenges you experience may have been brought on by yourself or others. But too often people don’t want to take responsibility for their actions and blame other people for what they did wrong instead of seeing things as a whole. Challenges come in all aspects of life, whether personal, academic, financial or social. You have to be careful how you handle every situation that comes your way. Make sure to take what you have learned from your past shortcomings to make better choices in the future. No need for you to going around in circles.

I sometimes wonder how different things could be for me if I had or didn’t have certain things. Often I feel that there is a void that needs to be filled in some way because of the lack of some things I didn’t have as a child. Now this is not to say that I was not well taken care of in the least. My mother worked very hard to sustain and maintain a healthy life for me and my younger brother. But it is a difficult process to complete singularly. There were always others who I consider to be my extended family that lent a helping hand and provided guidance for me, but still, I wanted and longed for something else. As I grew older and my understanding of life grew deeper, I began to let certain things go. You cannot worry about the things you have no control over and can’t change. There is much truth behind “everything happens for a reason”.

I am a firm believer in God, and I’m definitely not here to push religion on you… That there is one of my pet peeves, but I digress. Since I believe in God, I believe that all that I go through in life happens to make me stronger and should be taken as a lesson to learn from. Of course you’re not going to like what happens, but that is not what life is about. You can’t have everything that you want or like; it is more about what you need to make things happen. I try to use myself as an example for others and provide advice or words of wisdom to avoid some of the situations I have encountered, because honestly, I have been in some really awesome and really terrible situations.

I have to say though that I am grateful for what I have experienced thus far in my short 22 years of living. If I could tell you all that I have been through, you would be awestruck (seriously), but I can’t reveal all my secrets to success, ya know? Between my personal life and my academic life, there are a lot of things that I hold on to as reference guides. I have a pretty strong foundation of my own as well as with others who surround me. I can confidently say that I am able to stand on my own two feet and have been able to for some time. You may feel a little fear once in a while, but don’t let that fear hold you back from reaching your goals. Face your fears, face yourself, and be honest with yourself. You know what you are capable of and no one can do anything to prevent you from getting where you need to be or getting what you want out of life. The biggest enemies and critics we have are ourselves.

There is a saying that I have heard quite often throughout my life and I’m almost certain that many of you may have also heard it, too… “If you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything.” These are some very strong words. Short and simple, your foundation will either be weak or strong, depending on what you have chosen to do. My foundation is firm and unbreakable. I no longer fear the outcomes of situations. I figure, whatever happens, happens and I will put forth my best effort for the most pleasant outcome.

If your foundation is a little shaky, try tightening it up. I promise you, things will become so much easier to handle. In the meantime, stay strong and true, it’s the best way to be.

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

Fall Picking, New Beginnings

2011-10-27T13:26:00.000-07:00

By Sydney Bennett

Fall Picking, New Beginnings

The time has come again to pick classes for next semester. Whenever this time comes around there is a sense of urgency from many students. My hope is that this blog will be a great opportunity to gain tips as well as provide students with insight on classes they might not have known SXU offers.

First, let’s start with tips. Yes, as a student you are deciding what will consume a lot of your time for the next four months, but don’t freak out! Even though we do sign up for classes, there are a couple of chances to either change your class choice before or after you get into the class (within the required time). Make sure you have checked Claws to see when you are eligible to register for classes. Everyone has a different time and you want to register as early as possible because classes fill up fast! Next, make sure to set up a meeting with your advisor a week or so in advance. Your advisor has to approve that you are on track and able to register for your classes. It helps to have printed out a copy of your Program Evaluation on Claws so that you can always stay on track of what classes you need to take. When picking your classes try to have a balance. Over the course of my studies, I have first taken most of my general requirements and am now working on my major/minor requirements. Try to have as much of a variety of classes as possible. A balance helps you stay interested and not overwhelmed with one topic of study.

I found it interesting that a lot of students didn’t know SXU offered some of the classes I have taken. For instance, I am currently in Intro to Video Production. A lot of my friends have expressed shock and interest in the class. Other classes like Nutrition and Intro to Acting are not known by the majority of students. Even thought you are focusing on a certain field, it might be a good idea just to take a class in an area of interest for fun!

So, I’m usually always excited about a new slate of classes. For the Spring Semester, I have registered for Leadership Communication, Intro to Radio Production, Graphic Design, Gangs & Society, and Law of Mass Comm. All of those classes either go towards my major in Mass Communication or my minors in Sociology and Art & Design. I look forward to my new work load. However, it’s always good to have that one “chill” class and I’m not so sure I have one this upcoming semester. (You know, the class that you have the least amount of pressure in.) I am confident that with a good balance and diligence, I will continue to be successful and so will you!

Feel free to share any questions and comments about what classes you are taking. Happy Picking!

Halloween: My Christmas

2011-10-26T18:48:00.000-07:00

By Luci Farrell

Halloween: My Christmas

Hello Dear Bloggers,

If you ask most little kids what their favorite holiday is, they’ll probably tell you Christmas. After all it’s a month worth of celebrations with presents, cookies, and getting to stay up late to watch movies.

If you asked a little Lucille, she would scream “HALLOWEEN!” If you ask me today I’m a bit calmer about it, but the answer still stands. Halloween is my Christmas.

I spend the entire month of October getting in the holiday spirit. My Halloween movies are out, costume changes are made, and I sing “Come Little Children” under my breath at all times. Mind you I know the whole version, which is extraordinarily creepier than the version you hear in Hocus Pocus. Here’s the link, hope you enjoy it. Or are terrified. Either way…
http://youtu.be/QdNEY3i57UY

Nice and creepy.

So why do I love Halloween? Simple. It represents all things I love. Celebrating life, embracing the dark, and starting over. Halloween’s roots are always discussed and disputed. Most historians agree, however, that the closest link is with the Celtic celebration of Samhain (also celebrated on October 31st). Samhain, roughly translated to “summer’s end”, is a harvest festival still celebrated by many today. In popular cultures many Pagans celebrate it as a new year. Wiccans, in particular, see Samhain as their most important holiday. They celebrate the lives of loved ones who have passed on and embrace that with the darkness, light is soon to follow. I’ve always appreciated that outlook.

Aside from that, Halloween brings out the fun supernatural side of me. You can usually see a deck of tarot cards on my desk and I’ve had discussions about different layouts for readings with many others. You can also hear me groan about people with their glow in the dark Ouija boards. That’s a complaint for another day. Many believe that during the time around Halloween the veil between the world of the living and the dead is thinner than usual. Many take this opportunity to pray hoping to get some kind of sign from loved ones who have passed. Others leave an extra place setting at the table to honor the dead and remind their loved ones that they will never be forgotten. I’ve always loved that. Call me silly for liking those traditions, but I believe honoring our loved ones that have passed on should be a part of everyone’s life.

On another silly note: Costumes. I have always loved dressing up, and there’s nothing I love more than seeing little kids who make their own costumes. Yes, store bought costumes are great (and amusing), but there’s something about a homemade costume that just always makes me smile. Probably because I was one of those kids. I was the super dork. I went as the Sorting Hat (from Harry Potter) one year. Lots of sewing. Lots of singing the sorting song. Pretty sure everyone wanted to murder me. Now I get excited when I get pictures of my little cousins (8 and 2) dressing up. Of course, I also get a bit uncomfortable. My little cousin Kyleigh went as a vampire this year. Here’s a photo of the cute kid.

Now you may want to know why I’m depressed by this. Well dear readers, I’ll let you in on a little secret. I went through a wee bit of a Goth phase and I swear I had a dress that looked just like that, only full black. My mother even stared at it for a while because she couldn’t figure out why it looked so familiar. Oh the memories.

I will be celebrating this weekend between papers and all that fun stuff. Still! Movie marathons while working on papers is always fun. I will even give you some movie suggestions I think fit with the Halloween spirit (in no particular order).
*Sleepy Hallow
*Corpse Bride
*The Silence of the Lambs
*The Nightmare Before Christmas (I prefer it during Christmas, but it works)
*Hocus Pocus
*Practical Magic
*Ghostbusters
*Beetlejuice
*The ‘Burbs (if you haven’t seen it, rent it NOW)

There are a few good choices. I’m not a huge fan of horror movies. I’m not afraid of them, I just find most of them to be too ridiculous to handle. I’m also a big fan of classics, so if you want a scary movie. Push away recent movies. Go make fun of 70’s films. Enjoy the classics like The Omen, Poltergeist, and the like. Spend some time with the classic Hollywood scary guys like Boris Karloff, Lon Chaney, Jr., and my personal favorite, Vincent Price. I don’t care who you are, if you don’t love that man’s voice there is something wrong.

So, dear readers. I hope you celebrate All Hallows Eve to the fullest! Give candy, dress up, dance around a bonfire, and celebrate!

Leave me messages on my blog to tell me how YOU are going to celebrate. I would love to hear/see costumes as well!

Keep Calm and Search for the Great Pumpkin!

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

Tuition Well Spent

2011-10-25T18:02:00.000-07:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Tuition Well Spent

I had a very definitive experience in my education recently. I’ve been struggling through one of my classes, and I’ve been fairly worried about its effects on my future, considering this class is pivotal to my major. My professor met with me in her office after class one day when I was having a particularly hard time, and even called in the head of the department to speak with us. [This is not the first time either of them has taken time out of their days to meet with me to discuss my hopes and fears for the future]. I told them about my worries as far as maintaining my scholarships, holding up my GPA, and realizing whether or not this is even the right school for me. After this conversation, I knew I had nothing to worry about, in terms of my class, my major, and the university I chose.

I went in worried that I have been going down the wrong path for the past year and a half, worried that I’ve already spent too much time going in a direction that I can’t handle, and that I would have to make some drastic changes very soon. I went out feeling completely reassured and supported. These professors told me that they just want me to be able to do well and enjoy my time in college. It is a time for us to see what we want out of life and see what makes us truly happy. They helped me to re-evaluate my own definition of “success” and from there, I gained some much-needed perspective. I can’t express the gratitude I feel towards my professors and other faculty members here who have helped me on my journey so far. They have done an incredible job of showing me that I am cared for and supported, and I am sure I am not the only student who has felt this way.

My experience serves as another reminder that Saint Xavier goes above and beyond in looking out for the students’ best interests. I am still pretty scared of what the next few years (not to mention the rest of my life) may bring, but I think that might be healthy. It’s good to be excited for the challenges and opportunities that lie ahead.

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a double major in computer science and philosophy. She is a women’s studies minor, and thinking about a music minor as well. Genevieve is an officer in the Alliance (the GSA) and is a happy, healthy vegan. She is also involved with the Students for Justice in Palestine.

We're Almost There!

2011-10-21T14:40:00.000-07:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

We’re Almost There!

We are closing out the 9th week of school and are about to enter the 10th, with less than 7 weeks left. For many of us, we have had our mid-terms or have just a few remaining and for some others, which include me, we don’t particularly have mid-terms, so to say, but instead various quizzes, exams or projects due throughout the semester. But, guess what?! We’re almost there. Where or what is there? Well, it’s different for everyone.

For the freshman… Let’s take a moment to reminisce for a moment. Just four years ago (for the traditional freshman), you were a freshman in high school, trying to find your way through and figure out who you were as you were developing into a teenager. You were probably in a new environment and around new people, with the exception of a few friends you graduated from junior high with, if you were “lucky”. Fast forward to the present, here you are experiencing the same thing, except this time it’s a college and a slightly bigger scale. New environment, new people, and again, maybe there are a few buddies from high school that came along with you. Either way, it’s all fresh, hence freshman. J Now, you are half-way through the first year of college. You’ve become acclimated with the campus and may have learned a thing or two about yourself. Though you’re still within those teen ages, or older, you’re practically an adult.

For the sophomore… It’s year two or more of college. You are in that in-between part of college. Not quite new to things, but also not too far advanced. Now you are past the point of getting your feet wet. By now, you should be fairly well versed in how things operate academically and in life as a whole. You’re also at the point where it’s difficult for people to take you seriously. I guess it’s the age for most people. It’s like you’re still a teenager, but you’re an adult and at the same time, you’re still in-between adolescence and adulthood, so some things may be overlooked, or you may not be given as much credit as you feel you deserve.

For the juniors… You’re beyond the beginning. You have become settled in with things and have been able to manage and maintain your life. You’re at the brink of yet another point of transformation. Don’t try to jump too far ahead though. You still have some time to get things in order for that last year of college before you take that gigantic step into the real world. Enjoy these last few moments while it lasts because graduation and more responsibility will be here before you know it. There is just one year left, for most, then, you’ll be a senior preparing for graduation.

Speaking of which… To my fellow seniors… We. Are. Almost. There. For those graduating in December, it’s so close you can taste it. Some may be eager to have that degree and others may be experiencing a bittersweet moment. For those who will be graduating in May as a traditional senior, or as I have come to find, the infamously dubbed “super senior”, like me, this is one of the most exciting points in our lives. It is yet another starting point as we venture into the real world and true adulthood. Now, I must say, there are many of us who may be considered as full-fledged adults due to our responsibilities.

There is also graduate school for those who, like me, are considering to attend, and/or the actual workforce. The economy is tough, as it always has been, but it may be a little tougher for our generation. I don’t know about you, but, I don’t have any worries about my future. I believe everything happens for a reason and if something is meant for you to have, you will have it.

As I have acquired through my quest for knowledge, there are a lot of students who support themselves, with little to no assistance from family and/or friends, so I can only imagine the great deal of triumph and accomplishment felt upon graduation. For first-generation students, it is an accomplishment achieved for more than the current college student or anticipatory graduate. It is an achievement celebrated by the entire family.

For everyone, we all graduate to the next level, whether we receive a piece of paper at the end as proof that we have worked hard to earn it or if it’s just an elevation to the next grade. Either way, we all experience graduation and have a sense a relief, to an extent, that we have made it this far. Only you know what you had to go through to get to where you are. Some of us were blessed with parents or resources to provide the necessary finances to fund our education, while many others have to depend on themselves and/or the funding provided through the government or institution of post-secondary education. I fall into both of those categories. I am blessed to have people in my life to support me and assist me in funding my education, which includes my mom, who is also putting herself through school, finishing up a doctoral degree.

I’m grateful to have made it to this point, as I would think many of you are as well. We all experience different things, but we also experience the same, which is life. I am so excited for May to get here. But before that, there are a few other things I have to do, like those pesky little classes that you feel like, “why do I need to be in this class?!” You may not understand it now, but when you look back on it, you just might appreciate it a little more. Plus, for those seniors, you may have a senior seminar to complete. I have something similar to that, and it’s something that we can all participate in. On November 12, 2011 at 7:30 p.m. in McGuire Hall, here at SXU, I will be presenting my first formal vocal recital. It is FREE FOR EVERYONE. Please join me as I sing to you in French, German, Italian, and English. (Personal plug J)

Remember that we are almost there. Just a few steps away, but take your time and be patient. Your time will be here before you know it!

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

Weekend Highlight: CJA 72nd Annual Dinner and NBC History Tour

2011-10-20T14:38:00.000-07:00

By Sydney Bennett

Weekend Highlight: CJA 72nd Annual Dinner and NBC History Tour

Last weekend I had two amazing opportunities to gain wisdom and inspiration from some of Chicago’s most well known leaders in the field of media. On Friday, Chicago Journalist’s Association held their 72nd annual dinner. It is a night where journalists from around Chicago get together to celebrate each other and the role of journalism. As soon as I arrived to the floor of the Holiday Inn where the event was held, I was immediately awe struck. Suddenly, faces I had only seen on television growing up like Cheryl Burton and Linda Yu, were feet away from me. (How interesting is it that anchors and journalists are a form of celebrity?)

After I made my way away from the reception area and into the dining room, I was greeted by my table mates who happened to be representatives of NBC, including Art Norman and Allison Rosati. The night was filled with laughs, good food, and five journalists were awarded. Stella Foster of the Chicago Sun-Times was the most memorable. She admitted to not seeking a career in journalism but ending up loving the career and column she writes.

As, I sat amongst so many journalists, I could not help but to wonder if I would one day take the places and positions they hold. In college, students sometimes become locked into the present. We worry about the week’s assignments and tests. While pressure and learning excellence and discipline is good, sometimes we forget to dream. That night I got to dream a little and take pride in an industry that I feel life and college is preparing me for. Becoming a part of organizations and getting real life experiences in fields of interest, is something that I am learning is necessary for college students.

The next day, I joined Art Norman and out-of-state students for a history tour of NBC. Art, who is passionate about history, gave us amazing insight on events that helped shape not only NBC, but America.

We learned about many people from The Tuskegee Airmen and Eleanor Roosevelt, to the rise of Oprah Winfrey’s career. One point I took away was the vitality of relationships. So many historical events and lives are changed because of relationships between people.

We were also able to take pictures on the set where, “The Judge Mathis Show” is filmed and see other news sets. Another point I took away from the tour was, “to bless strangers”. Art used the tour he was giving as an example and stressed on how that is a key to success and fulfillment. Last points I left the tour with were the importance of knowing history and starting small and diligently, to build a career.

Well, that is all for my weekend highlight!

Until next time, I will leave with a quote, “Go confidently into the direction of your dreams. Live the life you’ve imagined. “-Henry David Thoreau

Sydney Bennett is a junior from Chicago, Illinois. She is a Mass Communications major with minors in both Sociology and Art & Design. She is President of Ambassador's for Christ(AFC) and a member of their Gospel choir at Saint Xavier.

October Awareness

2011-10-19T09:34:00.000-07:00

By Luci Farrell

Hello there Readers,

So today I want to take the time to have a blog that’s a little more serious. October is a big month not just for the holidays, but also for health awareness. October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month and also holds Mental Illness Awareness Week. Both these topics hit close to home for many so I would like to take some time to show how SXU is showing support for these two causes.

Breast Cancer Awareness month is quite large on this campus. Many students have family members who have battled breast cancer or are currently facing it. You can find ‘Cougars Kick Cancer’ shorts being sold in the diner and many people sporting pink ribbons around campus. We also have an amazing event taking place on Sunday, October 30th. SXU will be hosting Zumbathon. For those who do not know, Zumba is a dance fitness exercise that has become very popular over the past few years. Now a Zumbathon is a 2-3 hour Zumba marathon. In this case, the Zumbathon is being used to raise money for the Susan G. Komen Foundation. The idea for a Zumbathon at SXU was the brainchild of junior nursing major, Kelly Mihalik.

For those that are interested in learning more can e-mail Kelly at mihalik.k01@mymail.sxu.edu. Registration for this event will be at the door. The registration fee is $10 for students and $15 for community members, faculty, and staff. If you have the opportunity to go I would seriously encourage it. It is for a great cause and shows your support in finding a cure.

Another thing October supports is Mental Health awareness. Mental Health Awareness Week is observed at the beginning of the month, but there are also other days that show support and encourage people to speak out, accept problems, and get screened for depression. SXU will be holding a depression screening on October 26th from 11 am to 2 pm in the Student Lounge. These will be free confidential screenings by licensed counselors. For more information you can go visit Counseling Services (the modular unit behind Pacelli Hall) or call them at (773) 298-3131. I’ll even give a big thumbs up to go visit the staff there who are all friendly and willing to give a listening ear.

There is no shame in speaking up and seeking help. Your mental health is important. Active Minds wants to bring an end to the stigma of admitting to issues with mental health. Never be ashamed to ask for help. Go to a school counselor or if you just feel you need to get something simple off your chest, go find your Peer Minister on campus. As a Peer Minister I do love to be there for my peers because sometimes you just need a friendly face to go to and a change of scene. Find your calm in a helpful and positive way.

I do hope you will all take these issues to heart and remember to be good to each other.

Keep Calm and Pass It On.

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

Midterms?

2011-10-18T13:00:00.000-07:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Midterms?

These past few weeks have been full of stress and studying, but depending on your classes, you may not have noticed. Some of my classes haven’t even had midterms, and I’m not sure if they are going to. Which is a nice relief, but a little worrisome when considering the finals…Anyway, the trouble with being so caught up studying by yourself in your room is that you may not notice all the other things that an SXU education offers.

For instance, while walking between classes or talking to your friends or professors, you may have heard about the field trip to the Chicago History Museum coming up soon! It is sponsored by the Alliance, and it is a fantastic opportunity to get free admission to the Museum’s exhibit on GLBT history. Can you imagine this exhibit even existing in a major location just a few years ago? It is amazing to me that this history is finally being considered legitimate, and we can hear the voices of those who have for so long been quieted by mainstream culture. I am thrilled to go be a part of this trip, and if you’d like to go, check out the table in the Diner for the sign-up sheet. The trip is on the 29th of October, so sign up soon if you want to come!

Also coming up at the Chicago History Museum are some free Halloween screenings of your favorite classic horror films. On Wednesday the 26th, at 6 p.m. the Museum will be showing both the Silence of the Lambs and The Shining! I know I want to be there. I’m personally obsessed with all things Halloween, so I can’t wait to go have some scary [free!] fun in the city.

On a slightly different note, the SXU Philosophy Department is hosting another colloquium coming up on the 24th at 5:30 p.m. in Rubloff 503—that’s the top floor meeting room of that dorm. It is of course free and open to everyone, and we know it will be good because the talk is, “What’s Wrong with Heresy?” given by our very own Dr. Aleksander. Check it out if you want to learn more about Dante and his notorious Inferno. (Side note—the child in me chooses to believe this was another planned Halloween-themed activity).

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a double major in computer science and philosophy. She is a women’s studies minor, and thinking about a music minor as well. Genevieve is an officer in the Alliance (the GSA) and is a happy, healthy vegan. She is also involved with the Students for Justice in Palestine.

NOW HIRING...Maybe?!

2011-10-17T16:09:00.000-07:00

By Ifeanyi Onwumah

NOW HIRING…Maybe?!

There should be no one (not even my 11 year old brother) that doesn’t know about the dire economic situation and the employment situation or rather lack thereof, in the country. This situation is especially bothersome to a college student or better yet, a soon-to-be graduating college student. It should rub them the wrong way that after four or more years of challenging work that was meant to prepare you for the “real world” that you actually can’t make it in the real world? Not because of any inadequacy of your own, but because there are no jobs. Of course there are many factors surrounding one’s eligibility as a suitable job candidate, but if there aren’t any jobs, none of that really matters. Thankfully the situation isn’t such that there aren’t ANY jobs, it’s just that there are far FEWER jobs and competition is stiffer than it has ever been in the last 50 or more years.

It’s incredibly frustrating to know that after all the effort you put in at school; you’ll have nothing to show for it in the form of a job. No one’s asking for a guaranteed job opportunity after graduating just something to look forward to and the knowledge that the last four years haven’t been a complete waste of time. The economic uncertainty is making employers VERY tentative about hiring new employees and experience is becoming a lot more important to employers. What level of job availability should a current undergrad expect to meet after they toss their caps in the air and walk out of the Shannon Center with their degrees? The news seems to suggest not much.

This isn’t to say that there aren’t things that can be done to make you more presentable to employers in such a market. SXU is wonderful in this aspect because it has a lot of programs and activities that prepare you for the “real world”…whatever that is! There are several job fairs that are hosted on any one of SXU’s campuses (the next one is on March 2, 2012) that really give you an idea of what the job market is really like and what employers are looking for in current employees. If you are not comfortable in public places, you can always make an appointment with the career services office and sit down one-on-one with a counselor and ask every possible question you have regarding the workforce. They also help bring you in touch with alumni that can be of assistance to you in your job search.

Another enticing fact about SXU is that most of our professors have worked in their respective fields and are usually more than willing to give career advice to those who ask for it. None of these things are guaranteed to get you a job but they are all definitely steps in the right direction especially in these uncertain times. Besides if all else fails, there’s always graduate school!

Ifeanyi Onwumah is a senior double-majoring in Philosophy and Computer Studies. He is a commuter student from South Holland, IL. Ifeanyi’s goal is to attend Law School after he graduates from SXU.

Follow Your Instincts

2011-10-14T19:19:00.000-07:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Follow Your Instincts

Whenever you have a feeling in your gut or gumption to say or do something, most of the time it is the right thing to follow through with. Unfortunately, we often second guess ourselves in situations, most of the time on an exam if you are unsure of an answer and in just about any situation because you may have a hesitant moment wondering if you should or shouldn't do what you're thinking of. Depending on the type of situation it is, you may find yourself looking back saying you 'should, could, or would haves' and the difference it would have possibly made, but everything really does happen for a reason. As I said before for every action, there will always be a reaction. From that point you just have to accept that what's done is done, there's no turning back.

Last week I mentioned that I consider myself as a revolutionary individual and how that isn't always the best thing. I experienced first-hand the consequences of too many non-chalant reactions to situations. I was in a situation I didn't want to be in but I didn't expect to be separated from it the way I was.

Here are some suggestions on how to avoid as many situations like this as possible. At the moment you get that notion to react a certain way and it is appropriate for what you're dealing with, follow through with it. If you are dealing with something that you are unsure of how to handle it, try to talk to someone. That someone should be an objective listener who will tell you what you need to hear and not just what you want to hear. Often times, we tend to falter from what should be done because of hearing something that did not aid in solving the problem at hand.

There are many resources available to you; you just have to utilize them when necessary. For example, if you have built a positive rapport with your professor, you can go to them for some assistance. You can even go to the advising department. Though they are here primarily to assist you with choosing classes and maintaining order with your academics, they can also help you personally if you needed them to. There are people all over the campus who act as mentors and it may also be possible to seek advice from your supervisor. Of course, there is always Counseling Services. Now I know, you’re thinking “Counseling? That’s for people who have serious problems. Makes me feel like I’m going to a shrink.” Well, that is not exactly the case. You can consider them as advisers too. The Student Success Program may be able to help, too. Don’t forget about your friends and family, I’m sure they know you better than anyone at SXU, so it would be great to go to more than one source to help you get things back in order.

If you feel you are at your wit's end, take a moment for yourself and step back to view things through a bigger picture. You are not always right, as much as you may want to be. If you come to a point where you're tired of how something is, take the time to regroup and regain your composure. Go back and find self. If you get to the point where you saying “I just don’t know what to do”, then you should probably seek an outside source to help you figure things out. Try to be considerate of the others involved and take a step into their shoes. This will help in identifying where the problem may lie, if it is not within you.

Looking back on my most recent situation, if I would have just gone to talk to someone about my problem instead of behaving and reacting to the situation negatively, then none of this would have happened. I had the gut feeling to go and talk to my other party but second guessed myself thinking that it would have made things worse. In hindsight, it probably would have made things better, but what’s done is done and there is no turning back.

Life doesn’t have a pause or rewind button. It is nothing like what is portrayed on television, but we often get caught up in that fantasy life thinking that we can do and get what we want at the snap of a finger, but it doesn’t work that way. Stop second guessing yourself. If you know who you are and what you possess mentally, be confident and go for it. Don’t hold yourself back or “self-sabotage”, it’s not worth it. Live in the moment and follow your instincts. If it’s a girl or a guy that you are feeling, go for it. If it’s a job and you have ideas to make things better, voice it. If you’re out shopping for a pair of shoes, a nice pair of pants or shirt, splurge on it.

Some things happen once in a lifetime and other things you may be able to get a second chance to make a better decision. Either way, don’t hesitate or be afraid. Go for it and follow your instincts. What’s the worst that can happen? Being told yes or no in most situations? It’s called life, my friend, and you only get to live it once, so make the most out of it while you still have the opportunity.

Be strong, confident, and trust yourself. You have it in you. Peace and blessings.

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

SXU Event: Dark Girls Documentary

2011-10-13T19:16:00.000-07:00

By Sydney Bennett

SXU EVENT: Dark Girls Documentary Screening

Over the summer I saw a trailer for a documentary titled Dark Girls. The trailer featured interviews from darker skinned African American women giving accounts to the negativity they face because of their skin color. The trailer immediately touched me. I knew that this topic is not often openly addressed though most people know about it to some extent. So, I was excited when I found out that Saint Xavier University’s SSP program was taking students to see the screening at DuSable Museum as a cultural event.

As the students who had signed up gathered in the waiting area to leave for the DuSable Museum, I observed the students that were going. There were a couple of non-African American students, one guy, the rest were African American girls. Not so shocking, most of the girls that came were darker skinned.

Dark Girls began with a very young and gorgeous dark skinned girl saying that she wasn’t “black” and her mom describing how she did not like to be associated with such dark skin. As the documentary progressed many interviews were shown from mostly adult women who had suffered deep pain from being dark in a world where it is looked down upon. There were men featured with an array of opinions. Historians, sociologists, and therapists were featured who added insight to the root and effects of the epidemic.

Midway through the film I started to think about my own experiences. Although I have dark skin, I never suffered with low self esteem issues and I accredit that to a family that has always made me feel beautiful. However, in grade school it was almost a fact that the boys liked the lighter girls with the long hair more. There were young guys in the film who reflected those views but, there were also guys who did not. The film was mostly centered on the African American community; it was evident that the color bias unfortunately stretches across the entire world. One Korean woman in particular expressed experiencing color biases and mentioned the huge issue of skin lightening creams which are very common in other countries.

Dark Girls, shed light on an issue that is commonly overlooked. After the film one of the directors said something that sticks with me even now. “Every woman has felt dark at some point in her life because every woman has dealt with low self-esteem. “ It is important for us to respect and address the different types of esteem issues that all women and even men deal with. I believe that people can be healed from deep pains and that since we all know some type of pain, women in general should be sensitive to each other. It is vital for colleges to continue to support emerging avenues that give a voice to the voiceless or quiet, for they often sit amongst us and we often can help.
Sydney Bennett is a junior from Chicago, Illinois. She is a Mass Communications major with minors in both Sociology and Art & Design. She is President of Ambassador's for Christ(AFC) and a member of their Gospel choir at Saint Xavier.

The Wonders of Weather

2011-10-12T18:30:00.000-07:00

By Luci Farrell

Hello Dear Bloggers,

Midterms are here for many of us. I just had my first the other day and made my way though it. We have also hit this odd little heat wave that leaves everyone staring out the window, the focus for class completely lost. Of course, it still throws me off that while I walk to class in my flip-flops the leaves are crunching underfoot. You can watch from the quad as roommates creep out their window checking the weather by seeing what everyone else is wearing. It doesn’t matter. You won’t win. When you leave for class it will be ten degrees warmer when you get out. Plus we all have that one classroom that the air never circulates, or maybe it just feels that way because we can see the sunshine and hear the laughter from outside.

What this makes everyone wonder is, “What will winter be like?” Many forecasters have already started predicting this will be the worst winter we’ve had in a while. A few have stated we will get hit similar to how New England did this past winter. Now, let me explain the differences I have found between Chicago and New England.

While most of the temperature is close between the two areas, I have seen the differences in winter. Friends were getting nervous about the foot of snow that was predicted out here. I just stared. A foot? My feelings were always unless you’re looking at a 2 foot minimum, everything else is generally okay. What I didn’t realize is how the wind out here forms the snow. Your one foot turns into a 5 foot wall. See our snow packs straight down so that 3 feet predicted, stays at three feet (until the plows come by).

Now, before you get the idea I’m one of those people that complains about snow, let me clear the air. I love winter. I will always love snow and will dance it in no matter how cold it is outside. When there is lightning and snow, however, I don’t push my luck. Then I’ll creep out of my window with a camera.

What is winter like on a college campus? Pure magic. Unlike at home you don’t watch the snow with anger, knowing you’ll have to shovel it in the morning. No, you get to watch it fall outside the window with a mug of hot coco in your hand, embracing the magic of the weather you felt as a child. Perhaps you even have a holiday movie playing in the background. I know that two of the movies you can usually find playing in my room during winter are The Nightmare Before Christmas and White Christmas. It’s a comfort. Also lots of fun. Do I have a sing-a-long with the movies? Naturally.

Of course, aside from the snow we also have the temperature. This is the area most really complain about. So this is why I always look at the fun side of it. Wear things that are warm and completely crazy looking. Pull out the ugly holiday sweaters, the neon earmuffs, and the hats with animal ears. Hats are fantastic, gloves are always great, and layering is one of the greatest things in the world. My favorite articles of clothing for winter happen to be my fingerless gloves. I can go straight from outside to typing while still staying warm. They’re also great when I’m taking photographs during winter or trying to send a text message asking someone to come figure out how I got lost. I also have a few pairs of fingerless gloves that have the flap that covers my fingers if I so choose. Yay convertible gloves!

While we still have a bit of time before Mother Nature has a crazy mood shift, remember that it won’t be 80 outside everyday. Winter is coming. Stock up on your mittens and hot coco. As much as it hurts, remember to take your winter coat out of storage because you never know when you’re going to wake up to the 30 degree days again.

Keep Calm and WeatherChannel.com

Time For a Break

2011-10-11T17:31:00.000-07:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Time for a Break

As full-time students, I think we all start to feel the weight of the semester bearing down on us right around October. It may seem counter-intuitive, but sometimes, what we really need is a second to breathe, collect our thoughts, and ultimately we can return all the more productive and focused. I spent the past weekend traveling, seeing people I love, and giving my brain a chance to get its bearings.

First, I set out Friday with a very good old friend (and SXU alum) to visit his family and friends in Indiana. It’s only about an hour and a half train ride on the South Shore Line from the station at Millennium Park, which is honestly not very much travel time considering how long it takes to get from our Dan Ryan El stop to Loyola or the brown line. It was invigorating to get out into nature, eat grapes from the vineyards, and lie on the ground at night and actually be able to see the stars across the horizon. It’s nice to get away from the city lights every now and then! We also got a chance to visit the famous Indiana Dunes—enormous sand dunes on their side of Lake Michigan. I love going to a beach where I don’t have to fight for a spot to spread out. We also had the chance to climb Mt. Baldy, one of the most well-known sand dunes; the view (in the picture) was just beautiful.

Later that Saturday, after coming back to Chicago, I got right in the car with my senior SXU buddy and headed for our mutual hometown of St. Louis. The road trip with him was a blast, as always, and there is just nothing close to being able to describe the feeling of coming home after what has been such a rough semester. It was bonfire parties all weekend, and seeing family and old friends that have been dearly missed. As a musician, I had forgotten how fulfilling a jam session can be. After such a long time of being in ensembles here at school and practicing what’s written on a page every day, it can be a way to remember who you are to just have a little unstructured time to free your mind through a few simple blues scales.

But now, it’s back to the grind. Time to power through the rest of this difficult semester and get back on track. Good luck on your midterms, everybody!

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a double major in computer science and philosophy. She is a women’s studies minor, and thinking about a music minor as well. Genevieve is an officer in the Alliance (the GSA) and is a happy, healthy vegan. She is also involved with the Students for Justice in Palestine.

L.S.A.T. Preparation

2011-10-10T14:45:00.000-07:00

By Ifeanyi Onwumah

L.S.A.T. Preparation

Since I’ve conclusively decided that I’m going to attend law school, it’s time to start doing everything necessary to get into the best school that I can. Of course there’s the usual maintaining a good GPA and making sure your transcript looks as good and can be, vetting schools you can afford, having a school-oriented resume or CV that highlights your educational achievements in and out of class, and getting good recommendations from professionals who have good things to say about you (it’d be unwise to ask for a recommendation from a professor whose class you flunked!) Then there’s the thing I consider more important than all these other factors: The LSAT

For those who don’t know, LSAT stands for Law School Admission Test (Who would’ve thought it?) and is taken by those who want admission into law school. (Who knew?!) The LSAT consists of six 35 minute sections, four scored, and two unscored sections; the score range is from 120 to 180. To get into the top – tier schools, while maintaining a GPA in the ballpark of 3.5, you should be aiming for an LSAT score of about 160 – 175. It’s near impossible and somewhat unrealistic to get a score of 180.

So why all this mumbo jumbo about the LSAT? Well I’ve recently started practicing for it and it’s been giving perspective on my strengths and weaknesses and where I need to be if I want to get into a choice school. I’ve been taking practice tests and been testing around the 150 level which is definitely not going to cut it! It’s still early in the game so there is still a lot of time to salvage that score. In the meantime, I need to do other things to boost my status in case I can’t get my score where I want it to be such as maintaining my GPA and impressing professors in my major so I can get good letters of recommendation.

One good thing that I have done is network with friends who want to and who have taken the test already. I have gotten lots of materials and advice on how to prepare for and take the test. People have lent me books and practice tests they found helpful in preparation. All these things put together make me confident that when I do take the real test, I should be able to get the score that I want because I have been putting in the effort to do as well as I can. It hasn’t been easy making time for the test while taking demanding full-time classes. But I have made the proper adjustments to accommodate a test which will ultimately decide exactly what path I will take in my chosen career. Wish me luck!

Ifeanyi Onwumah is a senior double-majoring in Philosophy and Computer Studies. He is a commuter student from South Holland, IL. Ifeanyi’s goal is to attend Law School after he graduates from SXU.

Taking Care of Business

2011-10-07T20:19:00.000-07:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Taking Care of Business

I’m sure you’ve heard the song “Taking Care of Business” in commercials or maybe in the background of movies. Either way, it is something that we all have to do… take care of business. Whether that is within the realms of school, dealing with academics or just in life itself, you always have take care of business and make sure you’re on your ‘P’s and Q’s. Sometimes you have to do things that you don’t necessarily want to do, but because it is what needs to be done for that particular moment or point in life you do it.

We have all encountered a situation or ten, where we didn’t want to be involved in any way or just didn’t want to handle it the most appropriate and logical way. In many situations, you have to be more mature and responsible in how you attack it. Take me for example… Sometimes I can be a little rough around the edges. My mom says I’m a little hot-headed at times, but I like to see myself as a very passionate, revolutionary individual. Now mind you, this is not always a good thing and as you grow and learn how to operate in a decent fashion in life, you come to realize the consequences of certain actions you have put forth and the repercussions of such actions and the affect they may have on others.

I don't know about you but I've been kind of stuck in the middle between adulthood and adolescence. There are particular things to be expected of an adult as well as an adolescent. You are expected to be mature enough to understand and deal with certain aspects of life. In addition, you must carry yourself in a mature and respectable fashion and maintain such a level of dignity and integrity as an adult. I possess all of these qualities as I am developing into a responsible and respectable adult and strengthen them as my understanding of life deepens. But, (there's always a but) sometimes I falter into adolescent ways of doing things and allow that to interfere with the more reasonable and logic thought process.

Recently, I put myself in a not so good situation. Simply put, I did something I had no business doing because I know better and when you know better, you should do better. Unfortunately, this is where I allowed my behavior to falter. I and the others involved in the incident could have and should have handled the situation differently to avoid any detriment done on each other’s part. We both failed to act as we should as adults. It is something that we all can learn from. Though you may not agree with the decision another has made, that doesn’t mean you have the right to cause any interference or disruption because it was something you didn’t like. It’s not about that. Nine times out of ten someone is going to do something that you don’t like and you have to deal with it accordingly. What good does it do to get mad or throw a tantrum?

I guess you can say I had a bit of an episode of throwing a tantrum. Now it wasn’t like a three year old, but more like when you were a teenager and your mom or dad wouldn’t let you go to that party with your friends because so-and-so was going to be there and he/she was a bad influence. Well, your parents were just looking out for your best interest as they always have that at heart and that was the case for me in my recent situation. Here was a moment where I heard something that I didn’t agree with and was genuinely upset with and as a defense mechanism; I reacted in a negative manner which resulted in negative consequences. You must remember that for every action, there is certainly a reaction.

As I am growing, there are goals and expectations that I have set for myself to aspire toward. I work at being as honest and realistic about things as possible, but you have to be cautious of just how honest you are because not everyone is necessarily strong enough to deal with that truthfulness. Something that I have learned over time and am solidifying a grip on is that people will never see you as you see yourself. They may see you as more or less. I tend to think of myself in the whole spectrum as a person. From that I am many other things: a daughter, a sister, a girlfriend, a companion, a friend, a best friend, a student, a singer, a performer, a teacher, a leader, a mentor, a boss, an aspiring professional musician and entrepreneur, a psychedelic individual to name a few…

As you can see, I am many things, which requires various qualities and capabilities. The only person that will stop you from taking care of business is you. Just as a mentor told me “Don’t self-sabotage”. Do not allow yourself to be so self-centered that you neglect to acknowledge the bigger picture. You have to remove self from many things in order to effectively complete the tasks set forth. It’s not always going to be easy but it will be easier if you remain calm and objective. Life is what you make it and from now on, I am going to work toward making every moment of life the very best because I want to leave an undeniably extraordinary and incomparable impact on those I encounter.

Peace and blessings everyone…

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

Weekend Highlight: Lending a Voice & an Ear

2011-10-06T15:17:00.000-07:00

By Sydney Bennett

Weekend Highlight: Lending a Voice & an Ear.

So, classes have started to become more and more intense! I am managing pretty well and I think a key to my overall success is having a balance in life! Even though I strive to get good grades, a degree, and then a job, I also live for a greater purpose. Keeping that in mind requires constant inspiration. Other than using my Bible, inspirational blogs, and music to keep me inspired, I have found ways to serve others.

As a staff writer for Goddess Magazine I interview inspiring young girls, motivating women, and celebrities of positive influence. That in itself is rewarding for me, but going out and talking to young girls is equally or even more rewarding. Since Goddess is a magazine that strives to inform and inspire young urban girls we do a lot outreach. We host workshops at schools and other events for girls. I’ve had the pleasure of volunteering a few times, each time I leave feeling like I’ve gained just as much as I give.

This past Saturday we volunteered at the Swish Dreams Girls Clinic. Swish Dreams Girls is designed to provide academic, social, and physical enrichment to young girls w/ a special emphasis in sports. With our team of four young women, we held about five different sessions with girls in their pre-teens.

Our sessions including asking them a series of questions and also lending a listening ear while they poured out to us. Our questions pertained to the definition of beauty, self-esteem issues, negative relationships, violence, bullying, and the most popular term “swag”. We also talked to them about opportunities for them to be featured in our magazine in various ways. Some of the girls were shy or seemed to not want to open up at first. However, I know that holding an honest dialogue with them was valuable.

During the dialogue, my team and I found ourselves having to be honest and share personal experiences with the girls. To tell a young person what they need to do is an easy route; to be honest about mistakes we made was a real route. One of the girls that touched me the most was a girl that admitted to making fun of others as a defense mechanism. Of course she did not say it was a defense mechanism, she said that she did not care when peers talked about her. Our team spent a few minutes trying to get her to understand that talking back and forth about others was a vicious a cycle that often did not end well. She never really seemed to agree. Towards the end I asked the girls did we influence them in anyway and she raised her hand. “You influenced me to buy that shirt you’re wearing and wear it to church”, said the young girl. My shirt read: “I Love Jesus.” To know that I was able to be a positive influence on a girl that needed it was amazing.

In sharing this with all of you all I hope that you can find ways to give back to others. Yes, we are in college but there are so many ways we are needed to serve a bigger purpose. Maybe you could lend a hand. In my instance you could lend an ear or a voice. Perhaps there are talents you have that can be used! Saint Xavier is big on service and is always providing ways to do volunteer work on and off campus. I encourage you to give it a shot, it just might provide the inspiration you need!

What If?!

2011-10-05T17:54:00.000-07:00

By Ifeanyi Onwumah

What If?!

As the days go by and as the semester rolls along while dragging me along with it, the intensity of school heightens but definitely not as much as my apprehension and anxiousness. It’s no question by now what this apprehension pertains to, but the real question is in regards to the best way to deal with it. How do you stop the anxiety from controlling and possibly derailing your goals? I noticed recently that I’ve been asking myself a bunch of “What If?” questions and definitely not the good and hopeful kind! I’ve been second-guessing myself and seriously questioning my choices in regards to college and my career. Different people have different ways of coping with stress and anxiety, some people exercise; some bury their heads in a book or whatever activity that stops them from thinking about the stress. My solution? Take it head on!

I really feel like if I take things a day at a time and set short term goals, weekly goals to be specific, for myself, I will be all right. As a college student with a lot on my plate and never enough time to handle everything bearing down on me, I feel like taking things slowly and not letting my problems bombard me is the best way to handle things. I’ve set up a weekly progress report/conference with a good friend of mine to evaluate the goals I set for myself each week and how or if I reached those goals. This way I can keep myself honest and do the things I’m supposed to do, in turn, reducing my workload and the things I usually stress about. I’ve never been known for my organizational skills but I also recently adopted a calendar to further break down my goals to a daily level and complete new tasks daily. This mechanism serves as a kicker for the days when I REALLY don’t feel like doing anything. When I look at my calendar I am reminded that there are things to be done and that there is somewhere I want to be and I’m definitely not there yet.

These changes have helped me start asking the good “What If” questions like “What if I CAN make it? What if I CAN accomplish all the goals I set for myself? On the back end of these questions, there’s always a wide grin that signifies my new – found confidence and self-belief. The ultimate goal is to not ask any what if questions and to have faith in myself and in my abilities. I’ve come too far and worked too hard to undermine myself…Here’s to What-If-less days!

Ifeanyi Onwumah is a senior double-majoring in Philosophy and Computer Studies. He is a commuter student from South Holland, IL. Ifeanyi’s goal is to attend Law School after he graduates from SXU.

What Do You Do

2011-10-05T05:30:00.000-07:00

By Luci Farrell

The other day someone asked me a question that was responded with the look your mother told you not to make or else your face would be stuck that way. In this case, it would be appropriate. The question?
“I don’t get it. I thought senior year was supposed to be easy, why are you so stressed out? I mean, what do you even do?”
So I thought I would give an insight to the day in my life. To do that I have to give a brief look at the roles I hold on campus.

I am:
*A Student
-Organizational Communication major
-Anthropology minor
-Student in the Honors Program
-A Senior graduating in May
-Chair of HPSAC
-Member of Anthropology Club
-Taking 15 credit hours
*A Resident Peer Minister
-A listening ear
-A spiritual advisor
-This requires weekly meetings in the quad, meetings with my Hall Minister (the lovely Sarah), and the rest of the amazing Resident Peer Ministers on Campus
*Working on my Senior Project.

Now you may wonder why working on my Senior Project has its own bullet. That’s simple. Research and compiling a project is something that needs its own space. I’m sure many of you reading this can agree that research takes time. I spent my junior year fieldwork class for honors to compile most of the research that has gone into understanding my senior project. Of course, new research always comes to light. New avenues come into play and we always seem to find new perspectives. My senior project deals with looking at the way deception is seen in nonverbal communication. That’s the simplest way to explain it. It is exciting, rich with information, and I have been so fortunate to find people willing to speak with and help me. About two weeks ago I sent out a posting on CRTNET (The Communication, Research and Theory Network). I explained who I was, what I was doing, and asked for any help. The next day by noon I had six responses. A few hours later I had gained a few more. While this may not seem like much, how often do you get to have professionals offer their help and tell you how excited and amazed they are by your drive? These are published researches in their field, individuals who hold doctorates and are offering to point me in the right direction and even provide an interview. Let’s just say I got a little emotional at the boom in my inbox. When everything else is stressing you out simple good news makes you happy. This kind of news? Well it brings you to a state that even the bad news the rest of the day provides cannot touch.

Now aside from this help I also have a pile of articles (that has been cut down considerably from last year) and a stack of books. This is what it looks like when you put it all together (in an organized way).

Well. Keep in mind this is when my desk is neat. In other words I put everything together for this picture. My iPad to the left, usually with Dropbox open. For those that have never used Dropbox, let me just say that it is a fantastic program and it happens to be linked to my iPad, iPhone, and laptop. Also before you say it, yes I am a poster child for Apple products. Make fun all you want, I am perfectly okay with it. Beneath my iPad is that pile of articles I mentioned before. It stands at just over 2”, which is impressive since I cut down on articles I found useful. Last year my stack was 41/2”. I wish I was kidding. I should also mention I have some articles saved to the iPad that aren’t as important as the printed copies, but still have some relevance. While I believe that electronic copies are great and saving our environment is wonderful, for research I prefer hard copies.

Next to the articles you see one of my water bottles (a needed source of hydration) and my phone (a needed source of entertainment and SOS text messages). Then you see the books. We’re not even going to explain the books too much. They vary in their disciplines and all scare me. I won’t lie. It’s intimidating to see all those books just staring at you.

Then you have the fun things to the far right that keep me sane. On top of my laptop you can see my mouse, headphones, and Dante, my gargoyle and wonderful companion I have mentioned before. You also see my remote, the lovely tool used to keep the TV going for a source of background noise and occasional breaks. You can also see my Rubik's cube on one of the books. When I get really frustrated with a chapter or find myself unable to comprehend something, I mix up the cube and take a few minutes to solve it. Everyone has something that clears their mind, I have my little puzzle cube. The last object you see happens to be my scissors. Those are there when I start thinking about trimming my hair. Once again, I wish I was kidding.

All in all, as scary as research and senior projects are, I’m happy. I get stressed because I want to do well. I get stressed because there’s so much to know and I want to be able to read it all. As crazy as it sounds I love research. I love diving into the words that flood a page. I love learning about people, their relationships, and their insecurities. Why people lie and how they do it is just, well, thrilling. In any other time I may be thought of as obsessed, but here in school I’m a researcher. It’s acceptable and encouraged to watch people, to ask questions, to throw yourself into a book and resurface days later.

What do I do? I research. I laugh, I scream, I pull my hair, and I learn. Truth be told, there’s no other way I can imagine spending my last year in college. I pass along all of this information to you so you can see what the future holds and know that once you find out what you love, even when it drives you crazy-no especially when it drives you crazy, you will love it even more.

Keep Calm and Research On

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

Whirlwind Weekend

2011-10-04T19:53:00.000-07:00

By Genevieve Buthod

We had such an uncharacteristically beautiful October Chicago weekend, and I hated to waste it by staying indoors. This past Saturday, some old SXU friends and I went apple-picking in an orchard, a fun and relaxing fall endeavor matched only by a sunny hike through one of Orland Park’s many nature reserves. I had no idea there were so many opportunities just outside of the city to experience nature, but it made me see that a nature-loving girl can still be happy being in a big city.

Sunday, I met my fellow girls from Saint Xavier’s Students for Justice in Palestine club at the stunning Columbus Park refectory (featured in one of the photos). As sponsored students, we were fortunate enough to attend the American Friends Service Committee’s “Creating Connections, Renewing Commitments” Middle East Program fundraiser. It was an event to honor awards recipients, including U of C’s Sami Kishawi, who I mentioned in a post last week, a dear friend and world-renowned activist/writer Anna Baltzer (in the photo), and the incredible Alice Walker. It was amazing to be in the presence of such spiritually-powerful people, activists who show us that we are all capable of making a change for the better in this world. As Anna said in her acceptance speech, “Hope is a responsibility. It is a luxury of the privileged to lose hope for change.” Inspiring words for all of us to take to heart, especially when cynicism from modern events sets in. We have no right to take our lives for granted. We are incredibly privileged to be in a position to receive a college education, and it is a waste of our wonderful gifts not to share our knowledge and our spirit with the world.

In her speech, Alice Walker mentioned something she noticed in the West Bank, students literally “ablaze with the desire to learn”. If we could take this passion, and apply it to our lives here, just imagine what we could accomplish. As Sami Kishawi said, it is our generation that will make change in this world. It is up to us! The world is our responsibility. The more deeply we understand this fact, the more intensely we will be moved to action--to push ourselves in the direction of what’s right. As Saint Xavier students, I believe we assume this responsibility in many ways, be they creating a club to de-stigmatize mental illness (seriously, can we get a round of applause for these amazing girls on campus?) or through connecting the Catholic faith to a history of social justice. Keep it up, folks. We have a long fight ahead of us.

Life Goes On....

2011-09-30T16:17:00.000-07:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

Life goes on... It's something we often hear. Cliché? Why yes, but what hasn't become cliché? We all (well most of us) have a plan for our lives and what we want to happen. But, (there's always a but) not everything goes according to the plan you set out for yourself. There may have been something to unexpectedly occur, like a new responsibility or maybe it just wasn’t meant to be for that moment.

Take me for example... Before I graduated from high school, with a little influence from the College/Career Counselor, I had every intention of attending a historically black college or university, possibly Roosevelt in downtown Chicago, or my mom’s alma mater, DePaul. Long story short, it didn't happen as I planned. I never filled out any applications for an HBCU because I felt that I would be better off going to a place where I wasn’t part of the predominant population. I began an application for Roosevelt but never finished it and received a rejection letter from DePaul. I was bummed, mostly due to the fact that I felt like I wasn’t “good enough” to attend DePaul. It was like “my mom can go there, but I can’t!” Again, life goes on… At that time, in addition to the rejection, I wasn’t too hyped about going to college, mostly because of the 2.5 grade point average I was graduating from high school with. I guess you can say I was one of those students who had plenty of intelligence and potential, but was too lazy and lacked enough motivation to do better. During high school, and even now at times, I figured school wasn’t really that big of a deal.

Flash forward; I'm a student at SXU. Now, just so you know, I didn't know a thing about SXU until the day I decided to apply. It was only because I saw my boyfriend’s cousin applying. I thought “hey, it’s in Chicago?! 20 minutes away from home… Oh, what the heck. What’s the worst that could happen? I’ve experienced rejection, so if it happens again, whatever. Oh well…” What made the decision so awesome is that it was an unplanned action. I had no idea what to expect or, where I'd be.

After becoming settled in at SXU, I once again made plans for myself. In addition to my lovely philosophy of ‘no friends, just get my degree and go', I knew without a doubt that I would be graduating within four years, proceed to grad school and start my new life. Well, that didn't happen but life goes on... I wound up having to stay an additional year to complete my undergrad for a couple of reasons. During my second year, I was supposed to take the third semester of music theory, but unfortunately I couldn’t due to low enrollment. I had to wait until the following fall semester to take the course. On top of that, I needed that class in order to progress forward to the next courses for graduation. Once again, I say, life goes on... Things did not go the way that I wanted them to, but in hindsight, it all worked out in my favor. I landed the job of Training Coordinator for the Student Ambassador program, which by the way, I absolutely love! Plus, I have more time to pay back these wonderful student loans.

Of course this goes beyond the idea of college, though in some cases it's not so easy to say and accept that life goes on. For instance, if you lost someone you love or missed out on something you felt would've been a great thing for you. It's difficult sometimes. I know. Another prime example… I planned to be engaged to my boyfriend during my third year of undergrad. I just knew we’d be married by the time I graduated. Crazy, right? I know. Well, things happen and I am at least happy to say that we are six and a half years going strong.

In life we experience a lot of changes which causes our perspectives to shift. That change could be graduation, a promotion on a job, maybe you're moving to the next step in a relationship, or even moving to a new home after living in the same one all of your life. Whatever it may be, planned or unplanned, life will go on. It's just one of those uncontrollable instances. Sometimes you get what you want… or not. As difficult as it may be to just accept things for the way they are, it becomes just a little easier as you get older. So don’t pout or mumble unintelligible things when something doesn’t happen the way you want it to. Just remember that everything happens for a reason (cliché, I know, but it’s true) regardless of what happens, good or bad… LIFE GOES ON…

Until the next adventure…

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

SXU Fun & Pride!

2011-09-29T15:27:00.000-07:00

By Sydney Bennett

SXU Fun and Pride

Last week was SXU’s homecoming week and although I was busy with classes, I had to make time to participate in a few activities!

The Heritage Ball on Friday was a dinner and dance hosted at the Chicago Cultural Center. The Heritage Ball was a celebration of the O’Brien Medallion Recipients. The O’Brien Medallion is named for Mother Mary Agatha O’Brien, in recognition of her founding role as one of the original Chicago Sisters of Mercy. This medallion was awarded as an acknowledgement of these students’ commitment to co-curricular involvement and leadership, service to the campus and local community, as well as academic achievement in the their respective College. Service and leadership are foundations that Saint Xavier University stands on and ones that helped me choose them as a college. I was invited to attend the ball because of my involvement as a student leader. It was a well needed relaxing night of dancing and pictures!

That Saturday, I also attended the Homecoming Football game! We played against Trinity International University and of course we won. The score was 40-14. We are very proud of our Cougars who have a current season record of 4-0!

Sometimes I think pictures can tell stories betters than words. Feel free to view pictures from both events below!

If I Could Offer You One Tip for the Future…

2011-09-28T15:58:00.000-07:00

By Luci Farrell

If I Could Offer You One Tip for the Future…

I sit at my desk in the wee hours of the morning and wonder what words of wisdom to impart on you all. Naturally in my over caffeinated state I giggle thinking to impart the wisdom of the famous Wear Sunscreen speech. The problem with that is, however, that I truly despise that speech. For those who are unaware of what I am talking about I’ll explain. In June of 1997, Mary Schmich wrote an article entitled “Advice, like youth, probably just wasted on the young" for the Chicago Tribune. This column was her take on a commencement speech she would give if she were ever asked to present one. Now this speech is a wonderful look at embracing care for yourself and in many ways reminds me of some of my past blogs that I have written. However, like many things from the 90s the article was so over played that after hearing it three times one grows very sick of it. Much like going to a graduation party and having to hear “Graduation (Friends Forever)” by Vitamin C playing…and playing…and playing.

But, I digress…
The question is, what wisdom can I give you this week? What little bit of knowledge can I recycle? What are the quotes that you can hold on to that you don’t see plastered on your roommate’s wall or on inspirational posters in workplace break rooms. Of course, as I say this I notice a poster behind me. No it isn’t an inspirational poster, it’s a poster appreciating Murphy’s Law. Once again for those who aren’t aware Murphy’s Law states, "Anything that can go wrong will go wrong". Think of it when you think nothing else can go wrong and suddenly you find yourself in a downpour without an umbrella and five miles from your house.

Yet, Murphy has the right idea in some areas. Sometimes you have to appreciate the dark side of humor because it keeps you going. Here are a few to make you laugh.
“Never play leapfrog with a unicorn.”
“The light at the end of the tunnel is the headlamp of an oncoming train.”
“Anything good in life is either illegal, immoral, or fattening.”

Now, Murphy, Murphy darling dear, has a few points to make. Not that you should always look at the dark things, there’s nothing wrong with being an optimist. Being an optimist, however, is incredibly hard when everything around you is falling to pieces. So find the humor. Laugh it off. When you’re caught it the rain smile and turn your face up to the rain. Let Murphy know that you are ready to go round two. Robert Frost said it best, “In three words I can sum up everything I have learned about life: it goes on.” Yes, an inspirational quote that is both helpful and let’s you appreciate that things do go wrong.

So here we are and here is my speech to give.

Ladies and Gentlemen of the Graduating Class of Whatever Applies,
If I could offer you one tip for the future, this would be it: Eat a cookie.
Laugh as you will, but a cookie will save you. When you panic and forget to eat or cry so much you have no strength to stand, eat a cookie. Your blood sugar is low and a cookie will save you.

My words are simple and not that deep. No I will not tell you to stay gold. Sorry Ponyboy, that isn’t the route this speech will take. I will not tell you to wear sunscreen and take perfect care of yourself. I, of all people, know what it means to make mistakes. The trick is to embrace them, even if they end in the loss of a friendship. Eat a cookie and then look at your life. Oatmeal, chocolate chip, sugar, or an Oreo; they will help put your life in perspective.

Pour a glass of milk between the tears and sobs. Sit down and eat a cookie. Enjoy it. Embrace the few minutes you have where the only thing to focus on is the taste of the delicious treat in your hand. You can feel overwhelmed again after. For now, just for this second, enjoy.

When you’re done splash your face with water and carry on. Let the extra bit of sugar perk you up. Face your challenges head on with crumbs on your shirt. Cue the soundtrack to your life and move forward.

Never deny yourself a cookie. Keep your wit in shape. Find the humor in every poor decision. Appreciate that in your story you may not have a fairy godmother or the perfect sidekick. Accept that you may not be a hero, but that most times it’s more fun to be the anti-hero. Embrace the fact you may be the villain of someone else’s story. Embrace the dark side because you do indeed have cookies.

So my dear graduates, accept the bad, but never settle for it. Wink at Murphy and take a bite of your cookie. That is my advice to you.

Keep Calm and Blog On
Luci

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

Scholarship Dinner/Heritage Ball/Random Protests!

2011-09-27T15:37:00.000-07:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Scholarship Dinner/Heritage Ball/Random Protests!

SXU students had a very eventful week lately. Last Monday evening was the always-wonderful scholarship dinner for both benefactors and beneficiaries of university scholarships. The dinner was fantastic, the speeches were well-delivered, and it was a great networking opportunity for students to speak with alumni and faculty.

This past Friday evening was the Heritage Ball at the Chicago Cultural Center, which was a ton of fun for everyone involved. Everyone loves getting dressed up to go to a nice event, but every year, this dance/awards ceremony seems to stand out. Each recipient of the O’Brien medallion received a special recognition, and then everyone got right down to dinner and dancing. My friend and I stepped outside for a minute to take a break, and noticed Occupy Chicago going right by on the sidewalk! Regardless of your political affiliation, you have to admire a rag-tag group of students and citizens trying to make a difference in this economy. I made a split-second decision and convinced my friend to join me in their march to NBC headquarters on lower Wacker, which lead us right to a march for Palestinian solidarity, particularly in honor of the Irvine Eleven. It warmed my heart to see Chicago cops treating the demonstrators so respectfully and to see that no violence took place that night at the demo.

I thanked the nearby officers for their time and consideration, and my friend and I, along with some of the other participants and organizers, walked back down Michigan to Millennium Park. There, we joined others for a vigil for Troy Davis, recently executed in Georgia despite virtually no evidence connecting him to the crime for which he was charged. As many have noted, his story is a perfect example of what is tragically wrong with the U.S. justice system, and it was at least somewhat encouraging to see a few Saint Xavier students come out with us for the vigil. It reminded me that no matter any student’s personal faith background, the Catholic values of our university show themselves in the way the students act towards others, and in our sense of social justice and social action. It’s nights like this that remind me I chose the right school.

The Road Not Taken

2011-09-26T12:18:00.000-07:00

The Road Not Taken...

In last week’s blog I talked about coming to terms with being a senior and what comes with the territory and it’s only fitting that I follow-up by talking about what comes after. Turns out, I’m not too sure! Interestingly, this isn’t due to a lack of planning but rather to an influx of ideas on different career paths to take. As you might know, I’m double majoring in Philosophy and Computer Studies, two distinct majors with distinct career paths. The question is which do I explore first and which do I leave behind?

Philosophy is what I genuinely love and can sincerely call my passion but as far as careers go, there isn’t much to it. I’ve conducted countless amounts of research and talked to professors and fellow majors alike and there seems to be only two main things to do with a philosophy degree; either earn my Ph.D. and become a philosophy professor or go to law school. Here’s the dilemma: pursuing a Ph.D. in philosophy is no small task, it can take anywhere from 4 to 10 years after acquiring an undergraduate degree (A LOOONG TIME). So many questions come to mind such as, what can I possibly do by way of earning a living within that period? What if after 2 or 3 years I find out that it’s not for me, what do I do next? Difficulty answering these questions makes me shy away from this career path. I could go the law school route but that also comes with its share of uncertainty. Besides, I’m passionate about philosophy not law so why throw myself into a career field I’m not in love with just because it’s convenient?!

While pondering these questions, I remember that I am simultaneously going for a second degree: COMPUTER STUDIES! It’s no philosophy but I do enjoy its practicality, hands-on learning process, diversity, and it’s …Computer Studies gives me more career options and good entry level jobs right out of college while allowing me to continue schooling and improve my level of expertise in whatever area I decide to specialize in. This way, I can improve my knowledge base and not starve while I’m at it. But this would mean completely abandoning my philosophy degree, something I just can’t bring myself to do.

Unlike the traveller in Robert Frost’s famous poem, I don’t want to live the rest of my life wondering about the road not taken and where it could’ve led me, so I’ll take them both! How, you say? I’ll complete both degrees and apply for a good entry-level job with my computer studies degree and see how I like it. At the same time, I’ll attend law school, I might not be in love with law but it gives me a chance to apply all the critical and objective thinking skills I picked up as a philosophy student and that’s all I can really ask for! I don’t know which of these roads will lead me to the right place but I can always say I travelled them both.

To Be or Not to Be a Student Leader

2011-09-25T18:31:00.000-07:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

To Be or Not to Be a Student Leader

Getting involved with a student organization is not necessarily for everyone. If you were ever not one of the selected few for a particular job or organization, don’t take it to heart. There are various factors that are included. You may have a lot going on already if you work one or multiple jobs and/or have children. No worries. If you’re like me (working four jobs), then you do what you can. You may attend an event sponsored by an organization or simply have an interest and just gather a little info about who they are and what they do.

There are 40+ student organizations here at Saint Xavier, which each fall into various categories, such as:

· Academic/Honorary
· Ethnic/Cultural
· Faith/Spiritual
· Social/Political/Special Interest
· Club Sports
· Student Media
· Government/Programming
· Leadership Groups

Many are sponsored by the Office of Student Affairs/Department of Campus Life with the exception of the Student Ambassador Program, which falls into the Social/Political/Special Interest category and is sponsored by the Office of Admission. Follow this link for more info on Student Organizations: http://www.sxu.edu/Administrative/Student_Affairs/organizations.asp or you can find many of them on Facebook.

Maybe you were involved in high school and/or at other schools (for transfer students). There are some who were involved in various activities and organizations in high school who eagerly continued when they entered college. Then, there are others, who, like me, didn’t eagerly continue.

By the time I reached my senior year of high school at Kenwood Academy, I was president of the Concert Choir, co-captain of the Girls’ Varsity Volleyball team, and a member of the Drama Club. In addition, I was actively involved with my church choir and various musical organizations.

When I entered college, I set my mind on a philosophy “I’m not here to get involved or make friends. I just want to get my degree and move on with my life.” I figured I already had friends and knew enough about organizations. Why get involved now? Freshman year I was just a Student Worker in the Office of Admission.

Flash forward...After some words of encouragement from a mentor/friend to “get involved and not have any regrets after graduating”, I have been actively involved with the Student Ambassador Program since my sophomore year. For two years, I served as a tour guide for prospective students and families. Currently, I am the Training Coordinator. Considering where I began you’d think I would have followed through with that philosophy I spoke of. Not in the least. Because of my involvement with the Student Ambassador Program, I have had some really remarkable opportunities. As a tour guide, I went the extra mile on a tour and received recognition as “Someone You Should Know” in the spring 2010 issue of the Saint Xavier magazine by a V.P. Kathleen Carlson, who also personally invited me to the President’s Scholarship Ball. On top of that, I have built some awesome networking relationships with many of SXU’s dignitaries, faculty, staff and students. These are just a few of the experiences I’ve had.

It wasn’t until recently that I realized I made a wonderful decision by getting involved. I have gained a greater appreciation for the University and my Student Ambassador Team.

It doesn’t matter what organization you become a part of, we all have a mission. Some may differ or share the same ideals. Plus, it looks great on your resume when you’re looking for a job after graduation. One central theme amongst us all is the eight core values of SXU. These core values are: Respect, Excellence, Compassion, Service, Hospitality, Integrity, Diversity, Learning for Life.

Now, you may say “who cares about a core value?” Everyone should! Why? They provide substance and support for life wholly. I implement them all, but one that resonates most is “Learning for Life”. Do any of them strike you? Try to see these values beyond the realms of SXU. They can be applied to much more than the academic aspect of your life. If you have the time or possess the necessary tools to be a leader, get involved in at least one thing and I guarantee it will be a wonderful learning and growing experience.

Dorothy J. Hill is a senior from Chicago, IL. She is pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance. Dorothy is a Student Ambassador and currently serves as the Training Coordinator at Saint Xavier.

5 Keys to College I've Learned so Far

2011-09-22T11:29:00.000-07:00

By Sydney Bennett

5 Keys to College I’ve Learned So Far

After being in college for a few years you start to learn a few tactics and patterns on how to maneuver successfully. The things I know now, I didn’t necessarily know as a freshman. However, it is never too late to learn something useful. Even if you share it with others! I have compiled five tips that will help any other undergraduate student have a successful and enjoyable college experience.

1. Organization is always good, especially early.
I’ll be the first one to admit that naturally I am not organized. I’m more of the creative, “all over the place”, “organized chaos”, type of girl. In college and whatever respective work field I go into, that may not always be most beneficial. Thankfully, college is preparing me to be an organized and productive adult. For example, in the beginning of classes we usually get all of our syllabi’s and important information for classes. Simple tasks like, dividing the information you receive from classes in separated binders or using plastic dividers is vital.

2. Less is More! (When it comes to packing.)
My first year of college, I brought everything I could with me. My third year I brought the bare minimum. The interesting part is that by my third year I had much more living and bedroom space. Nevertheless, hours of packing and lugging around unnecessary items twice a year got tiring. Before the semester started I really evaluated the items that I absolutely needed and the ones I could do without. The items that I knew I would use on a regular basis came with me and things I knew would just collect dust had to stay at home. Don’t be afraid to evaluate your items. A lot of items you need can be purchased at the bookstore or throughout the school year. Trust me; you’ll thank yourself at the end of the year!

3. Every Professor is different. (Learn them/ Learn Your Own Learning Style)
Just like ordinary people, all professors are different. The all have unique teaching styles, ways of grading, and a standard of rules to be followed. It is wise to observe during the first class sessions what categories each professor fits in. Figuring out your own learning style is important as well. This will not only help you receive any extra help needed for each class, but when you are looking for an internship or first job, you will be able to present that information and choose effectively. Saint Xavier hosts many Academic Success Workshops throughout the year, like “Learning Styles”. Take advantage of school resources!

4. Getting involved is necessary.
‎I came across a quote from a blog the other day that said, "Make college fit into your business plan. Don't make it THE business plan. A lot of people miss out on both the real learning and the networking in college because they don't understand this crucial difference."(laurennicolelove.com) It is so important to network and get involved with different organizations on campus. Not only is it fun, but you will often receive opportunities to build your leadership experience and your resume’.

5. Find time to relax!
The key in my last point is that you have to find the time to relax. There will always be an event you can attend on campus, a friend to talk to, studying that needs to be done, or idle time to waste. However, you must make time to relax. Whether you take a quick power nap, meditate and pray, read a book, or take a walk. Mastering the balance of success and restoration as a college student is worth the try!

Sydney Bennett is a junior from Chicago, Illinois. She is a Mass Communications major with minors in both Sociology and Art & Design. She is President of Ambassador's for Christ(AFC) and a member of their Gospel choir at Saint Xavier.

Secrets to Sanity in Senior Year

2011-09-22T11:25:00.000-07:00

By Luci Farrell

Secrets to Sanity in Senior Year

As I find myself a few weeks into my Senior Year, I find that I have suddenly gained the role of life coach. Friends, residents, and people who know me in passing look at me in confusion. How am I balancing my job as RPM, working on Senior Project, writing my blog, joining clubs, and getting my usual work done without having a complete mental break?

So my darling, avid reads, pay close attention. Here are the three secrets to keeping your sanity:

Scream.
Have fun.
Stay Social.

Scream. Yes, I’m serious. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not giving the okay to go up to a professor and lose it. Don’t stand in the middle of the diner and scream. Don’t go up to a random person and yell at them for five minutes. Take a deep breath first.
What I do mean is that you need to let out your frustrations. Grab a pillow, put your face to it, and scream. Don’t be afraid to cry if you need to. Don’t feel as if you need to hold it in. You aren’t alone. Get your friends together and have a night of getting your frustrations out. Complain. Share in your frustrations. Let everyone get it out. Go to the gym. Get a punching bag. Yell at your stuffed animals. ANYTHING! I am serious about the stuffed animals or knick-knacks. If you find yourself in the early morning hours writing a paper and you’re frustrated, talk aloud. I personally have a little gargoyle, fondly named Dante, who has been with me since high school. Dante has kept me company many nights listening to me. Poor guy has listened to so much swearing and grumbling over the years, yet he takes it all without complaint.
Don’t keep your frustrations bottled up inside. Sometimes you need to get them out. Channel that negative energy into something positive. Don’t let your woes eat you up.

Have fun. School always has opportunities. Here at SXU we’re in the middle of homecoming week. Monday and Tuesday we had a poster sale on campus. I went looking through all the binders knowing my room needed a little sprucing up. That makes me happy. On Thursday we have Mercy Day, an event that I was very familiar with in high school. It’s a day to celebrate the sisters of Mercy and how they’ve dedicated their life to others. Thursday night there is a meet and greet with some sisters from the Chicago land area, and I have to say I’m pretty excited to meet them.
On Friday we have the big Homecoming football game. This is the perfect opportunity to spend time with your peers. Maybe you don’t understand football. Perfect! Go and learn. You may see that person you’ve had class with, but never spoke to. Maybe they can explain the game to you. New friend acquired! Or maybe you say something slightly nerdy like that and find yourself talking about video games. Maybe you even start a debate over which video game’s soundtrack was better, Bioshock or Fallout: New Vegas?

Stay Social. Don’t stay cooped up in your room. If you lose sight of having fun and seeing your friends, you’re in trouble. It’s one thing to work on your homework, but it’s another to lock yourself in your room and never come out. Go to the library. Start a study group. Take breaks from work just to grab coffee with a friend. I know within my group of friends schedules don’t always meet up. That doesn’t stop us. I get a phone call from friends around the quad asking me to meet them outside for fresh air. I’ve gotten dragged out of my room on Saturday nights to go for a car ride. Of course, my favorite is coming into my room and seeing my friends sprawled around doing homework. We don’t need to talk. We don’t even need to look at each other. It’s just enough to feel the presence of someone else in the room. Personally that’s something very important to me this year as it’s my first year on campus that I don’t have a roommate. It’s nice hearing someone else in the room. Even better to have someone else making coffee. Also helps that I’m not drinking multiple pots of coffee by myself.

I hope this has given you all a little laugh and reminds you that you need to keep a balance of fun and study. Stay sane and grab some caffeine. Even with all my pushes in the right direction, you need a little help. Caffeine (in moderation…or whatever qualifies as moderation) is your friend. Stick with coffee or tea. Energy drinks may seem like a good idea, but the crashes are never worth it. Keep your travel mug and march on!

Keep Calm and Put the Kettle On
Luci

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

An Ongoing Trend

2011-09-20T16:21:00.000-07:00

By Genevieve Buthod

An Ongoing Trend…

I’ve noticed that SXU has a habit of finding fantastic speakers to come in for lectures for the students. This past week was no exception. I was lucky enough to catch John D. Marquez of Northwestern University speak about black/Latin@ race relations in the U.S., particularly the Southwest and Southern California. He said that the conflicts that are happening, and that we perceive any conflict at all, are simply symptoms of the social disease that we all have. It was a very interesting way to introduce race issues, and I think that framing them in these terms helps us to overcome a term he uses, “racial fatigue”—a weariness with the very mention of race and racial problems in this country, a feeling that we are “past it” and don’t need to work anymore.

I was very surprised when he talked about black minutemen groups forming in southern states, an expanding black vote for Tea Party candidates, and an effort in L.A. to keep Latin@s out of municipal seats. In the words of famous Chicago hero Fred Hampton, “You don’t fight fire with fire, you fight it with water. You don’t fight racism with racism, you fight it with solidarity.” Strikingly true words, and worth noting no matter your affiliation with any political party.

On a similar note, I also had the opportunity to speak with Sami Kishawi of University of Chicago that same evening. He came to speak about his experiences in Gaza when he traveled there as a student recently. He told an amazing story about the efforts to rebuild after Israeli attacks. You may not know this, but there are absolutely no construction materials allowed into the Israeli-occupied territories, so the Palestinian people have been rebuilding with the rubble from their bombed buildings. They have collected shattered concrete and straightened out bent iron as one way to put their lives back together. Kishawi told me about his nights with the families, calmly enduring the nearby airstrikes by the Israeli military, and how they had just become accustomed to it as a part of daily life. He also made clear that our very own Students for Justice in Palestine Club on campus represents a view we won’t see in the news, and we should keep our eyes open to different sources of information in order to learn the reality of what’s happening in the occupation. In his words, a just peace benefits us all. If you want to learn more, or do something about this unjust military action, there are over 10 student groups in Chicago alone working towards justice for the Palestinian people, as well as the American Friends Service Committee.

Genevieve Buthod is a sophomore, and a double major in computer science and philosophy. She is a women’s studies minor, and thinking about a music minor as well. Genevieve is an officer in the Alliance (the GSA) and is a happy, healthy vegan. She is also involved with the Students for Justice in Palestine.

I'M A SENIOR! WHEN DID THAT HAPPEN?

2011-09-19T14:05:00.000-07:00

By Ifeanyi Onwumah

When my high school English teacher told me “Your college years fly by fast”, he sure wasn’t kidding! It seems like only yesterday I was a semi-lost freshman walking through the doors of Warde for the first time trying to locate room L209…fast-forward 3 years and I feel like the master of these halls. That’s not all I’m feeling though, you can add overwhelmed, anxious, excited, frustrated, and impatient to the list. I know, a lot mixed emotions in one bag but they are all justified because I’m a freaking senior! In a few more months, it’s off to “the real world” as they say. Am I really ready for that?! Only time really can tell but it wouldn’t hurt to think about what that implies.

It means that hopefully I’m on the later years of my education (I thought about it the other day, I’m only 20 but I’ve been in the education system for 17 years!!! Ouch!) and I’m definitely looking forward to waking up on a Monday morning in the fall and not worrying about being late for a class. On the flip side, it means I’ll be waking up and going to work…full time! It also means the possibility of graduate or professional school (More school…How exciting! NOT!!!) I was really considering skipping post-graduate education but with the uncertainty of things these days, it seems a little more than necessary.

It’s almost as if being a senior came from nowhere and smacked me right across the face. I should have seen this coming right? The last three years were supposed to prepare me for this and I would be lying if I said they haven’t but it still feels surreal. I thought at this time, I would be basking in the glory of completing my education but that celebration is being undermined by the knowledge that though one very important journey is coming to an end, an even more important one is just beginning. The thought that so many of my friends are also graduating and I might never see them again doesn’t make things any easier.

Being a senior isn’t all bad though, at this point I realize that college serves as a medium between being a kid and an adult and I think I’ve come a long way in that regard and as far as mediums go, SXU has served as a really good one. Although I’m anxious, I’m very confident in the skills and life lessons I’ve picked up here and how they’ll carry me for the rest of my life. My time here has taught me to be confident in myself and to always have an optimistic outlook on things. Every now and then it escapes my mind that I’m a senior and then something or someone reminds me and I think “I’M A SENIOR?!!! WHEN DID THAT HAPPEN?!”

Ifeanyi Onwumah is a senior double-majoring in Philosophy and Computer Studies. He is a commuter student from South Holland, IL. Ifeanyi’s goal is to attend Law School after he graduates from SXU.

Introduction to Me!

2011-09-19T13:49:00.000-07:00

By Sydney Bennett

Nice to meet you!

Before I begin my blogging journey, I wanted to give a brief introduction and let my readers in on who I am as a student, leader, and individual.

As a student, this is my third year here at Saint Xavier. (The years have really flown by!) I am a Mass Communications major with intentions on minoring in both Sociology and Art & Design. Sometimes when I’m taking a new class, I’ll stop and think about how my school courses are perfect for me. I love all aspects of media, communication, creativity, and learning about different cultures. I came to college with an interest in one day writing for a magazine. I ended up writing for The Xavierite campus newspaper my first year and the next year joined the writing staff for a local magazine for teen girls, Goddess Magazine. My courses and other work experiences have encouraged me to be open to working in various sides of media and hopefully learning all the tricks of the trade!

As a leader, every day I am growing more aware of the influence we all hold and how to use it positively. During my sophomore year, I was chosen to be a peer mentor for incoming freshmen students. I helped lead a transitional course and held meetings with all of the students. It was a fun and exciting way to give back to students who I could easily relate to. That same year I also had the opportunity of becoming president of a student organization on campus, Ambassador’s for Christ (AFC). We hold weekly Bible studies, other events on campus, and host gospel concerts with our choir! I didn’t plan on being a president of a Christian organization when I came to college. However, I was able to find my purpose and an organization that’s mission completes it. We hope to be a light and encouragement to all and are inspired by the life of Jesus to have students visit us, become members, and eventually disciples of Christ.

Lastly, I’ve always stood out as being different from the crowd. You will usually see me walking around in clothing of bold colors, accessories, or prints. Fashion allows me the free creativity I need. I am highly interested in all areas of the arts. I’ve been writing poetry since a very young age. I have a strong desire to travel all over the world. Positivity and creativity usually always find a way near me, as a growing visionary. I love chocolate, thrift stores, and Jane Austen films.

Until next time,
-Sydney B

Sydney Bennett is a junior from Chicago, Illinois. She is a Mass Communications major with minors in both Sociology and Art & Design. She is President of Ambassador's for Christ(AFC) and a member of their Gospel choir at Saint Xavier.

New Year, New Beginnings

2011-09-16T17:29:00.000-07:00

By Dorothy J. Hill

The first few weeks of the fall semester have already come and gone. Residents were all moved in between the Thursday and Sunday prior to the first day. First year students had the opportunity to attend the “New Student Induction Ceremony” here all new students whether an undergraduate freshman, transfer, adult, or grad—received a medallion and accepted their duty/responsibility to be one of the thousands of students to attend SXU for their education. Students, parents, faculty and staff attended this ceremony which marked a major turning point in everyone’s lives. Everyone was welcomed with a speech from our president, Christine Wiseman, J.D.

To make the decision on what institution you attend for post-secondary education requires a great deal of consideration. There are many factors to keep in mind such as:

Location/Environment

Cost/Affordability

Programs/Degrees

Opportunities for Leadership and Growth

Student resources

It’s rather intriguing to experience growth, especially at a great place like Saint Xavier. No one institution is perfect, but there are so many wonderful people who strive to make sure everything is where it needs to be and that there are resources available for students. You have the Center for Student Development located behind Pacelli Hall which houses Counseling and Career Services. Student are welcome to go there for many things such as counseling, if you ever feel too stressed or overwhelmed and need someone to talk to, you can speak with a counselor confidentially or utilize Career Services for assistance with finding a job, creating or editing a resume and/or cover letter, along with many internships through various departments.

There’s also the Learning Center and Disability Services lab/center in the Warde Academic Center located in room L108. Students are welcome to go there for assistance with papers, tutoring in many subjects, with the exception of math. They offer tutoring through their department. In addition to their walk-in services, students may also submit papers through the Online Writing Lab.

If you haven’t already updated your Cougar Card, make sure you stop by the Office of Student Affairs in Room L208 by October 1. The Cougar Card has been redesigned and SXU has a new bank partnership with PNC bank. Students have the opportunity to connect their PNC checking account to their Cougar Card and use it as an actual debit card. If you don’t have an account with PNC, opening it is really simple.

The first week of classes always serves to be a little rough for all students. For the first-year, you’re trying to figure out where your classes are, see where you fit in the mix, and figure out what SXU has to offer. If you are a returning student, you are trying to get a steady rotation and routine going with classes, work, and home. Whether you’re an incoming freshman, transfer, adult student or a returning student, this year marked a new beginning in your life., and for some of us, this is our last semester or if you’re like me, your last year!

If you ever feel frustrated or dissatisfied with anything on campus, whether it be classes or a university service, SAY SOMETHING! You DO have a voice here, and to be more than a number, it takes a collective effort on your part as a student and those who work for the university. Don’t just complain. Take action and make a difference! It’s your money (for the most part) that’s being spent, so make it count! Have fun, be engaged, get involved and be the change you want to see.

September 11th as a Student

2011-09-15T15:33:00.000-07:00

By Luci Farrell

Hello Dear Readers!

Welcome back to another year of Cougar Diaries! I do hope all of you had a good summer and are adjusting to the change of being back to school. I know the transition was better than usual for me. After all, who doesn’t like being able to sleep until 8 instead of waking up between 6 and 7 at the sounds of small children and lawnmowers? Now I wake up early, roll out of bed, and turn on music or the TV for background noise, as I am getting ready. Call it my reflection time.

On the topic of reflection, this past Sunday celebrated the 10th anniversary of the September 11th tragedy. This topic is a subject that is close to me, both figuratively and literally. Hailing from New Haven, Connecticut, New York has always been a regular trip for me. Growing up almost all of school trips were taken to New York or Massachusetts, as both are short trips away. Taking the train to school for my four years in high school I can tell you the train from downtown New Haven to Grand Central Station in New York, with all the stops, takes 90 minutes. Keep in mind that’s if you’re not on an express and I know Amtrak is even faster. On a lucky day you can make it to the city in 45 minutes driving. Because of the proximity to the city many people from Connecticut, including my own town of New Haven, work in New York City.

Ten years ago I was sitting in a classroom with kids I’d known since kindergarten. Our 6th grade teacher still hadn’t been in class as she was still out on maternity leave and our Principal was substituting for the time being. The 7th graders were watching TV as they were doing a project that involved watching CNN. We were the first two classes to find out. To say there was a wave of silence was an understatement. Our school was Pre-K through 8th grade. The top floor of the school held the 5th through 8th grade and the lower level held the younger children. The ‘upper classmen’ were brought into the library and were told what was going on. That’s when you saw faces contort. Who’s parents or grandparents work by the towers? Were they okay? Then there was a quiet noise from a girl in my class when we found out about the planes. Her grandparents had gone to Boston to fly out to LA early that morning. No one spoke. What were you going to say? A few of us tried to lighten the mood and get people’s thoughts off what was happening. After having another student screaming at me, and try to hit me, for trying to get a crying girl to laugh I had had enough. My defense against bad things is to try to find humor to keep calm. After all, what good will panicking do? In WWII the British had a campaign that has regained popularity in the past few years; Keep Calm and Carry On. That’s what we need to remember.

Ten years after seeing chaos so close to home, I look back and think how it has influenced me. December of 2001 was the first time since the attack I was back in the city. Walking the area of Ground Zero is a feeling that a person cannot put into words. There isn’t a particular emotion you can associate with it. It isn’t a pure sadness, it isn’t anger, but it isn’t numbness. You think about the people who died doing their job and you cannot help but wonder what they were thinking that morning. Did any of them reflect on a wonderful weekend? Did anyone wish they had done something exciting right after college instead of going right into work? What were their hopes, dreams, and regrets? Experience life. Live not just to what you were given, but work to live beyond what you’ve known. Never limit yourself.

Out of my eighth grade graduating class, two of us left the New England area. My good friend ended up in California. She had grown up in New Jersey, moved to Connecticut, and decided she needed a change. I was born and raised in New Haven. I chose a high school that none of my friends went to and chose a university where no one would know me. Having the opportunity to start over and see things from a different perspective was what I wanted.

I think back and imagine 6th grade me watching the news when I arrived home, unable to look away. 8th grade me was ready to start over in high school, slowly planning my life out. As a high school senior I decided I was leaving. I applied to eight universities and was waitlisted to only one of the eight. The one where I was waitlisted? That was the only school I applied to in Connecticut. I knew I wouldn’t get in there, so I call it my own little insurance policy. Sneaky right? I look back on all of this and laugh. Moving a bit under 900 miles from home, I have found what I needed. I started new and in my fourth year out here I realized I found what I needed when I came to Chicago. I found a new music scene, a major that I enjoy, new scenery, and experienced many things I wouldn’t have back home. Most importantly, I found people who mean something. We always talk about the friends we made, but I add to that the ‘friends’ I lost. Regardless of how you view them now, they impacted you. Take every bad experience and remember the good moments. Cherish the people who stayed by you, even when you didn’t think you deserved it. Hold those people close and even if you leave from that place never forget them and how much they mean to you at this very moment.

Take some time and reflect. Think about what you want to do, not just years down the road, but tomorrow. Never forget the small things that make your day. A text message, a hug, or a Starbucks coffee. Enjoy yourself. Until next time dear bloggers…

Keep Calm and Carry On
Luci Farrell

Luci Farrell is a senior from New Haven, CT. She is an Organizational Communication major with a minor in Anthropology. Luci is a Resident Peer Minister on campus and chair of the Honors Program Advisory Council at Saint Xavier University.

Say Hello to Summer!

2011-05-06T06:28:00.000-07:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Oh my goodness that was a long first year! At the same time, I can’t believe how quickly it went by. We all worked so hard, and it feels like we never really got much time to think about what we had accomplished. The final jazz concert went very well, and everyone who came seemed to have a great time. I was so happy I had time after the All Campus Excellence awards dinner to visit my jazz history teacher, Pete Carney, and ask him for some impromptu improv lessons. That hour-long jam session was an invaluable help to my solos, and I’m so glad we have such good music instruction at our school!

As a good-bye, to the city, I decided to spend one last weekend in Chicago. I took a friend downtown and then up to Wicker Park and Bucktown. It was a blast sifting through really cool old bikes and jewelry in hidden vintage shops, and looking at fair trade clothing and coffee in all the socially-conscious spots up there. We found some adorable hand-made, hand-photographed books at Renegade Handmade, and had an unbelievably delicious lunch at Crust (which is home to the best vegan pizza I’ve ever had in Chicago—what a great find for a hungry vegan!). I will certainly miss the big city when I go home to St. Louis for the summer, but some old SXU friends of mine said I could crash with them when I come up to hang out, so I’m planning to be up in Chicago a good deal before the next semester begins. What can I say, when you fall in love with a city, it’s hard to stay away for long.

Finals were a bit more stressful than I was anticipating. I stayed up to finish a paper last night, and ended up getting to see the sunrise from the third-floor sunroom in Pacelli hall, right by my room. It was such a beautiful view, it almost made the exhaustion from finals week worth it. I was so happy I got a chance to say goodbye to everyone I knew I would miss, and a chance to see all of my professors before I left for summer. I needed to find these professors in particular because I needed to return a ton of books they had lent me over the course of the year, but it turns out, they immediately just suggested I continue reading them over the summer! So, I guess I didn’t really have to worry about it after all. I am so excited to start my sophomore year next year, hopefully as an ambassador in the Admissions Department. I absolutely love leading new students to a fantastic university that would serve them well, and I hope to be able to do what I love all next year.

So long, cougars, and have a wonderful summer!

-Genevieve

Genevieve Buthod is a freshman from St. Louis, MO. She is computer science major and a women's studies minor. Buthod is a vegan and part of the Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) at Saint Xavier.

The Mikado!

2011-04-15T13:50:00.000-07:00

By Genevieve Buthod

Well, the opera this weekend went off without a hitch. It was so much fun to be a part of all the excitement, even all the rehearsals leading up to the big shows. I was surprised how many people from the community came to see the performances, and how much they seemed to thoroughly enjoy themselves during the show. People loved all the jokes that Vince Dore wrote into his songs, and the lead young maiden, Yum-Yum, was just perfect in her role. I love being at a school that places such high value on the fine arts! I’m excited for this coming weekend’s performance in McDonough Chapel, too. The chorale will be performing a special piece with the flute choir, and it is sounding beautiful in practices, so you all should come on Friday!

I love the music here, because it gives me a much-needed break from all the work I’ve been drowning in lately. I feel like deadlines guide every one of my actions, and it’s becoming simply exhausting. I hope I survive ‘til the end of the year! As a freshman, I really shouldn’t be complaining, though. I’m sure the seniors are having a much tougher time right now than I am. I can’t believe I’m almost finished with my first year of college! I guess time slips away more quickly when you’re busy all the time. Speaking of, I have an Alliance board meeting I need to get to, so I’d better be off! Talk to you later, -Genevieve

Genevieve Buthod is a freshman from St. Louis, MO. She is computer science major and a women's studies minor. Buthod is a vegan and part of the Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) at Saint Xavier.

A Conversation with Toni Preckwinkle

2011-04-12T06:36:00.000-07:00

By Genevieve Buthod This past Tuesday afternoon, I, along with a handful of other students interested in politics, got to meet Cook County Board President Toni Preckwinkle. She talked a little about her history and why she works for the city of Chicago, but she mostly just wanted to have a conversation with all of us. Someone asked her what she thought the biggest challenge for the next generation might be, and she answered with a quote from Reagan, which was pretty funny. He said, “Government is not the solution to our problems, government is the problem,” which she thinks is “a great poison in people’s thinking. She believes we are in a time when people simply don’t want to pay taxes and don’t like government influence on many things, which means that there are declining resources in the government, and a declining role of what the government is expected to do. I had read that Preckwinkle is very concerned with prison reform in the Chicago area, which I strongly support, so I asked her why she thought our prisons were so overcrowded and what she wants to do about it. She gave an incredible answer, both in its honesty and in its accuracy. She began by explaining the current state of education in the city. Over the course of any given four years (like the span of a high school education) Chicago only graduates 54% of its kids. This low level shows exactly how much of a priority schools are to the city, and given that the presence or absence of a high school degree is typically used as a screening device in most workplaces, it is highly unlikely that many of these kids will go on to achieve good careers. She believes that this lack of concern for failures in public education steadily feeds our jails. While it costs about $45-50,000 to keep someone in jail for a single year, it only costs ~$12,000 to keep up our public schools. It is clear that education is a better choice, but we need to make it known! I was wonderfully surprised that she was bold enough to mention the fact that our prison system is a crystal-clear example of institutionalized racism. Prisons are full of Latino and black men, and in Cook County, the numbers are even higher. In most of the U.S., a black man is 3 times more likely to do time for a charge of minor drug possession than his white counterpart, but in Cook County, he is 8 times more likely to go to jail. She also pointed out that rehabilitation is much cheaper than incarceration, and she plans to enact more programs to rehabilitate people rather than making them spend more time in prison. Perhaps most importantly, she wanted us all to fully understand just how crucial voting can be, especially for young people. She won by 109 votes out of 11,000 in the election for Cook County Board President. Voting is necessary! It can make the difference between our city being run incredibly well or incredibly badly, and that matters in almost everything we do! It can determine whether or not unions are respected, or schools get the funding they need. Speaking of, I hope you all remembered to vote on Tuesday… Catch you later, Cougs! --Genevieve Genevieve Buthod is a freshman from St. Louis, MO. She is computer science major and a women's studies minor. Buthod is a vegan and part of the Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) at Saint Xavier.

Hand Held Movie Premiere

2011-04-06T15:10:00.000-07:00

By Lucille Farrell Hello there Bloggers, So I know I usually keep things pretty lighthearted here, but I would like to turn to a more serious topic this week. I want to talk about awareness of the world around you and how documentaries can change your life. My entire life consists of research, writing, reading (for pleasure when I find the time) music, and movies. Movies are just magical. Give me a good foreign film, a drama, a comedy, an indie flick, or a psychological thriller and I am a happy girl. Not a big fan of horror movies because I always seem to ruin them for other people because I either laugh or point out the absurdities. “Honestly, why is there a butcher knife just sitting there?” Another genre that I am slowly growing more attached to are documentaries. Now I will be the first to admit that it wasn’t until about four or five years ago that I learned that not all documentaries make you want to fall asleep or gauge your eyes out. Some are actually quite excellent. Some Documentaries will move you to tears others will instill anger in you. Some other teach you a bit about something you’ve always wanted to learn about and give you a push to do your own research. I do have a few favorites of my own because of the beautiful way they were cut and made. Possibly my top two favorite documentaries are Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son About His Father and Jesus Camp. Both are well made and make your emotions jumble inside you. A forewarning for anyone who decides to watch Dear Zachary, keep tissues nearby. I do not make a point of crying during any movie. My own mother has lectured me and (jokingly) told me I didn’t have a heart because I did not cry during Brian’s Song. Bears fans around the country are cringing at that fact. Seriously though, I literally was crying for a good twenty minutes after I finished watching the documentary. Heart wrenching story and beautifully mastered. To the main point, this past weekend the Chicago premiere of Hand Held was held here on campus in McGuire hall. Producer Don Hahn and photographer Michael Carroll (who the documentary followed) came to campus to present the film to students and members of the community. The film’s tagline is "A guy with a camera, four hundred thousand orphans, a twenty-year odyssey that changed their lives forever." The film examines Carroll’s exploration of one of the most appalling scenes of the 20th century, the overcrowded Romanian orphanages discovered in the wake of the collapse of that nation’s communist regime. Even that little overview cannot give all the information this documentary shared. The trailer can give you a little better of an idea and I have included the link below: http://www.handheldthemovie.com/trailer/ We always talk about stories that touch our hearts and make us want to do something to help our world. All I ask is that you take some time to learn about the Romanian Children's Relief (RCR) and everything Mr. Carroll has done. As a student at Saint Xavier, I was just thrilled to have the chance to see a documentary and get to listen to the filmmakers speak. I originally was looking at this experience primarily from the artistic view. As I said before I am a fan of documentaries and love to hear about the process and all the behind the scenes details in putting the film together. On Friday, Mr. Carroll and Mr. Hahn spoke to students the day before the film was shown. Most of the students there were from business or nursing classes. Of course then I was there sitting in the back realizing (as far as I could see) I was the only communication student I recognized. It was during this talk I really started to understand what the documentary was about. Listening to these two gentlemen discuss the horrible conditions of the Romanian orphanages gave me chills. Getting back to my dorm later that night I asked my roommates to come with me the next day to see the film. They agreed decided it sounded like an interesting idea and it had been a while since we had all done something together. I don’t think there was a dry eye around us at the end of the film. I know my eyes were burning. I couldn’t get the tears out at that point. Whether it was because I wasn’t sure if I would be able to stop or because at this point crying would have made my contacts burn more than usual I am not too sure. (Yes, the second part was a bit of a joke, mostly) The one thing everyone in McGuire Hall can attest to was that every person would be seeing the faces of those children and go back to their homes and sit in silence for a few moments that night. I know when we got back to our dorm with two other friends we sat in silence for around five minutes, with hardly any words uttered. No one really knew what to say. We were just left to think. That is the mark of a wonderful documentary. It is one thing to praise it. It is another to be left speechless, not wanting to break the moment left behind. I do not want to go into too much detail; I ask you all to learn more about it on your own. While the documentary is not currently available on DVD Mr. Carroll and Mr. Hahn are both optimistic about a DVD appearance by fall and hope to have it available to stream on Netflix perhaps this summer. Read up on the RCR and see what you can do to help out. Take a second out of your day. Look at the charities you grew up hearing about. Learn a little bit more about them. Yes, we are all college students and many don’t have that much to give. Sometimes it’s not always about money. Sometimes it’s time and just a little bit of energy. Many times volunteers are needed and for some places just sending a letter to those that are aided by these organizations and charities are appreciated more than you can realize. See if you can do something within your school. I know that growing up our school participated in the Math-A-Thon where all proceeds when to St. Jude Children’s Research Center. St. Jude’s happens to be my favorite organization. I’m pretending right now as I’m typing that I’m not getting emotional just thinking about all that St. Jude has done for thousands of children and their families. So this is my blog this week. A few laughs, but a message asking you to do something. Research. Help. Learn. Do what you can to help those around you. Be thankful for every day you wake up and don’t have to worry about there being a roof over your head, food in your stomach, or if you will make it through the day. Be thankful and find a way to help your fellow human being. Peace, Love, and Cougars Lucille Farrell is a junior Organizational Communications major with a minor in Anthropology. She is originally from New Haven, CT and is involved with the Honors Student Advisory Council, Student Government Association (SGA) and Anthropology Club.